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My loss jewelry came today!

ocnfish4ocnfish4 member
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I was so excited to get my necklace today. It helps me remember my baby Grace and all that might have been. (Please excuse any typose...I"m doing an energydrink/alcohol styudy on campus, and got lots of alcohol  in my drink tonight.)

Here's a pic of my new necklace (that I've shown to just eeveryone today). LEt me know if you can see it or not.

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BFP #1 8/25/12 EDD 4/28/13 Blighted Ovum, D&C 9/20/12 at 8w6d. I'll always remember the first one. My baby Grace. BFP #2 12/26/12 EDD 9/4/13. DS born 9/7/13. My sweet rainbow.
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  • km_mdkm_md member
    Beautiful! It feels nice to have something you can wear in memorial, doesn't it?


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  • SA1112SA1112 member
    It's Beautiful!! How are things going with your DH? Did you ever talk to him about how you were feeling regarding his reaction to naming her?

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    My Ovulation Chart

    BFP #1 3.16.12. mmc 5.7.12 at 11 weeks ~Avery Cameron~

    BFP #2 12.12.12. mmc 1.22.13 at 10 weeks ~Theodore Michael~

    D&C #2 Chromosome analysis results: Translocation Trisomy 14

    My RPL Testing: Homozygous MTHFR, normal karyotype

    DH's karyotype results: Robertsonian Translocation 13:14

    BFP #3 9.10.13 mc at 4 weeks~Our little May Flower~ 

    BFP #4 10.13.13- Our Rainbow Baby, a little girl, arrived June 25, 2014! 

                                                                              


     

     

     

     

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  • cold0009cold0009 member
    that is absolutely beautiful!

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    #2 BFP 9/13/12 EDD 5/20/13 Natural M/C 10/3/12
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  • ocnfish4ocnfish4 member

    imagekm_md:
    Beautiful! It feels nice to have something you can wear in memorial, doesn't it?

    It really does. It makes me comforted to know I can look down and have something I can wear and see in remembering Grace. DH hasn't seen it yet. Probably won't notice it anyway. So its ok. I know what it is, and what it means. And that's all that matters. This necklace and AF being here has made it a good day when it could be a bad day. I remmeber Grace and know I can TTC soon. Those are the two bright spots of my world right now. :)

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    BFP #1 8/25/12 EDD 4/28/13 Blighted Ovum, D&C 9/20/12 at 8w6d. I'll always remember the first one. My baby Grace. BFP #2 12/26/12 EDD 9/4/13. DS born 9/7/13. My sweet rainbow.
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  • ashpink25ashpink25 member

    I love it! Where did you get it? I'm glad that you gave her a name and that it comforts you. ((hugs))

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    Started TTC our first since May 2010
    1st BFP: 8/18/2011.....EDD 4/25/2012
    2nd BFP: 8/19/2012....EDD 4/26/2013

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  • ocnfish4ocnfish4 member

    imageSA1112:
    It's Beautiful!! How are things going with your DH? Did you ever talk to him about how you were feeling regarding his reaction to naming her?

    I have not. I let that subject drop with him. I don't think he is interested in knowing. And if I talk to him more and he still rejects the idea, it'll hurt me more. So I'm keeping that for me (and other people who ask me who my angel wing is for). So far, DH is the only person not supporting the idea. Although I have a feeling his family will feel the same way. So maybe they won't find out.

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    BFP #1 8/25/12 EDD 4/28/13 Blighted Ovum, D&C 9/20/12 at 8w6d. I'll always remember the first one. My baby Grace. BFP #2 12/26/12 EDD 9/4/13. DS born 9/7/13. My sweet rainbow.
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  • LAMCH1980LAMCH1980 member
    I love it!
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    BFP #1 9/1999. DD Born 6/7/2000
    BFP #2 10/2011. EDD 7/11/12. MMC discovered 11/2/11. D&C 11/4/11.
    DX PCOS 10/2012.
    BFP#3 1/11/13. DS Born 9/17/2013
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  • ocnfish4ocnfish4 member
    And I got it on Etsy. I just looked on Etsy for 'Grace Jewelry' and this necklace came up. I knew it as soon as I saw it that it that it was just right for me.
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    BFP #1 8/25/12 EDD 4/28/13 Blighted Ovum, D&C 9/20/12 at 8w6d. I'll always remember the first one. My baby Grace. BFP #2 12/26/12 EDD 9/4/13. DS born 9/7/13. My sweet rainbow.
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  • km_mdkm_md member
    I am glad that it makes you feel better and a day that could have been horrible is not so bad. But it makes me sad that your DH isn't really being supportive. There are a lot of us who have nobody IRL who is really supportive and that is a shame. Some people just don't understand. 


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  • martyn17martyn17 member
    So lovely.
    K & M married 10.8.2011 *** BFP 7.17.2012, EDD 3.21.2013, Miscarriage at 6 wks 3 days *** BFP #2 11.7.2012, beautiful Tess born 7.11.2013
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  • LaTi07LaTi07 member
    It's beautiful! It's been over a year and a half and I still love having my memorial necklace for our LO.

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    ♥BFP #2 "Offspring"- 11/10/12 | EDD: 07/25/13 | incomplete m/c 12/14/12 @8w1d | D&C 12/21/12♥
    ♥BFP #3 "Progeny" - 02/16/15 | It's a BOY!! | EDD: 10/17/15 | BD: 10/23/15♥
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  • lsuhoneybadgerlsuhoneybadger member
    Beautiful!
    BFP #1:  8/10/11 EDD: 4/9/12 Natural miscarriage @ 7 weeks: 8/20/11
    BFP #2: 8/31/12 EDD: 5/18/13 Chemical pregnancy: 9/4/12
    BFP #3:  5/17/13  EDD: 1/24/14 Loss at 5 weeks: 5/29/13

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    Lots of testing, all clear with the exception of compound heterozygous for the MTHFR mutation. 

    Cycle 1: Femara, trigger shot, Bravelle added due to slow response = BFN
    Cycle 2: Cancelled due to two cysts =(
    Cycle 3: Femara, Bravelle, trigger shot and IUI = BFP then loss #3
    Cycle 4: Femara, Follistim, trigger shot and IUI = BFP!  EDD: 6/7/14

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  • TLR813TLR813 member

    It's beautiful!  I've been considering getting a necklace myself.

    ::runs off to check out etsy:: 

    BFP #1: 3/3/12, EDD: 11/11/12, Missed M/C: 4/3/12 @ 8 weeks 2 days, D&C: 4/6/12
    BFP #2: 6/29/12, EDD: 3/8/13, Natural M/C: 7/16/12 @ 6 weeks 2 days
    Hashimoto's Thyroiditis, Hypothyroidism
    BFP #3: Kendall Grace, born 9/30/13
    BFP #4: 9/3/14, EDD: 5/16/15, Missed M/C: 10/6/14 @ 8 weeks 2 days, D&C: 10/8/14
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  • rlajamberlajambe member
    I'm not really into loss jewelry (jewelry in general, actually), but that's beautiful.

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    BFP #2 - 10/30/12, EDD 07/04/13, Natural m/c @ 5 weeks 11/01/12
    BFP #3 - 02/07/13, EDD 10/12/13
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