September 2011 Moms

So torn

I live in NY and so we are expected to get hit with hurricane Sandy. I am scheduled to work 12 hours tomorrow- I am a nurse. The hospital already called me to make sure I was going to come. I am so torn. If I go I will probably get stuck at the hospital and not make it home tomorrow night based on the forecast. I will hopefully make it home on Tues but that isn't guaranteed. It is bothering me so much that I am going to be away from A for an unknown amount of time. DH is going to work from home so A will be in good hands. But I hate that during a potentially dangerous storm I won't be here. If something happened to A I wouldn't be able to get home. But they need nurses to take care of the patients who can't all go home just because a hurricane is coming. DH doesn't want me to go at all. But if I can safely get there I really should try. It is so frustrating. I am just going to hope it won't be as bad as they think and worst case I can get home Tues morning. 
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Me: 35, DH: 40
TTC # 2 since 8/13, Dx: unexplained secondary infertility
Clomid cycles 7/14 & 8/14= BFN
IUI # 1 (clomid) 8/27/14= BFN
IUI # 2 (clomid and follistim) 9/25/14= BFN
IUI # 3 (femara and follistim) 10/23/14= BFN
IUI # 4 (femara and follistim) 11/20/14= BFN
12/12/14- saline sono shows two polyps
2/15- two uterine polyps and "schmutz" (RE's words) removed
8/15- surprise BFP! Beta #1 70 Beta #2 150 

Re: So torn

  • I understand you don't want to be away from A. That would be hard for me too. If it were me, I'd try to go to work. I always hated calling off. A will be with your hubby, so that's a great thing. It's not like A will be with someone else. That would be call off material for me. Lol.

    Please stay safe, and don't worry mama!
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  • I'm in NY too, and I really hope this is all hype! Unfortunately I think you have one of those jobs that are still a total necessity even at times like this :(

    If you don't go, what type of consequences will you face?

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  • Thanks ladies. I am going to try to get there. I know that if one or two nurses don't show up it makes for a really difficult time for the nurses who are there. Hopefully going in won't be too bad and then if I have to stay over maybe it will be just one night. Manda- I don't think there will be consequences if I legitimately can't get there. I just feel bad since I have only been at this job for two and a half months. I don't want them to get the impression I will just call out without any effort. 
    "From the moment I first saw you, the second that you were born, I knew that you were the love of my life" Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Me: 35, DH: 40
    TTC # 2 since 8/13, Dx: unexplained secondary infertility
    Clomid cycles 7/14 & 8/14= BFN
    IUI # 1 (clomid) 8/27/14= BFN
    IUI # 2 (clomid and follistim) 9/25/14= BFN
    IUI # 3 (femara and follistim) 10/23/14= BFN
    IUI # 4 (femara and follistim) 11/20/14= BFN
    12/12/14- saline sono shows two polyps
    2/15- two uterine polyps and "schmutz" (RE's words) removed
    8/15- surprise BFP! Beta #1 70 Beta #2 150 
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