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I miss the PgAL ladies..

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but every time I start to lurk over there I feel stabby, which is stupid because I like them and I'm glad they're happy.  This might be a first world problem... lol.  I wish more of them posted over here.  
TTC since June 2011
BFP #1 11/18/11 - m/c 12/24/11 blighted ovum - EDD 08/01/12
BFP #2 08/04/12 - m/c 08/29/12 no answers - EDD 04/17/13
BFP #3 10/01/12 - m/c 10/30/12 uniparental disomy - EDD 06/04/13
BFP #4 04/12/13 - EDD 12/22/13  It's a GIRL!
compound heterozygous MTHFR   -   All AL Welcome

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Re: I miss the PgAL ladies..

  • misternmissmisternmiss member
    Oh, so we're not good enough?!

    :::runs off to cry in the corner:::
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  • AudUyAudUy
    I lurk here all of the time.
    BFP#1 11/25/11 EDD 08/09/12 MMC 01/30/12 D&C 02/01/12
    BFP#2 09/11/12 beta1=72 @13dpo beta2=160 @14dpo beta3=over 6000 @24dpo U/S @7w2dd hb=146bpm U/S @8w5d hb=159bpm U/S @12w hb=164bpm
    EDD 05/20/13
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  • OttersBiteOttersBite

    imagemisternmiss:
    Oh, so we're not good enough?! :::runs off to cry in the corner:::

    Well that's not what I meant! Stick out tongue  But now you stay in the corner for thinking such things!

    TTC since June 2011
    BFP #1 11/18/11 - m/c 12/24/11 blighted ovum - EDD 08/01/12
    BFP #2 08/04/12 - m/c 08/29/12 no answers - EDD 04/17/13
    BFP #3 10/01/12 - m/c 10/30/12 uniparental disomy - EDD 06/04/13
    BFP #4 04/12/13 - EDD 12/22/13  It's a GIRL!
    compound heterozygous MTHFR   -   All AL Welcome

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  • km_mdkm_md member
    I miss them all as well. They were all such incredible supports and I miss having them. So I can't imagine how you must feel. ((hugs))


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  • OttersBiteOttersBite

    imageAudUy:
    I lurk here all of the time.

    You get a cookie :)

     

    TTC since June 2011
    BFP #1 11/18/11 - m/c 12/24/11 blighted ovum - EDD 08/01/12
    BFP #2 08/04/12 - m/c 08/29/12 no answers - EDD 04/17/13
    BFP #3 10/01/12 - m/c 10/30/12 uniparental disomy - EDD 06/04/13
    BFP #4 04/12/13 - EDD 12/22/13  It's a GIRL!
    compound heterozygous MTHFR   -   All AL Welcome

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  • brihall003brihall003 member
    I miss them too.
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  • lindsayanne14lindsayanne14 member

    Yup, it stinks! I was only over there for about 10 days after my 2nd BFP, but it's so exciting to be over there and be among ladies who give you hope for a rainbow baby. It makes it very hard to leave....and to not be envious of the ladies who get to stay!  It's a strange feeling to be happy for someone and envious of them at the same time!  (((hugs)))

    Edited to add: It took me about a month of being back over here before I could even lurk over there at all Sad

    BFP #1 4/10/12 D&C 6/5/12@ 12.5wks EDD 12/17/12
    BFP #2 9/10/12 CP 9/19/12@ 5.5wks EDD 5/21/13
    BFP# 3 12/3/12...Lukas James born 8/15/13
    BFP# 4 8/4/14 EDD 4/13/15

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  • OttersBiteOttersBite
    Now I feel all warm and squishy! Party!!! 
    TTC since June 2011
    BFP #1 11/18/11 - m/c 12/24/11 blighted ovum - EDD 08/01/12
    BFP #2 08/04/12 - m/c 08/29/12 no answers - EDD 04/17/13
    BFP #3 10/01/12 - m/c 10/30/12 uniparental disomy - EDD 06/04/13
    BFP #4 04/12/13 - EDD 12/22/13  It's a GIRL!
    compound heterozygous MTHFR   -   All AL Welcome

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  • kread8kread8 member
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    Like some of the pps said, I lurk here every day but I don't post for fear of hurting someone's feelings. I am rooting for everyone to get their bfps and rainbow babies ASAP!!!! Love you ALL!!!

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    M/C 7/8/12

    Perfect baby boy born 7/8/13

    BFP 8/20/14 EDD 4/27/15 It's a GIRL!!

     

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  • OttersBiteOttersBite
    What's the general consensus on you all posting over here?  I was never real clear on that...  I thought if we had a note in our siggy then PgAL'ers were welcome to post on our threads but it looks like most of you feel like you might upset people.  Do we really have to stay in our separate corners?
    TTC since June 2011
    BFP #1 11/18/11 - m/c 12/24/11 blighted ovum - EDD 08/01/12
    BFP #2 08/04/12 - m/c 08/29/12 no answers - EDD 04/17/13
    BFP #3 10/01/12 - m/c 10/30/12 uniparental disomy - EDD 06/04/13
    BFP #4 04/12/13 - EDD 12/22/13  It's a GIRL!
    compound heterozygous MTHFR   -   All AL Welcome

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  • asglover514asglover514 member
    I did too when I left, but by now I think the ones I knew have moved to PAL. *sigh* it sucks. *hugs*
    Stephanie Lynn 
    *BFP3:7/10/14 EDD: 3/19/15--Renley Alexander born 3/12/15!!*
    11/17/14-adopted a furbaby named Luna (born 9/05/14)
    BFP2: 11/25/11-Aaron Alexander born sleeping at 31 weeks on 05/31/12
    BFP1: 07/28/11-EDD:3/19/12, natural MC 09/12/11 at 12 wks-HB and growth stopped at 6wks
    S&A together since 05/14/11

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  • katharine25katharine25 member
    imageOttersBite:
    What's the general consensus on you all posting over here?nbsp; I was never real clear on that...nbsp; I thought if we had a note in our siggy then PgAL'ers were welcome to post on our threads but it looks like most of you feel like you might upset people.nbsp; Do we really have to stay in our separate corners?


    Few people actually go by the strict rules of the blog, and err on the side of caution instead.

    That said, I've always thought it was a bit silly to have "siggy" warnings when the rainbow info is just in text, which a lot of PgAL'ers do. More often than not it calls attention to the fact they are pg when otherwise it would have gone unnoticed.

    I do think "ticker" warnings are good because the graphic is what stings and is harder to ignore.

    Just my 2 cents
    Married My Love on 6/18/2006
    BFP#1 10/1/2011. Our perfect little girl, Her heart stopped @ 12w1d. D&E 11/23/11
    BFP#2 3/13/12 Weird CP/Possible EP @ 6w0d
    BFP#3 5/28/12 CP @ 5w0d
    BFP/WTF#4 10/26/12 CP
    BFP#5 12/10/12 EDD 8/23/2013
    <3 Baby Boy Born 8/22/13 <3
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  • delinodelino member

    ***siggy***

     

    I lurk here just as much as PGAL.  I often want to chime in with hugs, but when someone is posting that they're having a bad day, I feel like me posting with my siggy is going to make it even worse. 

    3 ectopic pregnancies (EDD's 1/30/12-tube removed, 6/2/12-methotrexate and 10/2/12-methotrexate)
    IVF and Natural FET resulted in BFN's and a hole in our wallets
    Natural BFP #4 on 9/7/12 gave us our miracle on 5/18/13
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  • HayleyBaker1122HayleyBaker1122 member

    *******Ticker Warning********

     

    I miss everyone from over here so much! I lurk over here every day. I can't wait to see more of you ladies come join us!

     

    BFP #1 7/15/2012
    Natural Miscarriage 8/4/2012 at 7 weeks
    BFP #2 10/26/12 - Baby Jack - Due 7/6/13 - Born 6/7/13
    (born prematurely at 35w 6d, perfectly healthy with no NICU time needed)
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  • ravenclaw1ravenclaw1 member

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    I lurk over here every day, hoping to see good things from you ladies.

    I also chose for that reason (and others, really) not to have a big ole ticker... I feel like my listing in my sig is a little less obtrusive.  

    BFP #1 - Mango - 6/11/12, EDD 2/22/12 Natural MC 7/15/12
    BFP #2 - Nacho - 10/14/12, EDD 6/20/13, MMC 8 weeks, D&C 11/16/12
    All testing shows both H and I are perfectly normal. Baby Nacho had triploidy. 
    Back to normal business December 2012
    BFP #3 - Froggy - 1/15/13, EDD 9/27/13 TEAM GREEN
    It's a girl! Alice - Born 9/20/13, 8lbs 2oz

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  • RachaeleighRachaeleigh member
    I miss them too. I lurk over there everyday and even my previous BMB at times just to check up on all of them.

    4 Losses (2003, 2008, Apr 2012, & Oct 2012)
    All RPL and IF testing with multiple REs = normal

    5 IUIs = BFN

    All AL are welcome
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  • kwilson158kwilson158

    ::Ticker warning::

    I lurk everyday sometimes more then once...The wonderful ladies of TTCAL were so good to me after my loss, that I want to step in and check on you ladies..I very seldom post because I don't want to risk hurting someone....

    Love all you ladies...

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  • killian09killian09 member

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    We miss you ladies too!  I'm lurking here all the time, but hold myself back from posting because I don't want to contribute to anyone's pain.  ((Hugs))  I hope we can all hang out and *stay* together on PGAL very soon! 

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  • hopefulreturnhopefulreturn member
    I miss all the grads too! Glad to hear many of you still lurk. I lurk quite a bit on PgAL during the two week window. Then I avoid it like a plague for two weeks. I was wondering where so many familiar names went recently! 
    August 2015 January Siggy: Favorite Mean Girl

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    *BFP #1 9/10/11 Natural m/c 11/1/11 at 11 weeks, 5 days*
    *Diagnosed as unexplained infertility*
    *BFP #2 12/6/14 after IUI#2 Hopeful! EDD 8/14/15*

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  • OttersBiteOttersBite

    This thread is great, it's like a reunion!  The siggys and tickers have never bothered me but I can see how they might upset someone, I'm having a hard time with the u/s updates when I try to lurk over there but I'll get over it eventually.  It's nice to know that so many of you lurk at least and thanks for all the hugs.  :)

    imagerachaelhudson:
    I miss them too. I lurk over there everyday and even my previous BMB at times just to check up on all of them.

    I do that too, I have a hard time with the June board now but I like to lurk on Aug. 2012 and see how the babies are doing.  I guess that might be weird but I can't seem to let that first m/c go.

    TTC since June 2011
    BFP #1 11/18/11 - m/c 12/24/11 blighted ovum - EDD 08/01/12
    BFP #2 08/04/12 - m/c 08/29/12 no answers - EDD 04/17/13
    BFP #3 10/01/12 - m/c 10/30/12 uniparental disomy - EDD 06/04/13
    BFP #4 04/12/13 - EDD 12/22/13  It's a GIRL!
    compound heterozygous MTHFR   -   All AL Welcome

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  • TheatreStar86TheatreStar86 member
    imageOttersBite:

    This thread is great, it's like a reunion!  The siggys and tickers have never bothered me but I can see how they might upset someone, I'm having a hard time with the u/s updates when I try to lurk over there but I'll get over it eventually.  It's nice to know that so many of you lurk at least and thanks for all the hugs.  :)

    imagerachaelhudson:
    I miss them too. I lurk over there everyday and even my previous BMB at times just to check up on all of them.

    I do that too, I have a hard time with the June board now but I like to lurk on Aug. 2012 and see how the babies are doing.  I guess that might be weird but I can't seem to let that first m/c go.

     

    Agreed! Thanks for starting the thread, Otter! 

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    TTC since July 2011

    BFP # 1: m/c at 7wks (EDD May 2012) 

    BFP #2: c/p in Nov. 2012 

    BFP #3: July 24th, 2013 (EDD April 4th, 2014)

    *PgAL / PAL Always Welcome*

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  • BritsyB8BritsyB8

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    I lurk here all the time! I check in on you ladies every time I log on the Bump. I never post anything because I don't want to ever hurt anyone or catch someone on a bad day. I love you all and am praying that you all get to move over to pgal soon!

    TTC:Off BCP December 2011. BFP #1 January 16, 2012; EDD September 12, 2012; m/c Feb,1 2012. BFP #2 June 6, 2012; EDD February 11, 2013; diagnosed with blighted ovum/had D&C July 12,2012. BFP #3 October 20, 2012; EDD June 29, 2013. BabyFruit Ticker Sunshine_zps3fcf529f
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  • Jenibug05Jenibug05 member
    I miss the PgAL ladies as well. I recently went over there to stalk and noticed a lot more 'faces' over there that just graduated recently. As much as I'm excited for them, it did burn a bit to see so many that had around the same EDD as m/c dates as me and that they are passing me by. I completely understand. I'm happy for anyone that is on PgAL, but I just wish so much I could be pg and join them and have our rainbow baby.
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