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Milestones Blow (loss & baby mentioned)

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So today is one month since the loss.  I had a plan this morning go to work, do not dwell, get wine on the way home, get taco bell, & watch football with DH while drinking wine.  At 2:00 my plan was blown the eff outta the water.  I was doing pretty good, until I had a walk-in client for a full set of nails at 2.  The girl was a mess.  She was obviously high.  I started working on her nails which were bitten so far down I could barely get tips on them.  From the look of her skin, face, and hair I know she did meth, but from the looks of her eyes and the smell I also knew she had just smoked a fair amount of pot.  She kept falling asleep in my chair, the would start jerking.  She brought her friend in with her who was leaning over and her boob kept falling out I saw nipple 3 times.  I was almost half way through when she appoligized for falling asleep.  Her excuse...her baby kept her awake till one.  I thought I was going to throw up.  My co-worker was close enough to hear it and was able to distract me with a question, so I could keep it together.  And DH met me at the door with my wine.  I just don't get why women who are on this board and would die for a baby to keep them up all night have such a hard time, and then there is this mess of a women who has one and is doing drugs and complaining. 

Ok, I'm done.  I love you girls thanks for listening.



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  • Gatorsgirl731Gatorsgirl731 member

    Yes he did well.

    How were the doggie birthdays?



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  • Ktbug613Ktbug613 member

    HUGE hugs thats really hard to hear Sad

    Life is really unfair sometimes

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  • cold0009cold0009 member
    I know what you mean.  I work in the corrections field and see this everyday.  I just don't get it. Sorry that an already hard day became harder ((hugs)).

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  • AmeliaKrisAmeliaKris member
    Super big hugs!
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  • RedPhoenix625RedPhoenix625
    AARRGGGHHH.  I may have lost it.  That sucks, hon.  Sorry :(

    That's it...who's becoming a crack/meth whore with me? 
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  • TLR813TLR813 member

    Wow!  So unfair!!  I'm glad DH met you at the door with wine!

    ((HUGS))

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    imageRedPhoenix625:
    AARRGGGHHH.  I may have lost it.  That sucks, hon.  Sorry :(

    That's it...who's becoming a crack/meth whore with me? 

    This made me lol this morning. Thanks ladies. I appreciate the hugs.  I've had pg women at work all week, but this one was just wrong.  All I could think was I should report you to DFS. 



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  • KristintificKristintific member
    Ugh that sucks so bad.  Apparently the big lesson is: smoke crack, have a baby.... Amiright? :( 
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  • EKGibsEKGibs member

    ugh I'm so sorry. its just not fair that people like that can have a baby & women who do everything right, take care of themselves, & would love their babies more than anything cant get pregnant or loose their babies. (((hugs)))

    also I'm sorry about the one month mark. milestones like that can be hard.

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  • lindsayanne14lindsayanne14 member
    Sorry about this!! Situations like this are so hard to avoid and so very painful when they happen...(((hugs)))

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  • pkarenpkaren member
    Wow.....just wow....she sounds like a class act. Definately a throat punch candidate for sure. ((HUGS))
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