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teesabree · October 2012

me my partner have been trying to get pregnant for over a year now, I don't know much about pregnancy terms but I do know I have something called a cyst in my uterus. Could that be making me less fertile? Also my period is very irregular . Sometimes being a week early to a week late . My last period was almost two weeks late which made him I think it was our time only to be discouraged once again. I have reason to believe I cannot have babies because even with an ex we tried for three years and nothing . I want to be a mommy so bad but maybe it's just not in my cards.

PrimRoseMama · October 2012

Have you consulted a Reproductive Specialist? I'm sorry you are having such a hard time.

sugarellie · October 2012

Is the cyst in on your ovary or actually in your uterus? I would think if it was in your uterus you should get it removed... and the doctor who found the cyst.. they should be able to tell you if it is affecting your fertility. My advice: go to the Dr, if you have been trying for a year you should go to a RE

shakes · October 2012

Fertility can be pretty complex. Have you gone to a dr about any of this? I would start charting and make an apt with your OB and take it from there. Cysts do not mean infertility. Good luck.

PrimRoseMama · October 2012

auroraloo:
PrimRoseMama:
Have you consulted a Reproductive Specialist? I'm sorry you are having such a hard time.
Prim, you need to work on your mud-spotting skills.

It might be MUD, but it seems like this poster might be having a hard time. Meh, in the off chance she's legit I figured I'd play nice.

PrimRoseMama · October 2012

auroraloo:
PrimRoseMama:
auroraloo:
PrimRoseMama:
Have you consulted a Reproductive Specialist? I'm sorry you are having such a hard time.
Prim, you need to work on your mud-spotting skills.

It might be MUD, but it seems like this poster might be having a hard time. Meh, in the off chance she's legit I figured I'd play nice.
It is not nice to refer someone to an RE with absolutely no knowledge of her history. "trying for three years with an ex" is not a history.
Also, thank for defining the reason this board has gone to helll.

I didn't recommend that she go to one. I just asked the question if she had seen one. There is a difference.

I was hoping it might encourage more history disclosure from the OP.

CMSullivan326 · October 2012

auroraloo:
PrimRoseMama:
auroraloo:
PrimRoseMama:
Have you consulted a Reproductive Specialist? I'm sorry you are having such a hard time.
Prim, you need to work on your mud-spotting skills.

It might be MUD, but it seems like this poster might be having a hard time. Meh, in the off chance she's legit I figured I'd play nice.
It is not nice to refer someone to an RE with absolutely no knowledge of her history. "trying for three years with an ex" is not a history.
Also, thank for defining the reason this board has gone to helll.

Yep, rora's back. Lol

MindyBadger1 · October 2012

teesabree:
me my partner have been trying to get pregnant for over a year now, I don't know much about pregnancy terms but I do know I have something called a cyst in my uterus. Could that be making me less fertile? Also my period is very irregular . Sometimes being a week early to a week late . My last period was almost two weeks late which made him I think it was our time only to be discouraged once again. I have reason to believe I cannot have babies because even with an ex we tried for three years and nothing . I want to be a mommy so bad but maybe it's just not in my cards.

Why have you not seen a doctor yet? Why put yourself through hell and what ifs and wasted time/effort if it truly isn't in the cards or if there is a simple solution to the problem?

karda2011 · October 2012

auroraloo:

PrimRoseMama:
auroraloo:
PrimRoseMama:
Have you consulted a Reproductive Specialist? I'm sorry you are having such a hard time.
Prim, you need to work on your mud-spotting skills.
It might be MUD, but it seems like this poster might be having a hard time. Meh, in the off chance she's legit I figured I'd play nice.
It is not nice to refer someone to an RE with absolutely no knowledge of her history. "trying for three years with an ex" is not a history.
Also, thank for defining the reason this board has gone to helll.

Aurora, I must say that I do not remember you being this awesome last time around but I am really digging it!

PrimRoseMama · October 2012

karda2011:
auroraloo:

PrimRoseMama:
auroraloo:
PrimRoseMama:
Have you consulted a Reproductive Specialist? I'm sorry you are having such a hard time.
Prim, you need to work on your mud-spotting skills.
It might be MUD, but it seems like this poster might be having a hard time. Meh, in the off chance she's legit I figured I'd play nice.
It is not nice to refer someone to an RE with absolutely no knowledge of her history. "trying for three years with an ex" is not a history.
Also, thank for defining the reason this board has gone to helll.

Aurora, I must say that I do not remember you being this awesome last time around but I am really digging it! 

If jumping all over simple questions in a post is awesome then I must be missing out.

teesabree · October 2012

I'm not exactly sure where , that was a while ago the dr told me because of an ultrasound when I suspected pregnancy . He explained it was not " harmful " but did not go into detail .

MindyBadger1 · October 2012

teesabree:
That is our next step, I'm just afraid of what the news may be .

Don't be afraid! You could be working yourself up for no reason and wasting a lot of baby-making time. Empower yourself and seek answers. Right Hug

Yes, I'm emo today.

teesabree · October 2012

MindyBadger1:
teesabree:
me my partner have been trying to get pregnant for over a year now, I don't know much about pregnancy terms but I do know I have something called a cyst in my uterus. Could that be making me less fertile? Also my period is very irregular . Sometimes being a week early to a week late . My last period was almost two weeks late which made him I think it was our time only to be discouraged once again. I have reason to believe I cannot have babies because even with an ex we tried for three years and nothing . I want to be a mommy so bad but maybe it's just not in my cards.
 Why have you not seen a doctor yet? Why put yourself through hell and what ifs and wasted time/effort if it truly isn't in the cards or if there is a simple solution to the problem?

that is our next step , he's been pushing me I'm just scared of what the news may be

BMnatz11 · October 2012

teesabree:
MindyBadger1:
teesabree:
me my partner have been trying to get pregnant for over a year now, I don't know much about pregnancy terms but I do know I have something called a cyst in my uterus. Could that be making me less fertile? Also my period is very irregular . Sometimes being a week early to a week late . My last period was almost two weeks late which made him I think it was our time only to be discouraged once again. I have reason to believe I cannot have babies because even with an ex we tried for three years and nothing . I want to be a mommy so bad but maybe it's just not in my cards.
Why have you not seen a doctor yet? Why put yourself through hell and what ifs and wasted time/effort if it truly isn't in the cards or if there is a simple solution to the problem?
that is our next step , he's been pushing me I'm just scared of what the news may be

Pretty sure it's better to know if there is a problem and start dealing with it than to live in fear that something might be wrong, especially if there's nothing wrong.

JonBon18 · October 2012

CLECyclist:
MindyBadger1:

Yes, I'm emo today.

You sure are.

Only when today means everyday.

CaliforniaDream87 · October 2012

Sorry about what you are dealing with.

As far as your questions about your cysts: you need to discuss these things with your doctor.

GL.

MrsJumbo · October 2012

JonBon18:

Youre Couples Halloween costume is totally DH and I this year!!!!!! Awesomeness

jschwind22 · October 2012

I would not consider your period as irregular. Saying that you are "early" or "late" tells me that you don't know when you are ovulating and therefore may not be timing sex well. Read the newbie link and see a doctor for the cyst.

JonBon18 · October 2012

MrsJumbo:
JonBon18:
Youre Couples Halloween costume is totally DH and I this year!!!!!! Awesomeness

So cool! I'd do couples costumes, but DH is so not into Halloween boo

Guillerma · October 2012

jschwind22:
I would not consider your period as irregular. Saying that you are "early" or "late" tells me that you don't know when you are ovulating and therefore may not be timing sex well. Read the newbie link and see a doctor for the cyst.

Agree with this. Early or late according to what? A period tracker app? 28 days?

Try charting to see when/if you ovulate and visit your doctor. If you're worried enough to post on the internet about it, you would probably feel better having answers from a doctor you trust about your concerns.

Good luck.

teesabree · October 2012

Guillerma:
jschwind22:
I would not consider your period as irregular.  Saying that you are "early" or "late" tells me that you don't know when you are ovulating and therefore may not be timing sex well.  Read the newbie link and see a doctor for the cyst.
 Agree with this. Early or late according to what? A period tracker app? 28 days?
Try charting to see when/if you ovulate and visit your doctor. If you're worried enough to post on the internet about it, you would probably feel better having answers from a doctor you trust about your concerns.
 Good luck.
 

early/late referring to one cycle being 28 days then 30 days then 29 then 34 like it's never the same. And thanx I guess ..

GermanGirl2007 · October 2012

jschwind22:
I would not consider your period as irregular. Saying that you are "early" or "late" tells me that you don't know when you are ovulating and therefore may not be timing sex well. Read the newbie link and see a doctor for the cyst.

Totally agree with this. As usual, good advice Schwind.

curlylocks3 · October 2012

teesabree:
Guillerma:
jschwind22:
I would not consider your period as irregular. Saying that you are "early" or "late" tells me that you don't know when you are ovulating and therefore may not be timing sex well. Read the newbie link and see a doctor for the cyst.
Agree with this. Early or late according to what? A period tracker app? 28 days?
Try charting to see when/if you ovulate and visit your doctor. If you're worried enough to post on the internet about it, you would probably feel better having answers from a doctor you trust about your concerns.
Good luck.

early/late referring to one cycle being 28 days then 30 days then 29 then 34 like it's never the same. And thanx I guess ..

Thats not early or late. Many people do not ovulate on the same day every cycle, those are very normal cycle lengths.

jschwind22 · October 2012

teesabree:
Guillerma:

jschwind22:
I would not consider your period as irregular. Saying that you are "early" or "late" tells me that you don't know when you are ovulating and therefore may not be timing sex well. Read the newbie link and see a doctor for the cyst.

Agree with this. Early or late according to what? A period tracker app? 28 days?

Try charting to see when/if you ovulate and visit your doctor. If you're worried enough to post on the internet about it, you would probably feel better having answers from a doctor you trust about your concerns.

Good luck.

early/late referring to one cycle being 28 days then 30 days then 29 then 34 like it's never the same. And thanx I guess ..

How long your cycle is depends on when you ovulate. It has nothing to do with being early or late. If you chart your cycles and learn about your body this will make sense.

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