Ok I have just about two actual weeks of work and I'm beyond "on E"..........how much longer do you have till your maternity leave and how are you handling being overly tired? I fell twice last week...stupid gravity and I think my body is telling me to slow down......ugh!!! All I want to do is wash clothes, sanitize bottles/pacifiers, get car seat out and swing but nope! Work is in the way!! I want some relaxation! You?
Re: Still working Mammas......
BFP #1 5/4/11 EDD 1/12/12 natural m/c 5/17/11
BFP #2 8/9/11 EDD 4/18/12 ectopic pregnancy (methotrexate) 8/24/11 ruptured tube and removal 8/29/11
BFP #3 3/9/12 EDD 11/19/12 Logan born 11/18/12
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THIS!
I will be leaving behind quite a handful for my supervisor to take over while I am gone and with me being so anal and OCD, I want to make sure I do as much as possible before I can't be at work anymore. I figure the more I get done on my own, the less she will have to do while I am gone and the less I will have to fix (hahaha! I really do love my supervisor) when I get back.
I'm working right up until the end. When I asked for my LOA to start after my due date, my HR rep thought I was crazy, but I was adamant. The way it works with my company, is the day your leave starts is your last day. If you go earlier, they will amend that, but not if you go later. The last thing I wanted was to go early and wait at home for a month for the baby to arrive. I get eight weeks, period, and I want them all to be spent at home with my son, my SO, and my new Star Wars BluRays.
It is tough though, and I am constantly stressed that I will go early and leave something unfinished, so I've been working a ridiculous number of hours. Physically, I'm fine, but emotionally it's getting harder, because this is the last time for the next 30 years or so that it will be just SO and I. Last night, we filled up the bathtub for some sexy splash time, and I fell asleep. In the tub. Romance, fail.
Working until he comes. While I had the time to take beforehand, it's our busiest time at work and my last deadline is two days before my EDD. I just don't have it in me to not be at work during that time. Also, I plan on taking 12 weeks after LO comes, so any time I take before that under FMLA would take off what I get at home after he comes. Not worth it to me. I will be working until 11/16, due date 11/18, I am taking off the week of Thanksgiving because I always do, and I'll return to work the Monday after if LO isn't here (he better be here!).
I'm freaking exhausted by the time I get home, especially since we are working overtime. I'm uncomfortable as heck in the office (it feels like it is sweltering in the place and I am swollen from almost the minute I get in), but I get to work from home two days a week and really flex my time so I can work at home on the weekends to get time/overtime in.
I will work from home starting week 37, and then go out on week 39.
I'm tired by the end of the day, but have a desk job so it isn't too bad. I have no idea how you elementary school teachers are handling it!
I'm off work Nov 1 and EDD Nov 26th, so I gave myself a good deal of time to relax. I work wholesale/retail and November gets crazy for the holidays, I didn't want to be that stressed out.
That said, I am training my replacement, which has seriously cut into my dicking around at work time. I've barely been trolling the bump boards, and my Fantasy Football team has really suffered from my neglect. Plus, I'm stressed because I am horrible at verbalizing how to do things. But, at the same time so bored because I'm just watching someone else do my job.
Really looking forward to my babymoon in Palm Springs next week, then I can get focused and get stuff done.