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Can anyone spare some T&Ps for a paranoid PGALer?

pinktrojanbride120107pinktrojanbride120107 member
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It could very well be PGAL brain, but I can't help but be extra scared today. Today felt different from the past couple of weeks - more energy, next to no nausea, even my breasts don't feel tender anymore. Other than a loss of symptoms today (which I know can be very normal), and a headache that makes me think (hormones dropping!) I have no reason to be worried. I just don't feel pregnant anymore, and it scares me, because this is how I felt last time and I didn't start bleeding until week 12. I never knew when the baby stopped growing.

i know we're all scared, and I feel so selfish to be asking for T&Ps when I'm not facing a dire situation, but my heart is heavy and I feel like no one else understands my fear the way you ladies do. If you can spare an extra good vibe for me, I'd really appreciate it. I don't know how I'm going to make it until next Monday's ultrasound appointment, 

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BFP#1 - 11/13/11, Natural MC - 12/24/11 at 12 weeks
BFP#2 - 10/2/12, Please be our rainbow.
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Re: Can anyone spare some T&Ps for a paranoid PGALer?

  • atangiblewishatangiblewish member
    Wow its a worry night for us all. Sending you lots of T&P's *hugs*

    m/c 2002 7w2d
    bfp 9.6.12 | edd 5.17.13 | m/c 9.19.12 5w5d

    bfp 10.18.12 | edd 6/28/13

    beta#1 10.18.12 - 96 / progestrone 32 || beta#2 10.22.12 - 711 || beta#3 10.25.12 - 2608 DD born 6/27/13

    bfp 7.16.14 | edd 3/27/15

    beta#1 7.18.14 - 149 || beta#2 7.21.14 - ??


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  • Meow7511Meow7511
    Hugs! T&P your way!!
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  • hollimarhollimar member
    Tp hunie!! Think good thoughts!!!!
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  • GregermisGregermis member
    [[[hugs]]]. Sorry you are having a rough time right now. PgAL can be really hard.
    TTC #1 Since 4/2010, Cycle 30
    Positive for HLA-B27, I'm a mutant :p
    Testing - Me ok, gluten issue? DH - borderline count, low motility
    4/28/11 IUI#1 = BFP!(5/25), EDD 2/2/12 - m/c 5w3d
    7/3, 7/31, 9/25 - IUI#2-4=BFN
    IVF#1 - 1 blast = BFP!! (12/30), EDD 9/9/12, confirmed c/p 4w2d
    FET#1 3/2/12 - 2 blasts =BFP!! EDD 11/18/12, us#1 = twins! Confirmed m/c 5w6d
    4/20-surprise BFP and another c/p 4w2d
    FET#2 7/16/12 - 2 blasts = BFN
    FET#3 8/20/12 - 1 blast - BFP!! Beta #1-2=177, 354
    1st u/s 5w6d, one beautiful little HB :), 2nd u/s 146bpm
    baby girl born 5/10/13

    TTC#2 since 12/17/2014, Cycle 8
    Repeat Testing...FSH=12, AMH=3.8, AFC=28. 
    IUI#5 5/10/15- c/p?
    IVF#2 8/19/15 - cancelled due to cysts
    IVF#2 take two 10/2015 - 5 blasts frozen
    FET#4 12/11/2015 - BFN - 4 blasts remaining
    FET#5 2/18/16 - BFP!!!  Beta1-3, 126, 250, 745!!

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  • zombiemommyzombiemommy member
    Don't feel bad! That's why we're all here for each other. I'll be thinking about you and hoping that tomorrow is a crazy, symptom-filled day!
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    Lost our first little peanut on 1/17/2012 at 9 weeks and 5 days. We miss you little blessing, but we know you were too perfect for this world.
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  • AudUyAudUy
    My thoughts and prayers are with you. For what it's worth, when I was 7w1d and 7w2d my symptoms dropped dramatically. Unrelated, I had an u/s on 7w2d and LO looked great. My symptoms came raring back on 7w3d. I'm sure you'll return to feeling happily sick very soon.
    BFP#1 11/25/11 EDD 08/09/12 MMC 01/30/12 D&C 02/01/12
    BFP#2 09/11/12 beta1=72 @13dpo beta2=160 @14dpo beta3=over 6000 @24dpo U/S @7w2dd hb=146bpm U/S @8w5d hb=159bpm U/S @12w hb=164bpm
    EDD 05/20/13
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  • KacyChicagoKacyChicago member
    Sorry you're having to worry, but hopefully you'll be back to feeling gross in no time. Knowing what we've already been through, sometimes it is tough to think there will be a different outcome ... I just have a lot of hope for you.
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    We lost our first (EDD 07/23/12) after finding out at 12 weeks there was no longer a heartbeat. Our rainbow was born 05/22/13 and was worth all we went through.

    “So can you understand? Why I want a daughter while I’m still young? I wanna hold her hand and show her some beauty before all this damage is done. But if it’s too much to ask, it’s too much to ask … Then send me a son.” – Arcade Fire
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  • big_noisebig_noise member
    Hugs. Those days are hard. Hope the time passes quickly until Monday.
    BFP #1, 12/22/09 - DD#1 born 9/2010
    BFP #2, 12/12/11, m/c 12/25/11
    BFP #3, 3/09/12, CP 3/10/12
    BFP #4, 7/22/12, DD#2 born 4/2013
     

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  • mijakachmijakach member
    I had no symptoms at all in first tri so I completely understand your worry. It's definitely normal for symptoms to come and go. Sending some T&Ps!
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    BFP #1 ~ EDD 5.20.2012 ~ MC 10.1.2011
    BFP #2 ~ EDD 11.15.2012 ~ CP 3.7.2012
    BFP #3 ~ DS born 12.03.2012

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  • BritsyB8BritsyB8
    Sending you thoughts, prayers, and lots of (((hugs)))
    TTC:Off BCP December 2011. BFP #1 January 16, 2012; EDD September 12, 2012; m/c Feb,1 2012. BFP #2 June 6, 2012; EDD February 11, 2013; diagnosed with blighted ovum/had D&C July 12,2012. BFP #3 October 20, 2012; EDD June 29, 2013. BabyFruit Ticker Sunshine_zps3fcf529f
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  • EEN09EEN09 member
    Lots of T&Ps your way!
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  • Bizzy80Bizzy80 member
    Sending you lots of T&P's and big hugs!
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  • KikiCohenKikiCohen member
    Lots of T&Ps coming your way!  I didn't know anything was wrong with my first pregnancy until week 12 too, so I understand.  Maybe your OB could fit you in early so you don't have to wait til Monday? 
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  • minicheezburgminicheezburg member
    I have days where my symptoms seem to disappear. Then they come back, just try to stay calm sweets. I am praying for you.
    Me(26)DH(33)
    TTC for #1 since Jan 2010
    BFP #1 Oct 1 2010 MC Oct 3 2010
    DX PCOS w/ AO Nov 2011
    3 rounds of Clomid all BFN
    BFP #2 10/12/12 Beta #1 45.1 Beta #2 160.7 * 2/27 diagnosed with IEF in utero.
    Dalaney born @ 35w2d via emergency C-section due to Pre-E after 30 hrs of labor & losing her HB twice. She weighed 5lbs 8oz & was 19in long on May 26th 2013 @ 605am

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  • AlbahAlbah member
    Huge hug!!! There are nights I feel like like this and it is so hard to shake it off! 
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    BFP #3: 01/28/12, EDD: 09/23/12, MMC (BO), D&C 2/16/12 at 6.5 wks
    BFP #4: 05/23/12, EDD: 01/31/12, Early MC at 5 wks

    RPL Workup: + LPD (7DPO Prog = 7.8, Endometrial Bx = out of phase)
    Elevated Alpha 2-glycoprotein IgA and antiphosphatidylserine IgM -->
    Hematologist said not to worry and no need for treatment!

    Dx: LPD
    Cycle #1(08/2012): Clomid 50 mg CD3-7, Ovidrel CD13 + Progesterone = It worked!
    BFP #5 on 09/10/12 (11 DPO). HCG #1 @ 14DPO = 131.6 HCG #2 @ 16DPO = 509
    EDD: 05/23/2013 Lilypie Pregnancy tickers

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  • Ana0927Ana0927 member

    Huge hugs and postive vibes coming your way. I am so sorry you are going through this . PGAL is so stressful!

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  • Cherry1111Cherry1111 member
    We all know how worrisome it can be. Symptoms really do come and go. The morning of my first u/s my boobs felt completely normal. I was positive we were getting bad news that day. Thankfully we had a little bean with a heartbeat. Try to stay calm until Monday, however we all know how hard that is..
    BFP#1 2/18/2011, EDD 10/18/2011, natural m/c 2/28/2011 @ 7 weeks
    BFP#2 5/28/2011, EDD 2/1/2012, chemical pg
    BFP#3 10/22/2011, EDD 6/30/2012, natural m/c 11/3/2011 @ 6 weeks
    BFP#4 4/16/2012, EDD 12/24/2012, Beta #1 23 @ 10dpo, Beta #2 68 @ 12dpo, Beta #3 370 @ 16dpo, Saw baby and heartbeat on 5/11/2012.

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  • kread8kread8 member

    Sending lots of T&Ps your way! 

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    BFP 8/20/14 EDD 4/27/15 It's a GIRL!!

     

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  • jelerojelero member
    Sending good vibes your way.  Hopefully you'll be back to feeling gross soon Smile
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  • panacea05panacea05 member
    It's normal to feel this way. I swore my current pregnancy was over about a million times, and here I am--still going strong at 16w2d. Try to remember that you're just super paranoid--and your gut feelings don't mean anything anymore. ((hugs))
    It was a rough road, but Arlo Daniel was born April 1, 2013—and our second rainbow is due October 12, 2014.
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  • uneek1323uneek1323 member
    Thinking of you. Hang in there!
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  • kpowers982kpowers982 member
    Worry has been in the air on the PgAL board for the last week or so...we get it!  Sending tons of positive thoughts your way, I hope this week passes for you qucikly and you get fantastic news on Monday.  Hang in there, I know it's hard!
    Cycle 7: BFP 1-17-12, Missed Miscarriage at 8w6d (measured 7w2d, no HB), D&C 2-29-12
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  • melly918melly918 member
    First trimester is always so hard to get through. Sending hugs, positive thoughts and prayers!
    DS born 2009
    BFP#2 ~ 8/2/11, EDD 4/11/12, D&C 9/12/11 at 9w5d
    BFP#3 ~ 4/15/12, EDD 12/21/12 ~ DD born 12/22/12
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  • pinktrojanbride120107pinktrojanbride120107 member

    Thanks all! I was in tears all the way to work this morning, sure that it was over, but since my kiddos went to recess, I am back to my old nauseated self. Thank goodness. Your T&Ps are powerful enough to keep me going through Monday!

     I seriously heart you all. I'm so glad you all understand me.

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    BFP#1 - 11/13/11, Natural MC - 12/24/11 at 12 weeks
    BFP#2 - 10/2/12, Please be our rainbow.
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  • Mrs.DeliaMariePMrs.DeliaMarieP member
    T&P's coming your way.  I know it is so hard not to worry over every little thing, PGAL brain sucks.  Try not to be too concerned with one day of decreased symptoms, unfortunately it's one of those things that you can only really tell over the course of time.  I know that this is absolutely, 100% impossible to do, but please try.  Hope you get some raging nausea (but no throwing up, that just sucks), and super sore boobs by tomorrow to ease your mind. 

    BFP 12/19/08- DS born 8/25/09 9lbs2oz via Zavanelli Maneuver
    BFP 8/26/11- Missed miscarriage discovered 10/19/11 at 11w2d, measured at 9 weeks gestation w/ no HB. D&C 10/21/11
    BFP 3/17/12 at 12dpo CP 3/21/12
    BFP 4/23/12 at 10dpo Stick my little one! Beta #1: 83.3 @ 13dpo Beta #2: 197.7 @ 15dpo
    Our little man is getting bigger every day!
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  • GraceInCAGraceInCA member
    Thinking of you, and I hope you receiving nothing but great news on Monday.

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  • HoolahZingerHoolahZinger member
    Big hugs to you! I hate PgAL brain! 
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    EDD 1/31/13, MC May 17. EDD 3/31/13, MC July 26. I miss you so much already my angel loves

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  • NBBride05NBBride05 member
    Sending thoughts and prayers that all is okay!!!
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    BFP #1 - 1/15/12, EDD 9/21/12, Missed M/C - 2/10/12 - I miss you Sapphire!

    BFP #2 - 7/1/12 - Met my lucky charm Alexandra on 3-16-13!!!


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  • jbg23jbg23 member
    Do not feel selfish for asking for asking for T&Ps. T&Ps coming your way! Please keep us updated!
    Me-"JB"(26) DH(29)
    Married since 2008 with 1 precious furbaby.
    Mis-dx with PCOS & Hypothyroidism. New Dx= Hypoandrenia & hormone imbalance
    BFP #1 on 3rd round of Clomid (50mg).
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