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Yesterday was Bo's 1 year MD apt, and holy bad news. Our Pedi wants to do a blood draw....a for real one.. not the heel prick and check Bowen's iron levels since he was/is EBF. WHAT IN THE WORLD?
At his 6 month apt he suggested giving Bo poly vi sol with Iron
I had reservations about this from the beginning
https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/64587789.aspx
Fast forward to Bo's 9 month apt. I told my Pedi I was not so good about giving him the Poly Vi Sol he said if you could get a dropper in every 2 to 3 days that is better than nothing. So I did. Especially in the month of August I really tried tot get as much Iron in him as I could.
Fast forward to 12 month apt when Bo was actually 13 months...Based off of the fact he is EBF he wants to see where Bo's Iron levels are at. He said when babies start walking the heel prick is not a good option....so we need a full on blood draw. Can you tell I am freaked about iron and all of the new confounds?
My Pedi is awesome, but i know he was essentially telling me it was my fault...he did say it with couth "we were not successfull in supplementing the iron from 6 months to now...we have to catch any deficiencies because they could be devastating for Bo's health".
Does anyone have any experience with this?
I will ask the question I asked in my post from march..
If EBF are at a higher risk of being iron deficient then why is it not discussed more in the BF literature?
Re: Bo and a Blood Draw
I specifically asked my doctor about giving vitamins to DS at his 1 year appt. and he said there is no need. (DS was exclusively BF until 12 months). But I've heard some doctors do recommend vitamins. It's so confusing! I also had reservations about giving DS vitamins... so I didn't.
DS had a blood draw at his 1 year appointment to check for iron levels. I think it's routine here, all of my mommy friends warned me about it. The lab tech pricked his finger and squeezed it until she got the amount she needed. He did not like it (and it wasn't easy for momma either)... but his iron levels came back just fine and it was good peace of mind.
My pedi has never said BF is more likely to need iron supplement. Never checked for iron levels. Only thing she said BF babies need is vit d drops, which are added to formula already and not in BM.
Eta she should get checked at 1 yr, but hasn't had her appt yet
"What did my fingers do before they held you? What did my heart do with it's love?"
This is what the MD said it would be.... How heart wrenching.. How long did it take?
I had no idea!! You all are so brave!!
Our PEdi wanted to do it yesterday after out apt..and I requested to wait and have my H come with me....I am glad I did!
I have to take T for blood work, but it's because her dr said that they start lead screenings at 1 year old, not for iron. I'm dreading it, but her dr did say that it would be a good idea to take her to the lab at the children's hospital because they're awesome at drawing from babies. Also because DD is a big girl, and her chubby arms will make it tough for anyone to get a vein. Is that an option for you? A lab that specializes in kids? I've been putting it off for a month now. At first I said it was because I wanted to let her get over the shots she got at her 12 month appointment, but those have been healed for a while now . . .
FWIW, I was also told to give DD those vitamins with iron when she was BF, but that I could stop once she was on formula. She was pretty good about swallowing them, so I gave them to her pretty much every day. I don't think she was ever tested for iron, though, other than the heel prick in the hospital when she was born.
my pedi has never once mentioned it until his 12 month. Said possibly will do blood work at 15 months, but she's not worried at all.
Here they don't do a blood draw unless the child is showing signs of being sick. As long as babe is eating a good variety of iron rich foods at this point, being BFed isn't an issue at all.
His iron came back a little low, so we had to go back in the next day for an actual blood draw, which is more accurate. This went much better! He watched a video of himself on my phone while they did it. He cried, but nothing like the day before! And it didn't take long at all.
WOW! I am really shocked so many of us have had experiences with this blood draw nonsense.
Susie, great idea about the specialized lab for children; i will be looking into that.
bluejetta, I agree. how can some doctors vow iron levels and vit D need to be a t a certain level or it can cause further horrific problems down the road and some are lax about it?
Wish us luck!! Friday is the day!!
ETA: I was EBF by the time he had the operation until he was 6 months old.
This.
But DS did have to have a blood draw due to his head size. He's in te 90 in head size and they just wanted to do some tests.
I'm not gonna lie DS and I both cried when he got drawn. DH was there and held him while they drew it from his arm. He honestly was way more upset about having to be held still then the needle stick. He was back to smiling with in a minute of it.
Ohhhhthis makes me so sad! I honestly black out when I think Bo is seriously hurt or something terrible is happening.