TTC After a Loss

I am very frustrated today

I woke up in a horrible mood.  I am trying to keep it to myself so I don't flip out at everyone.

 

tell me... What do you guys do when you wake up in a funk, mad at the world?  

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Re: I am very frustrated today

  • Hmm.... pout in my little corner and try to stay away from people? Come on here to vent? Write emails to my friends? I don't know really... I wish I could just hide in bed but that isn't usually an option.

    I'm sorry you're in a funk. Hopefully it passes and your day isn't too horrid.

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  • I'm sorry!  I hate days like that!

    I usually try to keep my distance from people.  My coworkers can tell pretty quick when I'm in a short mood... so they usually know to keep away.  I also usually dive right into the carbs!!  I'm an emotional eater.

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  • Scream real loud and throw pillows...

    hugs I woke up this way too. That stomach pit is so heavy, there's really nothing that lifts it
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  • I listen to Christmas music it always cheers me up!  I think it just reminds me or twinkling lights and pretty decorations!
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  • Hmm, looking at pictures of cute and/or funny animals usually perks my mood up pretty much anytime. As for dealing with people, I just try to keep to myself as much as possible when I'm having a poopy day. (((hugs)))

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  • Heh.... It's working! Kinda! I am googling willy wonka memes and will be stopping at my favorite bagel place momentarily.  Stomach pit.....that is a perfect term for what I am feeling.  A stomach pit full of boiling lava. :(   Thank god for this board.  Seriously.  I hope all of your days get better too!!!! (Hugs) 
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  • all of the above!  I'm pissy today too, glad I have a pissy partner
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    all of the above!  I'm pissy today too, glad I have a pissy partner

    pissy partners! I like.  Dh and I planned a date night tonight... We are going to this nice restaurant and then to see paranormal activity 4. I am in such a funk I don't even see myself having fun either .....ahhhhhh snap out of it Kristin  

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    Drink ?? I usually hop on here or start crafting. Sometimes there is NOTHING you can do, so you just go with the flow & try not to bite to many heads off.

    your sig pic made me laugh though! And you are right.  Some days it's just there and doesn't go away :-/ 

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  • Take a long lunch and go shopping!  Hope your day improves.
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  • I avoid my coworkers. I think they've finally learned, if I don't speak to them first, I'm probably in a mood.
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  • I hope your day gets better and that you have a wonderful date with your DH tonight!  When I am in a bad mood, I just vent to my friends/coworkers and look at the humor section on Pinterest. 

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  •  Sorry you're having a funk-tastic day, Kristin.  I hope it gets much better!  In the mean time, have some cupcakes :)

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    sorry you are having a tough day. take some deep breaths and plan something fun or relaxing to look forward to this evening. bubble bath? pedicure? bottle of wine?

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  • so right there with you!

    too bad wine has to wait until after work.... 

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  • take a nice long walk until I feel the knot going away and avoid annoying people(which is almost everyone)
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  • Yeah... Today is the kind of day where I feel like I could run a 5k in 20 mins.  And not even come close to getting rid of the knot in my stomach. 
    DS#1- 5 y/o! Stop growing up little man!<br><br>
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  • I'm also sorry you aren't in a good mood... at least you haven't taken it out on anyone else yet.

    When I wake up angry it's really hard to get out of it. But try to do things to distract you. Get your work done, do chores, etc. Maybe exercise and burn off that steam! Of course all these things are easier said than done!

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  • Sorry you're having a crappy day. Hope it gets better for you!
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