I'm interested in doing natural child birth classes to help prepare for our first little one (coming in March!), but I can't decide what kind of classes to do. Both the Lamaze and the Bradley websites sound like it would be a worthwhile class to take, but I'm wondering if anyone has anyone personal experience with one of both of them? Please share! I know there is no one right way to do birth, but I would really appreciate any suggestions from personal experiences. Thank you!
Ps- If anyone is in the North Carolina Triangle area and has a recommendation for a specific local class or instructor, I would love to hear from you!
Re: Lamaze or Bradley?
We did Bradley (along with 3 other couples/friends we know). I know others who did Birthing from Within, Hypnobabies, and Hypnobirthing and had natural births. I've had two natural births and hope to have my 3rd any day now.
I don't have any IRL friends who have done Lamaze, but I know a few 45+ women who did.
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I took Lamaze too, for the same reason. One of the criticisms of it is that it's more medically focused, meaning it's not necessarily about changing the birth culture but working with the hospital. I've also heard that the breathing is outdated, which doesn't surprise me, but my class didn't really focus on breathing that much, and Lamaze on the whole has incorporated many Bradley elements.
But the bottom line is that Lamaze is good enough in a pinch and I'd combine it with something like prenatal yoga which I found immensely helpful during labor.
We are on Class 12 of Bradley this week. We really like it and I think, if you're really wanting to do natural childbirth, it's a good, information-based preparation for it. Based on what I've heard of Lamaze, I'm not sure it would have - at least for me - really prepared me (I still don't know, I suppose, if I'm really prepared since I haven't delivered yet!!).
Susan Rotman is a good Bradley instructor in the NC triangle area. She's in Raleigh, five points area. There are a couple of others too in the area. I'd recommend you interview a couple to find a good personal match, especially if you're considering using your instructor as a doula as well (as we are).
We are on week 5 of the 12 weeks of the Bradley classes. I was initially skeptical about the huge time commitment. However, I'm finding that I really enjoy the time I spending bonding with DH over the birth preparation, daily exercises, and weekly class. I also feel like I'm getting informed about the whole birth process. Since I haven't finished the classes or birthed the child, I'm not qualified to say that i couldnt have done it without Bradley, but I'm really pleased with it so far.
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Thanks, everyone, for the advice! I think there's a lot of great classes around, and I wish I could do them all. However, I just heard back from the closest Bradley instructor in my area, and it's an hour drive each way to the class location. Also, the only class she has available in time before my due date is November-January. With all the holiday travelling we'll be doing, and the distance to the class, I'm thinking we may have to look at some other classes
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My mother in law had 3 natural births with Lamaze (several years ago, obviously), and I'm thinking that might be a good back up option since the Bradley seems a little complicated right now.