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anniversary bust, a long vent, sorry

brighteyes2123brighteyes2123
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So today DH and I celebrate our second anniversary, he decided somewhere to go early on in the day, we were going to leave at 7. Well, that went down the drain after DS woke up from his third nap of the day... he's been waking up after six the few mornings, so he's been tired and cranky otherwise. Anyhow, DH figured DS was hungry when he woke up, he thought since he said something I should've been the one to grab him some puffs, nurse him or make something. Well, I nursed him before he went for a nap, so I didn't see why he needed to be nursed again... I also figure if DH can say he thinks baby is hungry he can feed him. Well, no he can't he figured since I was close to the puffs I could have reached over and gave DS some. I'm usually always the one feeding both of them, why can't H get off his effing PS3 and make something for DS? Anyways, so I wanted to talk about things, but H doesn't, never seems to... it's freaking annoying. We need communication instead of just throwing in the towel and we probably need a middle person, but DH doesn't think WE need to, if I want to I can go talk to someone. About an hour after he went to the bedroom, I went in asking if we'd be going out, he said no. I did NOT want to cook and we don't have much, which was yesterday's argument, he figured I would've gone grocery shopping. That's another story, though! Okay, so I didn't make dinner, DS and I walked up to the Chinese restaurant, I got something there. It was delicious, I just wish H and DS and I could have celebrated as a family. I'm so emotionally drained from crying my eyes out to my mom and in front of Kohan :[
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Re: anniversary bust, a long vent, sorry

  • KaeldrasmommyKaeldrasmommy member
    I'm so sorry your day has been so bad and your DH is being such an azz. It really sucks ot have days like those, but they're much worse on days that are supposed to be good.
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  • JamiesWife2010JamiesWife2010 member
    Sorry! I agree with kaeldrasmommy; it really sucks to have a bad day like that when it's supposed to be a a day to celebrate something special. Hope today is better.
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  • brighteyes2123brighteyes2123
    Thanks ladies, he still seemed irked at me when he woke up at 2:30, but now he seems a little better. I apologized but got told okay, I don't want to talk about it... I wasn't trying to talk about it! Gah, maybe he'll be up to celebrate today... I'll just try to choose my battles with him!
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  • CrazyCurlsCrazyCurls
    Communication is one of those things we need but is so hard to work on!  I hope your DH realizes this as you do!!!!
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  • brighteyes2123brighteyes2123
    imageCrazyCurls:
    Communication is one of those things we need but is so hard to work on!nbsp; I hope your DH realizes this as you do!!!!
    I've been trying to talk to him, but he doesn't want to. It's exhausting! I can only try so much before I feel like it's just a waste of my energy.
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