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Should I have a C section?

SHAWNIE206SHAWNIE206 member
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I had a C section with my first child and now i cant imagine having a natural birth. The father wants me to deliver natural but im scared and my dr is giving me the option. Any suggestions?
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Re: Should I have a C section?

  • WorcbrideWorcbride member
    You have to listen to your heart.  That's the best advice I can give 
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  • VegasbbVegasbb member
    This is 100% your decision. Objectively if you want advice it's hard to offer it without knowing why you had a C section the first time. 
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  • JustAhopinJustAhopin
    You're the one actually delivering the baby. This should definately be your call.
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  • SHAWNIE206SHAWNIE206 member

    Thanks Ladies! Just what i needed to hear...Go with my heart. 

     


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  • msrkilpatrickmsrkilpatrick
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    You're the one actually delivering the baby. This should definately be your call.

    I totally agree with this.

    Make the best decision for you and your baby... you and your doctor are the only ones that can decide what that is. 

    Agreed. Only you and your doctor can decide what will be the safest for you and your little one. Good luck.

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  • 2u2wow2u2wow member

    i agree to go with your heart...

    i had an emerg csection with my first DS and my Dr at the time said she'd advise i go with one next time - i'm okay with that.

    i don't think i'm really built for childbirth! haha although obviously i am... but for us it was a matter of it not being worth the risk for us and i didn't have the desire for a natural birth so it was an easy choice for us

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  • kellyjojokellyjojo member
    My suggestion is you do what makes you feel comfortable.  I cringe when I here woman talk about the strong opinions of the husband/ father/dad of the child.  He is NOT having the baby....you are.  I really get so annoyed.  He should do one thing and that is support you.  Thank god I have an awesome husband cause I would NEVER put up with that BS.  As long as your baby comes into this world safe and loved....that is what matters.  If he has a problem with the idea of a c-section have him talk with your doc.    
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