A girlfriend of mine is in the process of delivinerg today (lucky b****) and I plan to go visit her and the baby tomorrow. I had already gotten her a gift off her reigstry, but what should I bring to the hospital for her/baby? Should I get flowers or a little stuffed animal or something for her AND baby? What have you gotten as a little gift when you delivered that really liked?
Re: Hospital Gift?
I've been told the best gift is nothing
they're there very briefly and will have a ton of sh#t to schlep home...
maybe wait until you visit her at home for the gift?
This! And I love the suggestion of coffee and donuts. I think I'd rather have someone bring food to my house once I'm home with the baby than bring me stuff at the hospital.
Ask her partner what she wants to eat or drink. Bring it to her.
I'd avoid anything she has to pack to bring home. Fresh flowers are generally frowned upon in hospitals, I thought... bc of allergies.
When I'm in the hospital, I don't want anyone to bring anything that makes my trip home difficult. good for your friend for being open to hospital visitors. I don't think I'll be open at all. Too big of a family.
I agree with the coffee! The best gift came from DH the morning after I delivered - a grande Starbucks coffee!
We received flowers and gift bags filled with clothing from DH's sister, mother and uncles - it was a pain in the neck to bring home. We had so much stuff it was such a pain to carry out.
Best gift was a DD pumpkin coffee...mmm....
before they are cleared to eat solids. I had DD at 7:30 am and was not cleared until 11:30 pm the following night or maybe some nice lotion or shower gel if you know what scent she prefers. With DD1 a friend brought a bottle if wine which was also nice. Flowers and balloons are a pain to lug
home.
Or treat to her home.