FWIW, I was chatting with a friend of mine who is a doula/mom of a three-year-old/nurse and I asked her what was up with the complete lack of libido. She says it's totally normal and hers didn't come back until she stopped nursing (she nursed her daughter until she was about 2.5). It's a matter of hormones, body changes, and a completely new feeling of someone else being 100% dependent on you.
So for those of us who do it but without great enthusiasm, it's normal. Libido will return...someday.
mm 2/17/11 * dd born 4/20/12 * bo 1/3/14 * edd 1/21/ 1/15
Re: How oftern are you intimate with DH?
Haha, yes OP, you are assuming waaay too much
Or once in a blue moon? :P
I've been patiently waiting for the snarky comments!
I actually had to open the thread and see the poll before I realized what it was asking, probably partially because I never use the word intimate
Micah Leonard
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Haha love this!
FWIW, I was chatting with a friend of mine who is a doula/mom of a three-year-old/nurse and I asked her what was up with the complete lack of libido. She says it's totally normal and hers didn't come back until she stopped nursing (she nursed her daughter until she was about 2.5). It's a matter of hormones, body changes, and a completely new feeling of someone else being 100% dependent on you.
So for those of us who do it but without great enthusiasm, it's normal. Libido will return...someday.
mm 2/17/11 * dd born 4/20/12 * bo 1/3/14 * edd 1/21/ 1/15