1st time sex after being cleared - was it weird feeling?

BlueViolett · October 2012

*1st time sex after being cleared - was it weird feeling?*

Anyone else nervous that sex will never feel the same again? I haven't been cleared yet, so I'm not speaking from experience, but after seeing my big headed baby come out, I can't imagine things ever being the same down there. If you were cleared (or if you just couldn't wait), was sex the same as before or did it feel a lot different? TIA!

mrs.kapow · October 2012

Haven't doe anything yet this time around, but after DD1, it was the opposite if what you'd think -- super tight, pretty painful at first. After a while, it was better than per-baby, though.

Megcheer2 · October 2012

I absolutely got back to normal after DD1, but it took a little while. I'm so not looking forward to our first postpartum romp this time around, but it can never be great again if we don't start doing it!

Baby Bouchard · October 2012

After having my DD is was great, we only waited 2 weeks pp and it was very intense, she was a c-section. With DS we also waited just over 2 weeks pp and I found it to be very painful this time, he was also a c-section. Things felt extremely tight and I actually tore a bit. I've been avoiding it ever since.

eliza261 · October 2012

we tried at 2.5/ pp and it sucked.. and probably lasted 30 seconds.. i think we have tried 2 more times since then like once a week and it gets easier, we still havent worked up to anything resembling a full on romp though..

DS is a bit of a *** blocker too.. lol he always seems to wake up in the other room oh well, its his world and we are just living in it..

kegallagh · October 2012

mrs.kapow:
Haven't doe anything yet this time around, but after DD1, it was the opposite if what you'd think super tight, pretty painful at first. After a while, it was better than perbaby, though.nbsp;

Same for me with DS1. It took a few months to not hurt, but then it felt better than before.

mrsjenni · October 2012

mrs.kapow:
Haven't doe anything yet this time around, but after DD1, it was the opposite if what you'd think super tight, pretty painful at first. After a while, it was better than perbaby, though.nbsp;

This exactly.

mimi_8607 · October 2012

I'll give you some hope. We tried last night 7 weeks pp. I was so scared because of what I have heard. I got on top so I could control how fast. It stung where I tore and on the inside where I had some scrapes. But after a few mins it wasn't to bad. I was able to finish. Now I think it would have been a different out come if DH would have been on top.

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