I know i shouldnt be afraid because i had two natural births already that went fine without any major complications....this 3rd time around my placenta is low and i might have to do a c/s but im scared to the nibby jibbies about it becuase i'm a big scary cat when it comes to needles & im also afraid of an epidural...can someone please tell me its not that bad

Re: Scared of epidural & c/s
I was petrified of the epi and honestly, I didn't feel a thing. Barely felt the needle to numb the spot and didn't feel anything with the real needle either. Could have been because contractions were keeping my mind busy! I also cried like a baby when she said that I needed a c-section but it wasn't as bad as I built it up to be either. The thought of both were worse than the reality. Good luck!
I had planned on a natural birth, but due to developing HELLP syndrome at 36w had to have a "non-emergency" emergency c-section (it was just urgent that they get it done w/in a few hours but they could take their time for the surgery as LO wasn't in any danger).
I had come to terms with having the c-section but was FREAKED OUT about getting the epidural and nearly ran from the room when they were about to do it.
Didn't feel a thing...not the numbing needle or the other one, so I felt silly for my reaction. Still looking forward to trying for natural next time around but the csection experience wasn't bad.
BFP #1 2-8-09 Natural M/C 6w1d 2-19-09
BFP #2 5-28-09 C/P 6-1-09
BFP #3 10-30-10 Natural M/C 12-8-10
BFP #4 1-16-12 EDD 9-18-12 Stick baby stick!!
Aw, it'll be okay! I had planned for a med-free birth with my first, and ended up with a c/s. I was freaked about the epidural, but it wasn't too bad - and I ended up having to sit still through at least 3-4 contractions while they inserted it. I did focused/yoga breathing when they were putting it in, and it was totally doable. If I can do it in the middle of labor, you can totally do it beforehand.
Good luck! Hope your placenta moves up!
DS2 - Oct 2010 (my VBAC baby!)
I was scared as well about getting a c-section but honestly it was nothing. The epidural was a blessing for me. I didn't even feel the needle and the relief afterwards was just a miracle. I didn't get any bruising from it at all.
As for the c-section, I had to take pain meds for only one week. Laughing will be extremely painful at the beginning as well as sneezing and coughing! Right now, I feel great! I'm not taking any pain medication anymore and besides a tender spot on my left side when I touch it, I have no pain whatsoever.
It really isn't that bad.
My greatest fear if I have to do a RCS with this one... With my first I had been laboring for over 20 hours when I finally gave into the epi. Sooooo didn't care what was going on then.
This time? The idea of walking myself into the OR with nothing else going on & letting them do that. Scares more than the sh*t outa me.
I know that's not helpful, but I wanted you to know you aren't alone.