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TTC After a Loss
HayleyBaker1122
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Somtimes what people say can really hurt! ***pg and baby mentioned***
HayleyBaker1122
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I think I just need to stay off of facebook. I blocked my pregnant friends, but one had her baby today and her husband (who never posts anything) posted pics of their baby that was born today. The same girl that got mad at me for not going to her baby shower and hasn't talked to me since, even when I reached out to her... So, then i see my other pregnant friend wrote on the picture and said "I'm so happy to see all my friends who are having babies today and are due soon. I'm so glad I'm pregnant again or all the newborns would make my baby fever so bad it would kill me."
The girl who said that is 8 weeks pregnant, and has a 7 month old baby.
I was so upset by what she said. I was so close to writing "Yeah, well imagine how it feels to see all the babies and have lost yours and not be able to just have one when you want to."
The only reason I restrained myself was to not ruin the "happiness" of the couple that just had the baby when they see that.
I'm so glad that I'm no longer this naive and would NEVER say something like that publicly not knowing who I'm hurting.
Sorry for the vent ladies. I've just had such a bad day... I've been crying/overwhelmed while trying not to show it at work. I'm glad I can come on here and know you all understand how I feel.
Love you guys!
BFP #1 7/15/2012
Natural Miscarriage 8/4/2012 at 7 weeks
BFP #2 10/26/12 - Baby Jack - Due 7/6/13 - Born 6/7/13
(born prematurely at 35w 6d, perfectly healthy with no NICU time needed)
Natural Miscarriage 8/4/2012 at 7 weeks
BFP #2 10/26/12 - Baby Jack - Due 7/6/13 - Born 6/7/13
(born prematurely at 35w 6d, perfectly healthy with no NICU time needed)
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Re: Somtimes what people say can really hurt! ***pg and baby mentioned***
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. seriously?! oh. my. goodness. I'm sorry people are dumb. (((hugs)))
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FB really does suck sometimes.
That friend seems a little crazy. She has a 7 month old and wouldn't be able to handle newborn pics b/c of her baby fever?
BFP #2: EDD 9/3/13~~Slow HB at 1st U/S~~MMC -Loss on 2/13/13
Im in the same situation right now and today is not a good day.
People are so insensitive. Ugh
Thanks for all the support guys! I just needed some hugs. I know we all have stupid people like this we have to deal with and it's one part of TTCAL that totally sucks.
Looking forward to getting home from work and having time to catch up on today's posts!
Natural Miscarriage 8/4/2012 at 7 weeks
BFP #2 10/26/12 - Baby Jack - Due 7/6/13 - Born 6/7/13
(born prematurely at 35w 6d, perfectly healthy with no NICU time needed)
Wow! I am sorry you had to deal with that. And to the girl that is 8 weeks pregnant and has a 7 month old....baby fever? Seriously? Ugh. (((hugs)))
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You're not alone! I have seen more newborn and baby pictures from friends on FB. I'm truly happy for them, but sometimes I feel hurt inside too. Of course I'm super jealous!
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BFP #1 8/25/12 EDD 4/28/13 Blighted Ovum, D&C 9/20/12 at 8w6d. I'll always remember the first one. My baby Grace. BFP #2 12/26/12 EDD 9/4/13. DS born 9/7/13. My sweet rainbow.
Ugh. What a rough day. I hate FB most of the time!
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Ugh! Sorry you saw that. fb sucks when it comes to that. In the past two days, 4 people have announced their pregnancies. Just sad when it is supposed to be you announcing!
((Hugs))!
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