DH and I have decided that we want to try for #2. Our game plan is to try December/January/early Feb. If nothing, then only start again in June, so we will skip trying March/April/May. Sounds strange, but our 4 year old turns 5 in December and between his birthday and Christmas we would prefer not to have a baby in November/December/January. Hope that makes some sort of sense.
Now, with DS we weren't trying. I was on antibiotics (Tamiflu) that interefered with my pill and by magic we had a baby. I come from a family of women that fall pregnant easily. I have one older cousin that has had a struggle, but as it turns out she was not the issue. He was taking steroids and that affected his fertility. I even have an aunt who had her tubes tied and she fell pregnant after that.
Anyhoo, because of this I am not expecting to struggle. I am expecting to go wham,bam, thank you mam, and have a BFP on Christmas day. I know that it is unlikely and I should not get my hopes up, but the more I tell myself this, the more I am building my expectations. So please, bring me back to reality.