Mine we so bad my husband had to sit me up in bed, then lift me out of it and sit me on the toilet just to pee. Couldn't stand up straight for about 4 or 5 days, I had many, each the size of strawberries. Here we are on day ten and they aren't gone but holy cow they have shrunk to almost nothing! Hemm cream after each time I use the bathroom or change a pad, tucks pads to wipe after bowel movements. Don't know how far post partum you are... I hope they get better quick.
i had one, and i would rinse my bottom every time i used the bathroom w a peri bottle. i mixed ice cold water (to reduce the inflammation) with witch hazel and it went down after 5 days. the sitz baths are good, but constant use of hot water just makes the hemmie "angry" i.e more inflamed. also i lathered it w petroleum jelly to keep in moist. best of luck.
Re: Post labor hemmies
I sadly still have them from when ds #1 was born 4.5 years ago.
They stopped hurting after a couple months but never went away.
~after 34 cycles we finally got our 2nd little bundle of joy~

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Cortisone Cream, Tucks pads, and stool softener.
Mine went away around the second week.