LLL leader is stalking me! (vent)

Frequent Flier · October 2012

A woman I knew from my former church (before I moved) is a LLL leader and I was facebook friends with her. During my pregnancy she posted lots of snide comments about whether or not I was planning on co-sleeping, using a baby carrier, BF, etc, so I unfriended her. I thought about writing her a message about her crazy commenting but was thinking "well since I've moved I'll never have to see/hear from her again" WRONG. I posted a photo of my friend feeding LO a bottle and LLL leader commented "Breastfeeding is the ONLY way to mother a baby." I'm contemplating writing her now, or maybe I should just block her completely? This woman is truly insane and I feel bad for the women in her LLL group and her daughters, should they ever choose to have kids!

drbethc · October 2012

block her completely....don't feed it.

jess9802 · October 2012

I'd be tempted to comment back, "There is so much more to mothering than how a baby is fed" and then deleting her. I can only imagine how much comments like that could hurt those of your other friends and family who couldn't or didn't want to BF.

alizabethanne · October 2012

Wow. Block her for sure. But I wouldn't be afraid to tell her to back off if you had to.

anonsouthernbell · October 2012

I can't see that being approved from LLLi org

stepper1725 · October 2012

I'd block her. It makes me really sad that some people are SO pro breastfeeding that they turn people off : ( Breastfeeding can be great, but it doesn't work for everyone.

thatoneredhead · October 2012

I agree with just blocking her- She will always feel superior that her boobs work and trying to convince her otherwise isnt going to work. The fact that she sought you out, knowing you defriended her and commented on a picture is straight up creepy and mean