My employer has offered me the opportunity to work from home a couple days a week to extend my maternity leave a little bit. I'm planning to completely take off 3 weeks in the beginning, but then start working 2 days a week from home after that. My question is does that sound reasonable? For you experienced moms, how long did it take you to feel like you could actually accomplish things again?
Re: Question for STMs re: getting back to "normal"
I think every mom is different and a lot of it depends on your L&D and if there is any recovering that needs to be done, c-section, tearing, etc. I'm a c-section momma and it took me about 5 or 6 weeks to feel "normal" again.
I had a regular birth, but still feel three weeks is too soon to return, even working from home. Like PP said, your emotions are a mess, if you are BFing, LO still needs you, and getting into a routine is important.
All of this. I cried every day at 4pm for 2 or 3 weeks. Obviously, that didn't feel "normal" for me. Adding the stress of working to whatever else was going on may have led to more serious emotional problems. You don't want to put yourself in the situation. Is your employer willing to wait and see how things go?
It took me six weeks to feel "normal" in the sense that I felt physically ok, and I had come into a rhthym with my daughter where I was comfortable.
Will you have care for the baby while you work from home? In my honest opinion its impossible to take care of a baby and work from home at the same time.
Hmmm... to physically feel normal again, I was right at two weeks. I felt great, was back in pre-pregnancy clothing, and my bleeding had stopped. (-the only exception was my tailbone, that took a few months to feel better.)
Mentally though, I think I was still pretty overwhelmed. I felt like I was being a bad mom if she was up and in her swing/chair, so I was paying alot of attention to her.
I think its not totally out of the question, especially if it'll help you extend out your maternity leave- thats awesome they are offering that to you. Can you maybe have someone help out a few hours on those two/three days so you can focus on work for a few straight hours?
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I can't really remember how long it took me to "feel normal" again, but I do know that I took off work 3 almost 4 months, then went back to work but was able to bring my LO with me everyday. We worked M-F 8-4 no lunch break, I just brought myself snacks and food and water and fed LO on demand. I stayed working until she was 6ish months, then we moved.
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I felt normal between 2-3 weeks after delivery.
I was never overly emotional at all, but what was hard was the lack of sleep.