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TTC After a Loss
ashpink25
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And I thought today would be better...
ashpink25
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Yesterday I again had a ton of bleeding (OB assured me it was fine), and it just seemed like a slap in the face that I am losing our Nugget. I have been doing fairly well with this loss, but yesterday was rough. Then this morning I woke up in a better mood and determined to have a better day. I get to work and during the first phone call of the day a coworker asks, "So when are you and the hubby going to have some babies? You're lagging behind us!" Talk about throat punch Thursday. Granted this coworker is actually really nice and totally clueless about our losses and the possible "tubal infertility" diagnosis hanging over my head, but really?? There goes my sunshine and rainbows morning.
Married my best friend in May 2009
Started TTC our first since May 2010
1st BFP: 8/18/2011.....EDD 4/25/2012
2nd BFP: 8/19/2012....EDD 4/26/2013
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Re: And I thought today would be better...
July TTCAL Siggy Challenge - Favorite Children's Book
Surprise BFP 5/15/12, EDD 1/29/13, mm/c @ 8wks, discovered at 11wks, D&C 7/11/12
AF finally arrived on Christmas after 167 days of waiting.
TTA until January 2014
PGAL/PAL always welcome
BFP#1 05/08/12 - EDD 01/03/13 - MC 05/23/12 8w6d
PCOS diagnosis 02/13 - Started Metformin 03/13
BFP#2 04/07/13 - EDD 12/17/13
((HUGS)) I'm sorry your day is already off to a rough start.
Prior to my losses, I know I made comments to other girls about when they were going to have babies. So naive back then. I know better than to ask anyone that question now!
BFP #2: 6/29/12, EDD: 3/8/13, Natural M/C: 7/16/12 @ 6 weeks 2 days
Hashimoto's Thyroiditis, Hypothyroidism
BFP #3: Kendall Grace, born 9/30/13
BFP #4: 9/3/14, EDD: 5/16/15, Missed M/C: 10/6/14 @ 8 weeks 2 days, D&C: 10/8/14
Never in our arms, forever in our hearts
((HUGS)) I know it SUCKS hearing people ask that, I've had a FEW coworkers ask me in the past few months...
and like pp said, I will NEVER ask this question of anyone again, knowing the struggles some women may be facing... ((HUGS)) again!!
Marriage: 10/02/2010
BFP#1 : 03.2012........MMC + D&C : 05.2012
The Buggy List blog
BFP #1 4/10/12 D&C 6/5/12@ 12.5wks EDD 12/17/12
BFP #2 9/10/12 CP 9/19/12@ 5.5wks EDD 5/21/13
BFP# 3 12/3/12...Lukas James born 8/15/13
BFP# 4 8/4/14 EDD 4/13/15
A "Friend" of mine knowing we had MC saw me two weeks later and in front of everyone present she had the nerve to ask me... So, when are you trying to get pregnant again??? I really wanted to slap her. How can people be so rude!!!! I just ignored her and continued talking with someone else.
I am sorry your morning is not going well, hopefully your afternoon turns around for you. Hugs!
Natural Miscarriage 8/4/2012 at 7 weeks
BFP #2 10/26/12 - Baby Jack - Due 7/6/13 - Born 6/7/13
(born prematurely at 35w 6d, perfectly healthy with no NICU time needed)
DS1 2-26-07
#4 Due May 2015
IT'S A BOY
HUGS!!! Hope your day gets better.
*PGAL/PAL Welcome*
My Ovulation Chart
BFP #2 12/26/11 ~ EDD 9/6/12 ~ MMC discovered on 1/27/12 @ 8w1d (measured 6w2d)
BFP #3 8/10/12 ~ EDD 4/23/13 ~ MMC discovered on 9/13/12 @ 8w2d (measured 6w6d)
I am so sorry for your loss.
I was just posting about this yesterday, people say well-meaning things, and it can suck hard! It's usually not their fault, 'cause they don't know your situation, but it makes you want to say to the Universe: Really? Now? I have enough to deal with.
I hope that tomorrow is a super TGIF!