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Bad news, could really use your thoughts

AmandaPaige6410AmandaPaige6410
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DH just called me on his break. His dad left him a message saying his grandpa down south had a hear attack and his blood sugar went crazy. All DH knows is that he's getting admitted.

I keep trying to get a hold of his dad to get details, but it's busy. I feel terrible. Neither of us have lost a close relative like this before, I'm so scared for him.
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  • linzicalinzica member

    Holdy shvt AP! What god did you piss off? I'm going to send him a very nasty letter telling him if he's not going to help out, at least he could leave you alone!

    I'm so sorry. If your H's grandpa blood sugar has been tested, it means that he's still around for it to test.  Hopefully he's being well taken care of and will pull through okay. I'll be thinking about you and your family.

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  • AmandaPaige6410AmandaPaige6410
    I don't know, but this is just too much. DH's boss made him leave work because he was so upset. I don't even know how to comfort him through this. Uggh, I want to take away his hurt so bad, this just flat out sucks. I really, really hope he will be ok.
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  • Tulips114Tulips114 member
    Talk about when it rains it pours.  I'm so sorry.  Your family is in my thoughts.
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  • shelley1002shelley1002 member
    How scary.  Hope you get an update soon.  T&Ps on the way.

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  • mnewleemnewlee member

    I'm so sorry! Man, I'm going to buy you an umbrella because when it rains it really pours.

    I'll keep you all in my prayers. Losing a grandparent is really hard and I hope the doctors can keep that from happening. 

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  • Yasiris1105Yasiris1105 member
    Oh sweety I'm so sorry for you and your H! You need to say anything to him. Just show him that you are there for him and I have no doubts about it. Remember God may hold you tight but he's not gonna choke you. Keep strong and so far for me praying is always good.
    You will see that in end you'll get your reward and if in the middle of everything you need support just come and you'll get it. Many TP for your family and kisses from Matt /Baby kisses can make anyone smile and feel good/
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  • solsburyhillsolsburyhill member
    I'm so sorry AP : (
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  • T&HLoveT&HLove member
    I'm so sorry, AP. just make sure your H knows you are there for him, as I'm sure you have.  Knowing you have a shoulder to cry on can make a world of difference 
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  • Ms5586Ms5586 member
    I'm so sorry AP.  Lots of T&Ps coming your way.  I hope you can get an update soon, and that there is a positive outcome to this.
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  • tartertots9725tartertots9725 member
    Oh man AP, I'm so sorry to hear that. You guys have so much on your plate right nowSad I will definitely keep you and your family in my T&P's. Please keep us updated.
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  • JKGymnastJKGymnast member
    I think just holding his hand and telling him you're real sorry and it does svck. Just listen to him. Give him a shoulder/neck massage. Kiss him randomly on the cheek when he walks by. Just keep your mood/spirits to a good level so he doesn't stress about YOU too. He'll need to lean on you so you need to make sure you are standing strong.

    Life has lots of twists and turns but you'll make it through.

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  • starshine985starshine985

    My grandmother whom I was very close to had multiple heart attacks prior to her passing (which was incidentally not caused by a heart attack).  A heart attack does not necessarily = death.  They are doing tests, so that means that he's still alive!  This can be very hard to go through and, honestly, there's nothing you can say to make your DH feel better about it.  However, being there for him when he needs you - even if it's just a hug - can be a huge help.  I know it's a worrisome process, but try not to worry as much as possible until you hear more (i.e. test results). 

     My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.  Please keep us posted!

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