UPDATE

heaven22tw · October 2012

We are still waiting for bm to sign over rights she was supposed to on Sat but the two witnesses required in her state that were supposed to be set with the attourney ended up not being able to make it. Bm was all set to sign that day and has sworn 100 % she is not changing her mind. Our little girl was born on the first so I would think at this point she would have changed her mind already plus she has placed a child before and the bm bf isn't ready to parent after losing a child a couple of years ago. They also are under financial hardship. As all AP know waiting for that paperwork to be signed is torture!!! Even though everyone says this is it its just not real and after four miscarriages thers always that waiting for it to go wrong. Plus until everything is signed and the 96 hrs until its official is over we dont want to book our travel to go see her just in case...and we just cant wait to see her and talk to the drs!!! We did tell immediate family and our best friends but will wait to tell everyone else until signage.

silliestbunny · October 2012

I am so sorry that this extra wait is happening. As hard as it is for you, I feel even worse for BM.

We had a hiccup (due to a ASP SW that messed up) and BM had to resign TPR. So cruel and hard to make them wait/redo etc.

Hang in there... Prayers are being said for you.

heaven22tw · October 2012

I know I feel the same way. This is a closed adoption but I have talked to her once before and then just got off of the phone with her about an hr ago. She seems to be doing well and I know she has lots and lots of support. We have made sure of it. But still hard none the less.