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Testes Tuesday?

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in October 2011 Moms

I don't think I saw this post today.  I know it's late, but I've barely had a chance to be on here today so I'm starting the thread and if anyone else has one please join in!

Lily woke up crying at 4am.  I went to her when she didn't settle back down like she sometimes does.  Usually all it takes is a quick cuddle and then she'll go back to sleep, but she was really worked up this time.  I was starting to wonder why when I felt it - she had leaked all the way through her sleepsack and was soaked.  When I changed her I saw why: the overnight diaper that DH had put on her was gaping like crazy around her one leg!  I don't even know how he managed to do it up so badly.  And to add to it, when I went and got back in bed he says to me "Wow, that was a long one!"  No sh!t, Sherlock, when I have to change her diaper, clothes and find another sleepsack.  Plus he was awake the whole time but not helping me.

BFP #1: July 12, 2010 Natural M/C: July 26, 2010

BFP #2: January 30 ,2011 Born: September 29, 2011

BFP #3: January 5, 2013 Born: August 25, 2013


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Re: Testes Tuesday?

  • stardust317stardust317 member
    DH is a football coach and gets super self absorbed during football season. He is never home and when he is home, all he does is talk about himself. He never asks how my day was, etc. he doesn't wash dishes or do his laundry. He then complains when his coffee cup, etc, isn't clean. He acts like its the end of the world when I ask him to do something for DD. Tonight, he got ticked when I wasn't ready for bed when he was. I still had laundry to put away and I had to blow dry my hair. He's just being a PITA, and it doesn't help that I'm pregnant and grumpy.
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  • Nita2603Nita2603 member
    Men are jerks.

    Mine has been going in between amazing and total failure. I mean, he has been cooking for himself and A, since I cannot eat. He has been helping out with night shifts more than is his share. He has been trying to be nice.
    BUT...
    He thinks pumping is 'me time' you know, because I get to sit down while I do it. Mostly with only one kid attached to me.
    Showering is me time as well.
    After a c/s apparently you don't need any recovering time. I mean, I jumped right back into everything on day three, right!? My still pretty heavy bleeding is probably unrelated.
    He never helps with bottles, washing bm containers, pump parts
    Etc. Never. And always complains when I do it at 10 when he wants to go to bed. Well... Help and we will be done sooner.
    He keeps playing down my recovery etc. It annoys me.'I had my frucking belly cut open twice in the last 12 months. It is a big deal.'
    I think I have ppd. It is apparently nbd either and I just have to suck it up.

    I am so done.
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  • Sammy-MaeSammy-Mae

    imageNita2603:
    Men are jerks. Mine has been going in between amazing and total failure. I mean, he has been cooking for himself and A, since I cannot eat. He has been helping out with night shifts more than is his share. He has been trying to be nice. BUT... He thinks pumping is 'me time' you know, because I get to sit down while I do it. Mostly with only one kid attached to me. Showering is me time as well. After a c/s apparently you don't need any recovering time. I mean, I jumped right back into everything on day three, right!? My still pretty heavy bleeding is probably unrelated. He never helps with bottles, washing bm containers, pump parts Etc. Never. And always complains when I do it at 10 when he wants to go to bed. Well... Help and we will be done sooner. He keeps playing down my recovery etc. It annoys me.'I had my frucking belly cut open twice in the last 12 months. It is a big deal.' I think I have ppd. It is apparently nbd either and I just have to suck it up. I am so done.

    Make him sit down and pump for half an hour while holding a child.  Let him do it for a day every couple of hours and see how he likes it.  I made DH do this while holding a cabbage patch once when I was still nursing DD.   We would be doing chores and I would stop to nurse DD and DH would stop what he was doing because he "wanted a break too."  I told him it wasn't a break.  He said, "You are sitting down."  So I made him use the pump every time I had to nurse for a day.  He no longer called it a break.  I was pretty irritated with him when I made him do that.

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