TTC After a Loss

I got the sweetest message today.

The women I babysat for all through high school sent me a very sweet message on Facebook out of the blue today. It said:
I think of you and your beloved baby everyday. While I never experienced a miscarriage, I do remember the instant love for my children from the moment I knew I was expecting them. She was lucky to have been loved so fiercely by you. Praying for you and her today.

It meant so much for her to reach out and say those things. I also really appreciated her recognizing how much I loved my baby coming from someone who has never experienced this. Definitely made me cry. Just thought I'd share.


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  • That's very sweet.
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  • That's so sweet! It's so nice to hear things like this, especially a while after the loss. I had a friend I haven't seen in a long time write me an encouraging message yesterday and it's nice to hear since I don't get many words of encouragement other than on here since it's been 8 weeks. Everyone else moves on and doesn't think about your loss except you and your SO. So, it's so encouraging to hear someone still thinking of you. :)
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  • That's so thoughtful....and from someone who hasn't been though it.  So sweet.

    On another note, Roxy your Halloween costume fail is eeewy!  But funny in a strange way!

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  • This made me smile. Really thoughtful. What a sweet lady. 
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  • Aw, that's so sweet!
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  • Oh my, that is so sweet! Makes me a little teary eyed.
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  • That is so thoughtful, especially from someone who has never felt the pain from a loss. 


  • That's so sweet! Especially coming from someone who has never been through a loss. She sounds like a wonderful person!

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  • Wow that's really sweet. It even made me tear up.

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  • That is so sweet and kind of her! (((hugs)))

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  • That's just the sweetest thing!

    Probably unexpected, but so thoughtful! 

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