Pregnant after a Loss

Do you ever feel like...

Slapping yourself whenever one of your friends or family gets KU by surprise and go "I have no idea HOW this happened?!?!". So far it's all I seem to hear from girls. Like my SIL getting KU by having unprotected sex with my brother, when they were broken up. Or my other friend who has a 2 year old and her FI uses the pull out method. Like that's a guarantee against pregnancy??

I seriously feel like slapping myself every. single. time. I hear this come out of some pregnant wenches mouth. You don't know how it happened?? It almost like rubs salt into my wounds too. Cuz these guys get pregnant just by blinking apparently, while we had struggles to get where we are. Ugh.

Ok, vent over.

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  • They must have been absent the day where babies come from was discussed in school...Confused
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  • My DH and I talk about this a lot. I have no freaking clue...

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  • I think it was on first tri board (or May 2013 board) where a couple ladies were a bit bummed they got pregnant the first month of trying to conceive. They figured they had a bit of time to get there party on before they'd actually get pregnant. It took everything in me not to want to virtual slap them. 
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    I think it was on first tri board or May 2013 board where a couple ladies were a bit bummed they got pregnant the first month of trying to conceive. They figured they had a bit of time to get there party on before they'd actually get pregnant. It took everything in me not to want to virtual slap them.nbsp;


    Yup, it was May2013. Major eye rolls from me.
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  • Feel like slapping myself?  No.

    Feel like slapping that person?  Absolutely.

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  • Not myself, but I would certainly like to slap them.  People.are.stupid.

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    Feel like slapping myself?  No.

    Feel like slapping that person?  Absolutely.

    I agree with this. I'm on the May board and I'm glad I didn't notice those people complaining. Why start trying if you wanted to party?

     

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    Feel like slapping myself?  No.

    Feel like slapping that person?  Absolutely.

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    Feel like slapping myself?  No.

    Feel like slapping that person?  Absolutely.

     

    This! People acting shocked when they accidentally get pregnant is on the top of my pet peeve list. One of my friends from high school has NEVER used any type of birth control and has 4 oopsie babies. Each time she gets pregnant she freaks and says she has no idea how it happens since whoever she is having sex with always pulls out as if that is 100% birth control. She has also said on many occasions that she doesn't want her children. People are idiots.

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  • Definitely makes me want to throat punch them.
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  • The one's who say I have no idea yep major face palm. But as someone who is pregnant with a WTH body pregnancy It does happen even to those of us who are PgAL. I was charting to avoid for a few more months and everything was going great until Jan/Feb when my body said ok its time for you to get pregnant I am going to release this egg on CD8 right after you had sex thinking it was a safe time. But I know how it happened and am not totally surprised just didn't think my body would go all wonky on me. I have the "This baby is meant to be" feeling when I think about how he was conceived. I mean we had sex ONCE during a early O month. I fully understand I am a FW and I try not to rub it in.

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  • Wow, unbelievable. I've also had a SIL and two cousins get KU WHILE ON THE PILL!!!   Really??!?!?!?!?!!!!  Sometimes life just feels like cruel joke.
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