I will be 5 weeks tomorrow with my first pregnancy! We have told our families but are waiting to tell everyone else until we are out of the first trimester (hopefully I can wait that long). I am also holding off on doing and shopping until then. My question is regarding baby names. At what point did you decide on names? I am feeling very antsy.
Re: Baby names
We talked about names for years before we even started TTC. We narrowed the list down throughout my last pregnancy and then narrowed down to 2 about a month before I was due. Deciding between the 2 was a game time decision. I love my son's name so the last minute decision thing worked out for us!
This time around, DH wanted to start talking names today already. I'm not there yet...I want to at least hear a heartbeat before I start thinking about names.
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If this baby is a girl I love Charlotte or Camille, but my DH isn't sold on either one of those.
I love thinking about baby names and love hearing names that other people like!
We choose our names during my first pregnancy. We were so excited. I looked (and bought) some baby clothes, etc. When I MC I personally think it made it that much harder for me. It's weird because i'm trying not to make a connection early on this time. I worry about MC all the time. I haven't allowed myself to tell anyone, even think about names, or anything else baby related. I am making myself wait until my US at 8 weeks. Even when I got my beta #s back and they were good i wasn't eased in worried. I need to see a heartbeat before I go into planning. So i think for everyone it is different. I'm not strong enough to let myself get attached yet...
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I can't get DH to really discuss names until after the a/s at 20ish wks. Since we have 2 girls, we've only kicked around boy names a little.
We went into the hospital with DD1 having 2 top names. When DD2 came we gave her the other one.
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We have a boy name picked out (Henry) if this one's a boy... but we had a boy name picked out last time too, and about three-quarters of the way through the pregnancy we changed our minds and picked a new one that we fell in love with. DS is such a Sam, I'm glad we changed out minds!
We've also got a few girl names we like but we're far from having one picked out! It can be hard to find a name that both of you love...
I know lots of couples that have a few on a list and wait to see their baby before making a final decision!
I LOVED playing with baby names for DD! Picking a girl one was really hard and I stressed over it massively until I went into labor, and then I just knew exactly what we'd name her. So I've been in the name game for the past 19 months... our boy name is set in concrete, so that's all good. As for a girl name, that probably won't be decided until she's born, if LO is a she.
According to the whole first day of last AF, I'm about 5 weeks too, but I know we conceived the 18th or 19th. We're going to announce it at Thanksgiving dinner! I'll probably hold off on shopping until March or April, but we still have everything big from DD so we'll only need a carseat, stroller frame and breast pump and some little odds and ends.