I need some working mom advice.
Before babies, I ran 25+ miles a week and lifted on the regular. I miss it dearly. I know I won't find the time to train for a 1/2 marathon right now, but I would like to get at least 3x a week in.
Here's my current weekday:
5:15 - up to get ready before waking the babies
6:00 - feed one baby, get them ready for the day
6:30 - leave for work
7:00 - 4pm work (I usually eat at my desk because I don't have time for lunch, but I am debating on making time for it if it means running on my "lunch" hour)
4:30 - arrive home, give babies baths
5:30- 6:30 - feed, play, put babies to sleep if tired
7:00ish - eat dinner if babies are both sleeping
8:00-9:00 - feed babies final bottle, put to sleep for the night
So, I guess I am mostly looking for motivation to start waking up earlier because it seems that getting it done first thing is my best option. (I have a treadmill and weights at home). I can't believe I would be setting my alarm with a 4 in it...
Re: When do you workout?
Now that we're in a groove, DH does daycare pick up one day a week so I can go to the gym after work. Technically it's my "me" evening to do whatever, but somehow I always end up at the gym!
Right now, neither do I.
This whole working mom thing is WAY harder than I ever imagined.
Boy/girl twins born at 37w1d and 37w2d
Like you, I'm already getting up pretty early. Personally, I can't make myself wake any earlier than I already do.
About twice a week after DD goes to bed, I take an 8:30 class at the gym and DH stays home to do his fun projects (play on the internet, etc.). On weekends, I try to go jogging with DD after breakfast but more often than not, the whole family goes to Starbucks, instead.
Burned by the Bear
I to struggle with this!
I get up at 4:30am weekdays to be at work for 6am. My hubby does drop off so I pick her up usually around 4:30pm, change her, feed her, feed our furbabies, prepare dinner and get out the door.
I walk every weekday evening and weekend morning with LO and our two furbabies!
I run on Friday, Sunday mornings and Wednesday evenings with LO after our walk.
Now I am going to also incoprorate 3 strength training sessions a week, one saturday morning, one monday evening and Im still not sure where to fit the third, lol.
I always wonder how everyone else does it cause it makes a hectic life more hectic lol.
Thank God we have our two goldens because them needing to walk is the motivation that gets me out!
Ive also learned to not sit until I am done for the night! lol!
Good Luck! You can do it!!!!
During my lunch break and on the weekends. This has honestly been the hardest thing for me to give up since pre-baby I always claimed that 'sweat was my sanity'. It still is, I just now have to get my 'sanity' 2 or 3 days a week rather than 5.
If you are able to get up at 4am, more power to you. Personally I can barely stay awake past 11pm these days and I dont have twins!!
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I don't. Well, I try. But let's be honest - I run once a week if I can fit it in, and I try to go on a good hard walk with the kids in the double stroller twice per week. I fit in squats, lunges, and sit-ups once the kids are asleep. I would love to get up early and run 3 times per week or more, but my baby gets up at 6:0 a.m., so there's no way I'm getting up at 5:00 a.m. to fit in a run.
It will come back as the kids get older - that's what happened with DD, once she was past the baby stage I just found more time. But for now, it's pretty low on my list. Sucks, but that's life! Oh, and I do try to fit in a 20 minute walk every day at lunch. So, I'm gettin exercise, just not as much as I would like.
I don't think I would function if I had to get up earlier than I do, but I said that when I was waking up at 5:45. Especially when some of our nights are still dealing with waking babies. Don't get me wrong, they do pretty well for their age - save for DS waking a LOT in the last 3 weeks).
We will be getting a jogging stroller in the spring, so I will when it gets warm enough. I am really hoping it will work out that they will enjoy it and I am actually able to push a double jogger
Boy/girl twins born at 37w1d and 37w2d
I am also a runner and have a treadmill. I have 3 options to working out during the week.
1) workout during my lunch (I work from home, so this is easy for me to do)
2) workout after work while DH does daycare pickup
3) workout around 7 pm after dinner and before DS goes to bed
I would rather workout at night rather than in the morning, but that is just me. I also struggled finding a good workout schedule when DS was little. After he turned 1 and was on a more consistent schedule and eating the same food as us it got a lot easier. Good luck!
I have tried a lot of different ways to squeeze in a workout over the past nine months, the thing that has worked best is that I stopped making dinner. Sometimes H makes it, sometimes I eat a sandwich, but not cooking has freed up about a half hour that I can use to run on the treadmill.
ETA: About half of the people I know are convinced that I am a horrible wife for not cooking dinner, so I realize that this may not be a super popular idea.
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I get up at 5 to run on the treadmill in the basement. It's the only way I work out consistently. I also get to the gym during my workday (eat at my desk, go to the gym in the pm) about 2x a week to lift weights, but it's tougher because it's easy to put it off or get busy.
But, if I were you, I'd either run at lunch or try to cut down your morning routine so that you don't have to get up much earlier if you work out. Sleep is really important and you're already getting up early. Or get in two good runs on the weekends and do one day a week at lunch or early.
Well that makes two of us...I am not cooking these days either! We cook on the weekends (most of the time) and eat leftovers all week.
Oh and I know you have seen me ask a variation on this question about a billion times on GBCN, so thanks for responding yet again
Boy/girl twins born at 37w1d and 37w2d
Me either but I sure do think about it a lot.
Yup, when DS was really little we just gave up going to the gym. I think we started going back to the gym when DS was 15 months or so. I ran my first 10K when he was 18 months. I would do long runs on weekends and we joined LA Fitness and dropped DS off at the gym daycare. Our schedule was hard, especially in the winter- because we both wanted to workout. We would both arrive at the gym at about 5:00 (whoever got off earlier would pick up DS). Drop DS off and get in and out by 6:00 (I showered at home to save time). Home at 610, do all the bedtime and eating stuff (I would have to premake dinners on Sunday if we wanted to eat something other than sandwiches or leftovers). DS went to bed by 7 pm, so really we could have waited and done our workouts later on, and taken turns. I did this occasionally when I wanted to take a class that met at night. I hated this though because exercise always gets endorphins going and keeps me up at night.
I'll be honest- the above schedule stopped working for us after 6-8 months. Gym daycares aren't always the nicest places, and we started feeling guilty about leaving DS there because he really hated it. That next spring DH got a jogging stroller and that made it possible for us both to go on a run when we got home from work. Running with the BOB is intense, and a full body workout!! I'm going to attempt the Monster Dash 5K this fall with DS and the stroller and attempt to match my PR.
Most recently, when DS turned 3, we joined the YMCA. It is way more expensive than LA Fitness, but their children's program is awesome. DS legitimately loves going there, so we don't have the perpetual guilt. We also stagger our gym times more- like I'll pick up DS one night and DH goes to gym, and we'll flip the next. DS has a long day and sometimes he's just too tired to handle gym daycare. He likes going on weekends though and we make a point to spend some family time together in the gym or pool.
Can you wake up a half hour earlier and do a video or run then? Or can you go during your lunch hour?
I wake up at 430 regardless, but recently signed up for a master swim class in the am before work, and go to the gym during lunches 4x a week, and after work 2-3 times a week. DH and I switch days for after work workouts. It took a while to finally get my rear in gear...but if I can get back on the wagon, I think there's hope for everyone!
Good luck! I completely understand feeling like there's not enough time,a nd then when there is, that there's not enough energy.
I work out at lunch some days. I put DD in the running stroller and run 4-5 miles at least 4 or 5 times a week. I also own a treadmill and work out after DD goes to bed at around 7.
I've made it work b/c being fit is so very important to me. When DD was a little baby I would just work out while she napped or when DH was home.
Nope, no cooking during the week here either! Crock pot or salad for us. I only have ONE baby but I push him in the jogger a couple days a week, my sister usually comes and we alternate miles pushing. DS can usually tolerate about 4 miles. So, on the weekends I do my long run while DH stays home with little man. I go to work at 5am so before work isn't an option for me. Even though its hectic and a little stressful to find time, the weeks I do are much better than the ones I don't! Good luck!
Tuesdays and Thursdays or Fridays I go to the gym on my lunch break. Wednesdays my husband is off so I go to Bikram in the evening and sometimes on Sunday morning also. Saturdays and Sundays we always end up walking a ton so at least I'm getting some kind of exercise. I also take her for walks in the neighborhood most evenings.
I WISH I had a treadmill at home!
That's awesome! Congrats.
I am hoping to run a spring 1/2, but I don't want to be too ambitious. It's hard to plan ahead when things are constantly changing. Once they get a bit older and can play more on their own, I am hoping they can sit and play while I run on the treadmill...at least over the winter.
Thanks everyone. Lots of great ideas here.
Boy/girl twins born at 37w1d and 37w2d
I workout at work. I am lucky and have a gym at work, so I take my lunch hour at the end of the day and get a workout in 3-4 days a week.
If I didn't have this option, I would never find time for myself to do anything. I have the best intentions of waking up early and getting 30min in for a DVD, but that snooze button is just too tempting most mornings.