Hi and hello ladies.
I wanted to introduce myself, which I am usually not shy about. This is different though so I may need a little assistance. My name is Rachel, I am 32. I got married yesterday, DH my dear sweet cowboy (44) is sleeping off a massive hang over right now. The wedding was amazing, beautiful, everything I hoped for etc. I don't know if I am to talk about our loss or not in this post. I don't want to bring up any bad feelings for others, because I need someplace to go where there are people like me. I will tell you more about me, I'm pretty much an open book, I just want to make sure my book isn't offensive or anything.
9/13/12 BFP 9/25/12 M/C at 6.5 weeks
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9/13/12 BFP 9/25/12 M/C at 6.5 weeks
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I am very sorry for your loss! Congratulation on getting married!
Welcome and hope your stay is short!!
DS1 2-26-07
#4 Due May 2015
IT'S A BOY
All of this. Welcome to the board, and I hope you find all the comfort and support you need. HUGS!
BFP #1 9/1999. DD Born 6/7/2000
BFP #2 10/2011. EDD 7/11/12. MMC discovered 11/2/11. D&C 11/4/11.
DX PCOS 10/2012.
BFP#3 1/11/13. DS Born 9/17/2013
BFP#4 9/30/17. Grow baby grow!
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I am sorry for your losses.
Congratulations on getting married!
Congratulations on your marriage!
I am so sorry for your losses - right before your wedding must have been difficult to control your emotions.
I wish you and your new DH the best.
First - congrats newly wed!!
Second - I am so sorry for your losses. I can't even imagine going through that just days before your wedding!! I wish you all the best!
TTC since August 2011
BFP#1 3/16/12 EDD 11/21/12 Delivered 6/1/12 at 15 weeks 2 days
"If there ever comes a day when we can't be together... Keep me in your heart, I'll stay there forever." ~ Winnie the Pooh
BFP#2 4/14/13 EDD 12/24/13 Please be our rainbow after the storm!
Beta#1 @ 15dpo 274, P4 16.9 Beta#2 @ 18dpo 940!! Doubling time of 40 hours!! u/s @ 6w2d showed a beautiful HB of 120! u/s @ 10w1d HB 174!! Grow, LO Grow!! Found out 7/22 we are TEAM BLUE!!
Zaiden Harper was born 12/22/13 at 1:46 am. 9lbs 8oz and 22in
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Thank you ladies. It was an odd week. I was marrying the most wonderful man I have ever met, but I had my heart broken too, then again I was seeing family I don't see every day. Up down up down. The hardest part for me was the bed rest. I love to lay around and do nothing, but not when it is forced. All the girls were getting facials etc and I was stuck. My MOH is 24 wks along now, that was tough, but I am extremely happy for her.
The cowboy and I agree that we will not ever be able to remember our wedding day with out remembering our little angel. We had already chosen a name and this week we are going to plant a tree together in memory. When we got our BFP we canceld our honemoon because we read it was bad to vacation at high elevation while pg, we got everything finalized on that last Monday. So that saved some $$.
I had wanted to wait to tell everyone till I was further along, but the cowboy can't keep a secret and I couldn't blame him. For the most part our moms and aunts quietly spread the word to the family that knew so it wasn't mentioned at the wedding, and the pastor said a prayer that included a little something for her, that only dh and I knew about and that was good for us. But of course every village has an idiot so a lady I hardly know brought it up in the receiving line...loudly. My bestie was right behind her so she stepped in along with dh who got the lady moving. But all in all I still feel I had a fairy tale wedding, a bit of life got in the way but it does every now and then.
I read the TTCAL blog and the newbie part and got tons of info today. Pats on the back to whom ever put that together! I really liked the quote about a blink in heaven being a lifetime on earth that was very comforting. Again thank you for your kind words. We go to the doctor this thursday, and then as soon as we can start trying again we are going to.
9/13/12 BFP 9/25/12 M/C at 6.5 weeks
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I'm so sorry for your loss, but welcome to the board and congratulations on the wedding! (My wedding is in a week and a half so we can be wedding buddies! Or something...I just made that up...could you tell :P)
It sounds like you had a really bittersweet month. I hope your heart and body heal quickly and you can get back to the sweet part and away from the bitter.
Natural m/c: 10/17/11
Me (Katie)
DX:PCOS
DH (Adam
Married 10/11/12
TTC #1 since 3/12
9/13/12 BFP 9/25/12 M/C at 6.5 weeks
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Oh boy! Lay it on me! Lol
Natural m/c: 10/17/11
Me (Katie)
DX:PCOS
DH (Adam
Married 10/11/12
TTC #1 since 3/12
M/C 7/8/12
Perfect baby boy born 7/8/13
BFP 8/20/14 EDD 4/27/15 It's a GIRL!!