Hi,
I'm EBF my 3 week old and some of my friends have advocated about how important it is to have a routine with your kids (these friends all had FF babies). I believe routine is important but I feel so confused as to how you have a routine if you are feeding on demand. Can someone share how you started a bedtime routine when breastfeeding and at what age you started?
Re: Routine and BF?
We didn't really start a bedtime routine at night until a few months in. Of course, I still fed on demand overnight for a long time after that too, but for the "going to bed" time, we'd do bath, pjs, BFing and then bed. Now we have dinner first and a book in there too, but it's been roughly the same since.
I also liked the baby whisperer book. It was a "routine" but also flexible. So more like a "pattern" that went over and over again throughout the day. I found it very helpful.
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Then, if you do things at the same time i think it helps them feel secure and start to fall into a routine. I mean things like, eat family dinner about the same time, go on a walk around the same time, etc. Now that DS is 8 months we definitely have a routine, but it sort of just evolved on its own.
I second the baby whisper routine of E-A-S-Y
I could never stretch LO to meet the 2 hour cycle while I was on leave and BFing, but I do thinking having a routine of Eat, Play/Activity, then sleep, help bring some sanity to our lives. Also in the beginning I would nurse pretty much whenever she cried. Having the EASY in the back of our minds help us to get LO to nap more frequently since we would think to ourselves she isn't crying because she is hungry she is crying because she is over tired. I do still routinely BF to sleep and/or nap when I see fit.