Neither DH nor I were brought up going to church. I have been to a few services at different churches with friends through the years and just never really got into it. For the most part I am pretty solidly agnostic and DH is pretty much atheist. However we have just relocated to a new city and are having a really hard time finding a support system and friends. I wass considering joining a church so that we can sort of establish ourselves here. I had a friend in the last place that I lived that went just her and her DD without her DH, and I would be willing to do that but I just don't even know where to start. Since I don't really have "religious beliefs" I don't know where to start. I know I don't want to find an overly pushy church ("believe what we believe as we say or burn in hell") but I don't know how to start that. Any tips??