i dont know how much more UPDATE

doggie mama · September 2012

It turns out that dh's hospitization is more serious than we thought and he is in the cardic icu. He called while I was putting LO down but he doesnt really have any information but his heart rate is really high.

My mom is on her way here to watch LO so I can go up there, but i am freaking out about leaving LO during the night. I keep thinking about the post the other day about the LO who stopped breathing. What if something happens and my mom doesn't realize it or know what to do? When I came home from picking up my dogs it was super hot in here. She's so worried about he r being too cold I'm afraid she'll get overheated. She usually STTN but what if she wakes up and I'm not there?

I hate this. But I have to go to the hospital.

K8says · September 2012

I'm so sorry you're having this day. I had to go to the ER without LO seven days after he was born and it just sucked. A lot. I hope your husband is okay and that your LO STTN tonight. Your mom will take good care of her for you.

Hugs.

SallySunrise · September 2012

Deep breaths. Remind yourself that your mom raised you, and you didn't melt. She can handle this for one night, your LO will be perfectly safe, loved and cared for.

Go be with your husband and really be present with him. Don't worry about anything else, just deal with one thing at a time. You can do this. We're all here for you.

Hugs and prayers, cyber friend.

JustcallmeGG2 · September 2012

you need to be there for your husband. Don't worry, I'm sure your mom will take great care of you baby. your husband need you to be calm and collected now .

RTaylor12 · September 2012

I am so, so sorry you're going through this. T&Ps coming your way.

lewispm · September 2012

I am so sorry to hear you are going through this! Sally said it best though. Your mother raised you and I'm sure she can handle on night with LO. Your husband is enough for you to have on your mind right now so trust in your moms abilities and try to relax.
I'll be thinking of you and your family tonight!

Barefoot84 · September 2012

I'm sorry you have to go through this. I'm sure your mother will take great care of your LO, and hopefully DH will be much better soon. We'll be thinking of you tonight. Keep us posted.

oncoRN · September 2012

T&Ps, lady. Try to stay calm, we are all pulling for you guys!

Pandril19 · September 2012

Sending warm thoughts. And easier said than done, but listen to all the above good advice. Your baby will be fine with your mom. You need to go be with DH.

Breathe.

APendola · September 2012

Thinking of you.

Your mom will do great with LO.

aah1013 · September 2012

I can only imagine how difficult things feel right now. I'm sure LO is in good hands with your mom. So, what if LO does wake up and your mom can't get him back to sleep or something? I promise you, it will not affect your child's future. Everything will be fine. He is with someone that loves him. Focus on who really needs you right now, your husband. Prayers that he gets better soon. Please also take care of yourself!

cwm11985 · September 2012

Ditto everyone; your LO will be okay with your mom. Concentrate on being there for your H. hope everything is okay! Xoxo

breannie · September 2012

I'm so sorry. I hope your DH gets well soon.

FemShep · September 2012

Ditto all the other ladies. Your LO will be just fine. Thinking of you and your family-hang in there!

lilahbean13 · September 2012

Oh my goodness. Sending tp's your way.

meagan.pilkington · September 2012

T & Ps coming your way! I'm so sorry to hear you're having such a hard time. You are SUCH a strong woman, persevering through everything you've struggled with so far. You can get through this too! GL!