Somehow Allison, after all of this, you still have people on your side. That is so far beyond me and I will never understand. However, after everything you put us through, we have come out of it stronger. I have made the best of friends on the fb group. We only got closer after you and Alicia left. So I should be thanking you, I won't, but I should. You can have this place, because I have the most amazing girls in my life through the fb group. These people just have to find out the hard way who you really are.
Re: one last thing
I'm happy that you have such an amazing group of people. I truly am. However, what I have is a firm knowledge of who in my life s fake and who is not.
Since you felt the need to come here and try to rub it in my face that you have all these amazing friends and blah, blah, blah...I will say one thing to you that has been on my mind for months.
You found out about my husband's past long before the drama went down. You deleted me off of your FB friend list and you said not. a. word. to anyone on the group. You found out and you hid it. You "protected" your own children from my big bad husband, but you left everyone else in the group's children out there with no regard for anyone but yourself and your own family. Hmmm.... Now isn't that exactly what you all have nailed Alicia to the cross and crucified her for?
Gee...I wonder why it's so different that you did the EXACT SAME THING. I don't want a response. Just a little food for thought for all of those people who still think you are oh so trustworthy and forthcoming.
Oh, so it's not about your children and their supposed safety, it's about the money. Good to know that your priorities are straight. I'll say it again...if you want your money back you can have it. allisonmarie22v2.0 at gmail dot com.
Like I said the other night. I never asked for it and I was never comfortable taking it in the first place. I just wasn't in the situation to turn it down.
I have no clue why I'm even typing this. You'll just find some other reason to keep the drama going no matter what I say.
Hmm, let's see. Emily wanted to avoid a drama fallout, so she tried to keep it private. You messaged her, bullied her, called her out to everyone and that led to all the information about your husband getting out to everyone. She was trying to avoid conflict, you created it. Alicia knowingly collected and gave money to you, knowing that your husband was a sex offender and that is why he couldn't get a job. And you are still trying to bully Emily. I love how you're all rainbows and unicorns on the May board but your true b*tchy colors come out over here. Just know that every lie you tell, one of us will be right behind you to tell the truth.
What planet do you live on? I haven't bullied Emily here. I have only stated fact.
Another thing is that when all the drama started to go down on the board I NEVER brought Emily's name into it. Someone else said that it was her, but I was always careful to be vague. I still have the messages Emily and I exchanged about it, but I know no one here really cares enough about this drama for me to pull it all out and post it.
You say that she was trying to avoid conflict and that is fine, but the fact is that what all you hens have been clucking about is that you felt your children were in some kind of danger because I was in the group. Well...Emily knew the truth and she kept it from you. She did what she felt she needed to do to protect her own children and basically said to heck with everyone else's. That is not me being a bully, that is the truth. Deal with it.
Nah, I'm not butthurt. I just think it's hilarious...and I do mean HILARIOUS...that you don't see the issue with what she did. You're all so selective about what you deem to be appropriate or not appropriate.
Like I said before, I know who in my life is real. I'd rather have 1 friend that I know I can count on to stand beside me than 100 friends who don't know the meaning of the word. Thanks to this situation that is exactly what I have.
Well, I live in reality, not some planet created by a person with a serious mental illness. It really blows my mind that you try to justify the threat your husband presents (and most likely you as well, I think you're also pretty twisted) on the Internet. You keep trying to sidestep what we are saying. You and Alicia took money under false pretenses. You exposed our profiles to a person convicted of child pornography. That is why we are mad. We are not mad at anyone else but you two so please quit trying to put your psycho spin on things. No matter what you say, no one will think any less of Emily and you just become more disgusting by the post.
Also, your sarcasm, reference to us as "hens" and general tone is bullying. Please for all that is holy take your craziness elsewhere. Why stay where you're not wanted?
I said it before and I'll say it again, you don't send your money to someone who is a mean, insensitive bully. It's amazing to me that you all come here and claim you never liked me and I was a heinous person, but when it came time to raise money to help me you raised over $500 (if memory serves me correctly). Yeah, that's because I was such a horrible person. I needed the group, too and not having it has left a void in my life. Not a day goes by that I don't think about all of you and wish that things could be different.
However, I'm not here to try and rebuild any bridges. I am not the one that keeps bringing this ish up.
Also, I spend plenty of time with my babies. I am on the internet when they are sleeping or with their grandmother. I promise you they are cared for and loved, but thanks for your concern.
Still, I hope my 40 gave you some good meals. That was my pedicure money that month and my painfully swollen feet could have used some pampering.
I think you were/are mean. You said some rude things to me on TB and FB. I messaged you with support before I actually knew what was going on and never heard a thing from you. That shows me there that you didn't give a hoot about the June Bugs support. You just didn't like that you were "outed".
That is a blatant lie. I said like a million times that we had food stamps. Seriously, can't you at least make up something good??
Anyway, my babies are ready for their bath, so away I go.
What you don't know, Allison, is that we, as a group, discussed this with Emily and others who found out about your husband. Their explanation was more than satisfactory. Besides, there's a huge difference between knowing about it for a few days vs knowing about it for months. Also, there is a monumental difference between not sharing this information with the intention of hiding it vs not sharing it because you want to be 100% sure the charges against your husband were indeed child porn charges before bringing it to the group.
That aside, I'm actually, personally, pretty much over the money thing. In some ways, anyway. I think we're a great group of women and that what we did was wonderful. No, we wouldn't have done it if we had all the information as to why your husband was having such a hard time finding a job. But I'm proud of the group for being so giving and pulling together that way. I just wish it had been for someone else.
However, even if we remove the fact that your husband is into child porn, that still leaves YOU, and the sort of person YOU are. I watched you bully so many women on TB and then FB, tear them down, and make them feel like crap. And contrary to what you'd like the May mommies to believe, no, motherhood did not dull that disgusting part of your personality. I was appalled by how many women came forward after you were out of the group and revealed how you had personally bullied them, not just publicly, but also by PMing other members and trashing them.
As to why we would donate money to someone like you? Pity. Also, some people did like you before everything went down. I donated out of guilt for thinking you were such a crappy person and then hearing you detail some new tragedy going on in your life every day.
I know you're here to stay (unless your IP gets banned). I just hope you don't bring your toxicity to the June or May board. Try your best to suppress your personality.
The chicken sandwich wasn't good enough? You kept posting how you were scouring your couch cushions for enough money to buy a chicken sandwich.
How about "Thanks for the 40 dollars so I could pay some bills".
I was just trying to explain my reason for donating to such a "nice" person. You keep wanting to know why we donated if you werent nice. I gave you my reason for donating. Maybe you did have groceries in the house. You wouldn't have known it though with all your, "I can't even afford a chicken sandwich" posts.
You can't buy fast food with food stamps...
I have, many, many times thanked you all for your generosity (as recently as like 30 minutes ago). I did and do appreciate it. I've also said that I'll happily give you your money back since you feel you were duped. Not a single person has taken me up on that offer. You'd all just rather complain that you were scammed by some horrible mean bully that you willingly and eagerly donated your money to...you know...because she's such a bad person.
So, you can say alllll that stuff you just said above, tear me down and humiliate me, but I am a bully because I called you all hens?? Again, what planet do you live on?
We donated the money to you because we wanted you to stop complaning about how terrible your life was. All you talked about was how you scrapped the couch for change, watched Mike play video games, and watched the things in your house pile up by the day. I gave money because I thought maybe it would make you shut up for 5 minutes about how terrible things were for you. We took you on as a charity case, not becasue we liked you.
BINGO!
If you really have nothing better to do with your time then go ahead...
Broken record...you don't send your money to someone you don't like. Period. Maybe if I say it enough you'll start to realize how idiotic it is for you to suggest otherwise.
Also, I think you're getting karma confused with the face you see in the mirror every day. You may want to look into that.
Finally, here is the last message you sent me on Facebook (although I now you will deny you sent it). These really don't sound like the words you would say to someone who is a hateful tormentor. I really don't understand why you all keep insisting it was different, nor do I really understand why I continue to care.
"I'm really really sorry you've been put through the ringer in the last couple of days. I know I haven't said much, because honestly, I just don't know what to say that doesn't sound canned and cheesy. But I have been praying for you that you're going to be OK through all of this stupid BS crap that has been going on. No one ever had the right to dig into Mike's past and bring it up, it was hateful and irrelevant and I'm angry FOR you that people did. I'll be praying for you for surgery to go well on Friday. Please keep me updated as to how things go with it
*hugs*"
You do realize there were roughly 250 girls in the FB group right? Not everyone contributed to your pity party fund. I think it's safe to say those that didn't were either a. bullied by you in some way or b. didn't give a crap about your sob stories bc we too have crap going wrong in our lives. I'm in group b. The girls that did donate to you were more than likely not bullied by you or just played nice with you to avoid being bullied. You know, keep your friends close and your enemies closer.
I'm still just trying to figure out how me being a bully is any different than any of you and the way you are acting right now.
What I'm not trying to figure out anymore is why I'm still trying to argue the point. I've told you I was sorry. I've offered to send your money back. I've tried to move on and just post on boards other than this one. I just keep getting pulled back in by your drama and insults. Not anymore. Just say whatever you want. In the big scheme of things none of you matter to me one bit. You keep trying to prove that you are in some way nicer, kinder and more superior than me, but the longer you continue to insult and ridicule me the more you just prove that you are just as (what are the words you all used...??) pathetic and disgusting as I am.
What we're doing is called RETALIATION, not bullying or ridiculing. Coming back and pretending to be this nice person sure as sh*t isn't fooling anyone, and the ones who fall for your "victim of the FB group" act are just as stupid as Alicia. You know good and well if someone betrayed, lied to and hurt you like you did this awesome group of ladies you would beat them down a million times worse than what anyone has said here.
Also, I feel sorry for your children for having the parents that they do. Your poor kids will forever be known as the pedophile's children and their lives will be lonely and sad because you chose to make that TWO TIME KIDDIE PORN FELON their father. Shame on you.
I'm actually not that upset about the money. The $40 I sent for your pathetic cause was loose change in the grand scheme of things. I only sent it because I sent money for all of the donations we put together, I felt it was the kind thing to do.
And you're right, I did send you that PRIVATE message. I have no problems admitting when I have a momentary lapse in judgement. I sent that message before I had any time to read up on what the real deal was going on and before I had the chance to google your husband myself. At the time, I was incredibly busy moving into my new house and taking care of my children in the process and sent you a private message giving you undeserving support before I knew the full story. The funny thing is, you claimed you were our friends, yet I send this very nice message and you ignored it. Apparently you didn't need the support after all.
Like I said, I had one tiny momentary lapse in judgement(supporting you), you've had a giant one for the last few years.
This is nothing...