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3 months after d&c I find out that it was twins...

NJMom050911NJMom050911 member
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I'm just beyond words. My doctor has been horrible from the moment I walked in to confirm my pregnancy. We had a blood draw after blood draw and three ultrasounds. I was told my baby had a heartbeat of 50 one week and nothing the next and off I went to a D&C. It's been 16 weeks and I still do not have my period even though we tried Provera. Since my doctor was just not concerned I have decided to move on to another practice. So today I went to pick up my records so I can bring them to the new office next week. I found out I was pregnant with TWINS. One was a possible BO but there were two gestational sacks. NOT ONCE did they mention this to me. How could they.  I'm angry, and sad and hurt and back to what ifs.
Logan Alexander born May 9th 2011. He has stolen my heart forever. Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker BFP #2 05/24/12 EDD 01/31/13 D&C 06/26/12 Missing you. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Diagnosed with Ashermans 11/06/12 Surgery 01/18/13, Cleared for TTC 03/01/13 BFP 03/26/13 IT'S A BOY! Please Be Our Rainbow! BabyFruit Ticker
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Re: 3 months after d&c I find out that it was twins...

  • AmeliaKrisAmeliaKris member
    That's terrible. They should have told you. I'm sorry for your losses. Hugs!
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  • tailanistailanis member
    How horrible! This was something that they should have told you.  I am so glad you moved practice. Very sorry for the loss of your babies. :(
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  • mummalovemummalove

    I'm so sorry! There are no words...

    Try not to do the what-ifs. Hang in there!  

    BFP#1 due 3/5/2007 missed m/c at 10w, d&c 8/2006 BFP#2 DD 6/2007 BFP#3 DS 5/2009 BFP#4 due 4/8/12 m/c at 9w3d, after weeks of waiting for hcg to go down finally prescribed misoprosotol BFP#5 DUE 8/15/13 Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
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  • KMW08KMW08 member

    As with a PP, I too am glad you are chaging practices.  I'm so sorry for your loss and that you had to find out by getting your records and not from anybody at the office. What record was it that stated twins -- ultrasound report or d&c report or both? 

    I would say that it would be worthy to make a phone call to a supervisor or hr department and make a formal complaint about this.

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  • luciddreamer106luciddreamer106 member
    That's really horrible. Sorry that this happened to you.  I hope that your next OB is beyond amazing. (hugs)
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  • AquaFlowersAquaFlowers
    I'm so sorry that happened to you!
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  • darjeelingdarjeeling member
    I am so sorry.  That is inexcusable.  I would consider finding out how to complain to the medical board in your area.  I am so sorry for your loss, and I hope your next doctor is totally amazing.  (((((hugs)))))

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  • NJMom050911NJMom050911 member
    It was the final ultrasound, the previous two have no mention of a second sack. If I had known I would have waited a week longer for the DC
    Logan Alexander born May 9th 2011. He has stolen my heart forever. Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker BFP #2 05/24/12 EDD 01/31/13 D&C 06/26/12 Missing you. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Diagnosed with Ashermans 11/06/12 Surgery 01/18/13, Cleared for TTC 03/01/13 BFP 03/26/13 IT'S A BOY! Please Be Our Rainbow! BabyFruit Ticker
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  • sgb721sgb721 member

    I am so sorry for your loss. I am glad that you are moving on to another practice. I would request an ultrasound or an SHG to ensure that you don't have any left over products of conception. It happened to me after my 4th loss which could have prevented future pregnancies.

    I know you're in North Jersey but I would recommend NJ reproductive science center RE - Dr. Jessica Mann if you wanted to check her out. She's fantastic- very open and honest. 

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  • NJMom050911NJMom050911 member
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    I am so sorry for your loss. I am glad that you are moving on to another practice. I would request an ultrasound or an SHG to ensure that you don't have any left over products of conception. It happened to me after my 4th loss which could have prevented future pregnancies.

    I know you're in North Jersey but I would recommend NJ reproductive science center RE - Dr. Jessica Mann if you wanted to check her out. She's fantastic- very open and honest. 

    you're so sweet! Thank you!

    Logan Alexander born May 9th 2011. He has stolen my heart forever. Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker BFP #2 05/24/12 EDD 01/31/13 D&C 06/26/12 Missing you. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Diagnosed with Ashermans 11/06/12 Surgery 01/18/13, Cleared for TTC 03/01/13 BFP 03/26/13 IT'S A BOY! Please Be Our Rainbow! BabyFruit Ticker
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  • BellanieNJBellanieNJ member

    First I am so sorry for the loss of your twins. 

    Second, I am so glad that you followed your gut and made the switch to a new doc.  Any practitioner who has such poor judgment as to not share that type of information with you is just a nightmare waiitng to happen. 

    Sending T&P your way and wishing you good luck with your new doc.  ((hugs))

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