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TMI - Here's where I talk about my sex life

FremdschamenFremdschamen member
in April 2013 Moms
We dusted some major cobwebs off the vajayjay last night, and while it was fine during, afterwards, OUCH!  I am still swollen this morning.  Has this happened to anyone else?

BFP #1: 08/17/2012  DD1 born 05/01/2013

BFP #2: 07/31/2015  M/C 09/23/2015 (11.5 weeks)

BFP #3: 12/16/2015 DD2 born 8/27/2016
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Re: TMI - Here's where I talk about my sex life

  • UberBizUberBiz member
    That generally happens when we go a while without doing it, but I have to imagine with the increased blood flow down there that it would be worse after a hiatus. Hopefully you feel better soon!
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  • Monsieur_et_Madame_HaMonsieur_et_Madame_Ha member
    I haven't had sex since before my BFP and I won't be having any until the hematoma is gone - My next u/s is my NT scan on Oct 13 at noon, so ask me again at about 12:05 on Oct. 13 ;)
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  • MurraydogMurraydog member
    Yes. I had the same thing happen.  It hadn't been THAT long since we last did that, but over the weekend we had some time together and I was sore until yesterday evening.  Must just be that everything down there is really delicate right now.  Maybe lube it up next time to see if that helps? 
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  • FremdschamenFremdschamen member
    Glad to hear I'm not alone.  Lubrication definitely wasn't an issue, but I think I should have discussed with DH how sensitive that area really is before we got down to business!  He did not understand what I meant when I said it was more sensitive, lol.  (DH tends to be a little clueless about women in general)

    BFP #1: 08/17/2012  DD1 born 05/01/2013

    BFP #2: 07/31/2015  M/C 09/23/2015 (11.5 weeks)

    BFP #3: 12/16/2015 DD2 born 8/27/2016
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  • JSS1002JSS1002 member
    These days it is fine, but the first few times after my BFP, ouchie. I htink I was nervous on top of sensitive. Bad combo.
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  • tinychefjacksontinychefjackson member

    Happened here. I think I went numb the first time. Haha

    The second time felt amazing. Thank you, increased blood flow. Wink

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  • jrjl450jrjl450 member
    I haven't had sex since finding out we were pregnant; hubby wants to, but i just don't feel attractive anymore. i worked so hard to lose weight for our wedding, but now that i'm bloated and not feeling well i am just not in the mood. hopefully it changes... for my husband's sake, lol!
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  • kjesmerkjesmer
    Yup ouch!
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  • huskies09huskies09

    Same thing here. We are now more on a schedule of every other day because of the soreness that tends to follow.

    Another question: anyone find that certain positions (ie. doggy style) allow for a little TOO much penetration since getting pregnant? This used to be one of our "go-to" positions but now I have to warn the husband to back off a little since it is way too uncomfortable if he doesnt.

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  • Amethyst26Amethyst26 member
    Same here! We hadn't had sex in nearly 5 weeks because I had three bleeds after sex or orgasms, so I put the DH on probation! He was going crazy, so over the weekend we gave it a try & EUREKA, no blood, but I was definitely sore afterwards. It went away after a day or so, but then I developed a painful vajajay boil, so he's back on probation!!!! :-/
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  • leasajleasaj member
    Sex?  What's that?  Between feeling super tired & sick to my stomach and my husband being afraid to touch me....ugh....it's been awhile.  The last time we had sex I started spotting a little bit afterwards and it freaked him out.  Now he's afraid that he will hurt me/baby/etc.
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  • TnArichmondTnArichmond member

    imagejrjl450:
    I haven't had sex since finding out we were pregnant; hubby wants to, but i just don't feel attractive anymore. i worked so hard to lose weight for our wedding, but now that i'm bloated and not feeling well i am just not in the mood. hopefully it changes... for my husband's sake, lol!

     

    This exactly!! I lost 30 pounds before our wedding. (Which was the last of the baby weight from DD). Now I'm feeling so gross and tired and I was sick... we hadn't had sex since the weekend of our wedding, which is when we conceived. He tried but I just never wanted to. I started to feel really bad for him too. This past weekend we DTD, I was fine during, but then as soon as I was done orgasming, boyyy did it hurt!! Then I was sore for a day afterwards too... I'm thinking we'll try again this weekend.

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