So, my husband and I closed on our house today! We are very happy. But it was a little bittersweet at the walk-through, when we were trying to figure out what to do with our 2 non-master bedrooms. My husband thought that we should use my favorite room for the nursery. I was thinking how sad I will be if my favorite room ends up being a guest room forever.
This whole process stinks. At least I know you ladies can sympathize. We've had a nice run of good luck on the board; I hope it continues!
Re: I'm happy ... really.
Congrats!! Enjoy the house and try not to think about the nursery. Hard I know..
I gave up a year ago on the nursery and painted it grey. We bought the house in July 2010 and didn't paint it at first since I knew I'd want it a specific color.... when that didn't happen, it was like the room was taunting me month after month. I finally said screw it and we had it painted.
TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
DE IVF #3 1/14 ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d
DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!
K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days
SAIF/PAIF Welcome
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Try to enjoy the happiness of your new home today. Worry about what to do with that room some other time.
Congratulations on the house! I completely understand how you feel but definitely try to enjoy the excitement of the new house and setting up all the other rooms for as long as you can
Congratulations!!

I totally get it. We are buying a house that has 3.5 bedrooms in a great school district with faith that we'll have 1 or 2 kids. It's going to happen!! And it it doesn't, we'll just have to cross that bridge when we get to it.
TTC 10/11. IUI 2/12. BFP 3/8/12. 4/26/12 missed mc. RE consult 5/17/12. IVF #1 ER 7/13/12 53R, 41M ICSIed, 32F, 8 5d, 6 6d blasts - all PGD/frozen. PGD results 1 normal M and 1 normal F, 1 maybe M. FET 9/6, transferred 1 F embie. Beta 9/15 BFN. FET#2 planned for 11/2012 put off until 2013. Surprise BFP 11/21/12!! My son was born on 7/24/13!
Thanks, ladies! I knew you all would understand. I hope that we all get to plan our nurseries soon!
Emikat -- we don't have any projects to start on immediately. We are going to get a refrigerator, grill, and lawn mower this weekend, and that's it for now. Oh, and doors for the bathrooms -- the previous owner was disabled, so the doors were all removed. That should be our number one priority! We plan to do a major project each year, as finances allow. I think the first thing will be to get rid of the 1970s bathrooms.
Me:36 DH:38 TTC#1 since 4/2012
Me DX: Hashimotos,Hypothyroid, DOR, MTHFR, DH: normal
IUI #1-#4 BFNs and a few cancelled cycles in the mix.
- poor responder
***Suprise BFP on 6/13/13. Natural MC @6wks 3days
IVF#1 and 2- Cancelled due to no response on max stimms
FET 5/20- BFP
1st Beta- 641
2nd beta- 2166
Sono- TWINS!!!!
Two Boys! Born January 2015 @36 weeks. Healthy and no NICU! So blessed!
My Ovulation Chart
Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
3 cycles clomid with Ob,
1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.
May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN
May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't.
February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing.
SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!
Miscarriage 4/23/15
As much as I would love to forget about trying, as I approach month 21 of TTC, 3 rounds of Clomid (two with trigger shots) & 4 IUIs, I'm not sure that's going to be the key for me.
That is a sweet story about your parents, though.
ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive. Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)
DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!
Congratulations on your new home!
I did the same thing, sort of, we renovated our condo last year and the only room I didn't redo was the current "man cave" which I am saving to paint a beautiful mural on the wall eventually...(I hope)...for now it is just a dirty room of Grateful Dead memorabilia.