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What is you 3yo learning in preschool?

DD1 just started preschool this week. I got the goals for the year and they seem awfully simple - clapping to music; using 4-6 word sentences; repeats simple rhymes/songs; listeing to short stories and poems; counting to 5 correctly; pointing to 4 basic colors; pointing to shapes (circle, square, triangle); understanding concepts such as open/close, hot/cold, fast slow; knows name and age.  DD does all of these things and more.  So I checked out the goalsfor next year (4yo preschool) and there is only one thing on that list that she can't do right now (writing own name) but she does everything else on that list too - holding crayons correctly; knows 8 basic colors; counts to 20; recognizes some letters and numbers; identifies conceps such as alike/different, near/far, high/low; follows 2-step instructions; speaks in complete sentences.  When I asked the teacher about this, she explained that while they teach the children new things, they are only "required" to know a very limited amount to go to kindergarten and that preschool is more about learning to be in a structured school setting, learning how to share and take direction room grown ups, socializing with other children - not necessarily academics.  I will be a SAHM mom soon, my last day of work is Wednesday, and DH and I plan to continue teaching her what we feel she should know (we are currently working on writing letters and learning what sounds each letter makes). I guess we were just hoping she'd learn more at school.  What do you ladies think?
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  • My 3 year old is learning to separate from home, use words with friends, listen to an adult who is not me, follow rules of a classroom, empathy, and taking turns.  He learns about literacy, science, colors, letters, art, music creativity, and gross and fine motor skills, etc through imaginary play, books, blocks, cooking, sand, manipulatives, outdoor time and all the other fun stuff he does at preschool.

    My daughter could also do everything your daughter can in the 3s.  She knew her letter sounds before 2 years old.  Still learned a TON in preschool and was well prepared for kindergarten this year.  My son doesn't know all his letters like his sister did, but I'm not worried about it at all.  I didn't have "academic" goals for preschool and intentionally chose a school that had a play-based, child-led curriculum.  I agree with the director of our school who says if your child is bored in a play-based school, it is not because they are "too smart" or the academics are "not challenging."  Smart, creative kids can make their own fun and learning happen.  

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  • I have mixed feelings about this.  My DS (last year) was in a class that was very play-based.  Because I taught preschool to 3's and UPK to 4's, I really wanted a little more learning mixed in with the playing.  To each their own opinion, but my DS was reading/spelling/writing sentences last year and it frustrated me that they wouldn't even differentiate instruction enough to ask him to write his own name on his papers. 

    This year in the 4's, it is more structured, less play, more routines...I don't know, but he loves it.  I am under the impression that if the class is ready, they will push them a little with what academics they are teaching.  That isn't my goal or the purpose of preschool, but I know he would enjoy it. 

    O 10.08 & MJ 6.10
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    My 3 year old is learning to separate from home, use words with friends, listen to an adult who is not me, follow rules of a classroom, empathy, and taking turns.  He learns about literacy, science, colors, letters, art, music creativity, and gross and fine motor skills, etc through imaginary play, books, blocks, cooking, sand, manipulatives, outdoor time and all the other fun stuff he does at preschool.

    My daughter could also do everything your daughter can in the 3s.  She knew her letter sounds before 2 years old.  Still learned a TON in preschool and was well prepared for kindergarten this year.  My son doesn't know all his letters like his sister did, but I'm not worried about it at all.  I didn't have "academic" goals for preschool and intentionally chose a school that had a play-based, child-led curriculum.  I agree with the director of our school who says if your child is bored in a play-based school, it is not because they are "too smart" or the academics are "not challenging."  Smart, creative kids can make their own fun and learning happen.  

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    Bright well developing kids are sponges, they make their own curriculum. I never did any rote instruction with DS, yet he knew all his colors down magenta and teal. He know his numerals plus the symbols for infinity and pi. What he needed to learn in preschool was how to wait his turn, delay gratification, share, be part of a team and the general etiquette expectations of the classroom. We chose a traditional play based nursery school and PK.

    Exactly this.  My daughter is learning how to be at school and be social without me being there.  She is learning about listening and following directions.  They are doing handwriting this year at her school.  I personally like Montessori and my very very bright brother (his IQ is 155) did very well in that setting because he knew how to multiply at 3.  So you may want to look into something like that if you want her to go above the standard curriculum.  Those are probably just the standards that they will follow but I am sure they adjust somewhat to each child.  When I was teaching I had children in first grade that could read chapter books down to children that were just learning their letters and how to read.  So I had to adjust to each child even though their were standards that they all had to reach before going to second grade. 

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    I have mixed feelings about this.  My DS (last year) was in a class that was very play-based.  Because I taught preschool to 3's and UPK to 4's, I really wanted a little more learning mixed in with the playing.  To each their own opinion, but my DS was reading/spelling/writing sentences last year and it frustrated me that they wouldn't even differentiate instruction enough to ask him to write his own name on his papers. 

    This year in the 4's, it is more structured, less play, more routines...I don't know, but he loves it.  I am under the impression that if the class is ready, they will push them a little with what academics they are teaching.  That isn't my goal or the purpose of preschool, but I know he would enjoy it. 

    Our kindie cut-off is Sept 30th, so your DS would have just missed the cut-off in our county.  I can see why he might have been ready for some things that younger threes wouldn't have been ready for.

    To the OP:  Our pre-school is a traditional play-based preschool, and DD has done wonderfully there.  She just started pre-k, but she could do almost everything on the kindergarten readiness checklist last year, too.  She knows the sounds that the letters make, and she has started sounding out words, and developing some sight words that she can recognize.  We encourage this but don't actively teach it to her.  She just learns it on her own. 

    Learning to listen to adults and follow directions, transition from activity to activity, make friends and resolve conflicts are all skills that more important than academics at this age, IMO.  It's great that you want to teach her more at home, though :)  

  • My DD is in a Montessori school so she will learn more but it sounds like you choose a play based preschool and those goals sound normal for that. You have to decide why you are sendin her to preschool and if the school meets those needs.
    Jen - Mom to two December 12 babies Nathaniel 12/12/06 and Addison 12/12/08
  • DS is learning the days of the week. The months of the year. Numbers past 10. He is learning Spanish and sign language. How to use sissors correctly, how to hold crayons correctly. How to write letters, draw shapes etc. DS is at a daycare with a school curriculum.
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    I have mixed feelings about this.  My DS (last year) was in a class that was very play-based.  Because I taught preschool to 3's and UPK to 4's, I really wanted a little more learning mixed in with the playing.  To each their own opinion, but my DS was reading/spelling/writing sentences last year and it frustrated me that they wouldn't even differentiate instruction enough to ask him to write his own name on his papers. 

    This year in the 4's, it is more structured, less play, more routines...I don't know, but he loves it.  I am under the impression that if the class is ready, they will push them a little with what academics they are teaching.  That isn't my goal or the purpose of preschool, but I know he would enjoy it. 

    Our kindie cut-off is Sept 30th, so your DS would have just missed the cut-off in our county.  I can see why he might have been ready for some things that younger threes wouldn't have been ready for.

    To the OP:  Our pre-school is a traditional play-based preschool, and DD has done wonderfully there.  She just started pre-k, but she could do almost everything on the kindergarten readiness checklist last year, too.  She knows the sounds that the letters make, and she has started sounding out words, and developing some sight words that she can recognize.  We encourage this but don't actively teach it to her.  She just learns it on her own. 

    Learning to listen to adults and follow directions, transition from activity to activity, make friends and resolve conflicts are all skills that more important than academics at this age, IMO.  It's great that you want to teach her more at home, though :)  

    My DS is actually the youngest in his class.  Our cut off is Dec 1, and he turns 4 on Oct 28.  

    O 10.08 & MJ 6.10
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    I have mixed feelings about this.  My DS (last year) was in a class that was very play-based.  Because I taught preschool to 3's and UPK to 4's, I really wanted a little more learning mixed in with the playing.  To each their own opinion, but my DS was reading/spelling/writing sentences last year and it frustrated me that they wouldn't even differentiate instruction enough to ask him to write his own name on his papers. 

    This year in the 4's, it is more structured, less play, more routines...I don't know, but he loves it.  I am under the impression that if the class is ready, they will push them a little with what academics they are teaching.  That isn't my goal or the purpose of preschool, but I know he would enjoy it. 

    Our kindie cut-off is Sept 30th, so your DS would have just missed the cut-off in our county.  I can see why he might have been ready for some things that younger threes wouldn't have been ready for.

    To the OP:  Our pre-school is a traditional play-based preschool, and DD has done wonderfully there.  She just started pre-k, but she could do almost everything on the kindergarten readiness checklist last year, too.  She knows the sounds that the letters make, and she has started sounding out words, and developing some sight words that she can recognize.  We encourage this but don't actively teach it to her.  She just learns it on her own. 

    Learning to listen to adults and follow directions, transition from activity to activity, make friends and resolve conflicts are all skills that more important than academics at this age, IMO.  It's great that you want to teach her more at home, though :)  

    My DS is actually the youngest in his class.  Our cut off is Dec 1, and he turns 4 on Oct 28.  

    Oops!  Sorry!  Reading comprehension fail :)  He sounds like a really smart little guy.  It's crazy how the cut-offs vary from place to place. 

  • I wasn't trying to be weird, just clarifying.  I know there are kids in his class who are a whole year older because their parents want them to start kindy at 5, turning 6.  In general, and maybe it is just the (resource) teacher in me, I wish more (ALL) teachers would differentiate their instruction to meet the needs of their students! 
    O 10.08 & MJ 6.10
  • I honestly have no idea what they are learning right now in preschool in terms of academics. I don't really care. I am really focused on DS developing a love of school in general. If he comes home and tells me that he had fun, that is good enough for me for a 3 year old.
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  • DD is in a medium academic preschool meaning not the most academic in the area, but also more than other play-focused schools.  She goes 21/2 hrs 2 times a week and so far in the second class, they worked on drawing circles and other "play" along the lines of learning/using circles.  
    In her three year old class (from website)  While making friends they are learning the stepping stones of Reading; alphabet recognition and sounds, making alphabet pancakes. Counting and recognizing numbers; Making edible dominoes, mixing a volcano, marching to music, and 3D marshmallow shapes.
    Our four year olds are leaving for Kindergarten reading, telling time, adding, and subtracting. They traveled the Rain Forest, put dinosaurs together, sat in a class planetarium, and held baby chicks an hour after they pecked out of their egg.  They have "homework" in both programs.
    I personally do not feel it is exactly necessary for her to be in a very academic setting right now, but it seems like a nice mix.  I do want her to be prepared along these lines for kindergarten since I've been told that they expect a lot of the kids right from the beginning.  Preschool, however, is mostly about her being away from me and then secondly learning a bit.  I do feel like your program seems really basic and my daughter would probably want and need a little bit more.
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  • Last year in his 3 yo class, DS mainly learned socialization skills, which he needed.  He learned how to play and share with others, how to voice his opinions in a civilized manner, how to act appropriately in a classroom setting, etc.  They did a lot of play and arts and crafts, but not a lot of "academics".  He could do everything your LO could do before he started school.  He knew all his letters and their phonetic sounds by 18 months, counted to 30, knew his colors, etc.  But if you compared DS at the beginning of the school year with the end, you saw a huge difference in his social skills, his independence and confidence level.  He learned so much just be being around other kids (he was one of the youngest in the class, so a lot of his classmates were more advanced than he was in certain areas). 

    We just did more of the academic stuff at home whenever we got a chance. 

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  • Another vote for small children don't get bored unless there is something wrong.  A bright child will alter activities, engage in things differently, create new situations, etc.  And by posting this, I may be going over board, but PLAY is so much more important than shapes, letters, etc.  Free time to play is where the growth and development comes from - not the few objectives they have defined as goals.  Ignore that stuff - it isn't important! 

     

    The article discusses the importance of children's free play. It states that free play is crucial for becoming socially adept, coping with stress and building cognitive skills such as problem solving. Studies show that play deprivation during childhood disrupts normal social, emotional and cognitive development in humans and animals. INSET: All Work and No Play ...by M. W..

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    The Serious Need for Play

    Free, imaginative play is crucial for normal social, emotional and cognitive development. It makes us better adjusted, smarter and less stressed
    On August 1, 1966, the day psychiatrist Stuart Brown started his assistant professorship at the Baylor College of Medicine in Houston, 25-year-old Charles Whitman climbed to the top of the University of Texas Tower on the Austin campus and shot 46 people. Whitman, an engineering student and a former U.S. Marine sharpshooter, was the last person anyone expected to go on a killing spree. After Brown was assigned as the state's consulting psychiatrist to investigate the incident and later, when he interviewed 26 convicted Texas murderers for a small pilot study, he discovered that most of the killers, including Whitman, shared two things in common: they were from abusive families, and they never played as kids.

    Brown did not know which factor was more important. But in the 42 years since, he has interviewed some 6,000 people about their childhoods, and his data suggest that a lack of opportunities for unstructured, imaginative play can keep children from growing into happy, well- adjusted adults. "Free play," as scientists call it, is critical for becoming socially adept, coping with stress and building cognitive skills such as problem solving. Research into animal behavior confirms play's benefits and establishes its evolutionary importance: ultimately, play may provide animals (including humans) with skills that will help them survive and reproduce.

    Most psychologists agree that play affords benefits that last through adulthood, but they do not always agree on the extent to which a lack of play harms kids ? particularly because, in the past, few children grew up without ample frolicking time. But today free play may be losing its standing as a staple of youth. According to a paper published in 2005 in the Archives of Pediatrics & Adolescent Medicine, children's free-play time dropped by a quarter between 1981 and 1997. Concerned about getting their kids into the right colleges, parents are sacrificing playtime for more structured activities. As early as preschool, youngsters' after-school hours are now being filled with music lessons and sports ? reducing time for the type of imaginative and rambunctious cavorting that fosters creativity and cooperation.

    A handful of studies support Brown's conviction that a play-deprived childhood disrupts normal social, emotional and cognitive development in humans and animals. He and other psychologists worry that limiting free play in kids may result in a generation of anxious, unhappy and socially maladjusted adults. "The consequence of a life that is seriously play-deprived is serious stuff," Brown says. But it is never too late to start: play also promotes the continued mental and physical well-being of adults [see box on page 27].

    Worries over the demise of play began surfacing as far back as 1961, when the International Play Association was founded in Denmark to protect, preserve and promote play as a fundamental right for all children. But the idea became more popular a little over a decade ago, when many

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    more nonprofit foundations ? such as the National Institute for Play in Carmel Valley, Calif., started by Brown, and other organizations, including the Alliance for Childhood and the Association for the Study of Play ? began forming around the globe to promote the value of play and to raise concerns over its demise.

    Freedom Counts

    But kids play soccer, Scrabble and the sousaphone ? so why are experts concerned that these games and more structured activities are eating into free play? Certainly games with rules are fun and sources of learning experiences ? they may foster better social skills and group cohesion, for instance, says Anthony D. Pellegrini, an educational psychologist at the University of Minnesota. But, Pellegrini explains, "games have a priori rules ? set up in advance and followed. Play, on the other hand, does not have a priori rules, so it affords more creative responses."

    This creative aspect is key because it challenges the developing brain more than following predetermined rules does. In free play, kids use their imagination and try out new activities and roles.

    The child initiates and creates free play. It might involve fantasies ? such as pretending to be doctors or princesses or playing house ? or it might include mock fighting, as when kids (primarily boys) wrestle and tumble with one another for fun, switching roles periodically so that neither of them always wins. And free play is most similar to play seen in the animal kingdom, suggesting that it has important evolutionary roots. Gordon M. Burghardt, author of The Genesis of Animal Play, spent 18 years observing animals to learn how to define play: it must be repetitive ? an animal that nudges a new object just once is not playing with it ? and it must be voluntary and initiated in a relaxed setting. Animals and children do not play when they are undernourished or in stressful situations. Most essential, the activity should not have an obvious function in the context in which it is observed ? meaning that it has, essentially, no clear goal.

    Face Time

    How do these seemingly pointless activities benefit kids? Perhaps most crucially, play appears to help us develop strong social skills. "You don't become socially competent via teachers telling you how to behave," Pellegrini says. "You learn those skills by interacting with your peers, learning what's acceptable, what's not acceptable." Children learn to be fair and take turns ? they cannot always demand to be the fairy queen, or soon they have no playmates. "They want this thing to keep going, so they're willing to go the extra mile" to accommodate others' desires, he explains. Because kids enjoy the activity, they do not give up as easily in the face of frustration as they might on, say, a math problem ? which helps them develop persistence and negotiating abilities.

    Keeping things friendly requires a fair bit of communication ? arguably the most valuable social skill of all. Play that transpires with peers is the most important in this regard. Studies show that children use more sophisticated language when playing with other children than when playing with adults. In pretend play, for instance, "they have to communicate about something that's not

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    physically present, so they have to use complicated language in such a way that they can communicate to their peer what it is that they're trying to say," Pellegrini explains. For example, kids can't get away with just asking, "Vanilla or chocolate?" as they hand a friend an imaginary cone. They have to provide contextual clues: "Vanilla or chocolate ice cream: Which one would you like?" Adults, on the other hand, fill in the blanks themselves, making things easier for kids.

    If play helps children become socialized, then lack of play should impede social development ? and studies suggest that it does. According to a 1997 study of children living in poverty and at high risk of school failure, published by the High/Scope Educational Research Foundation in Ypsilanti, Mich., kids who enrolled in play-oriented preschools are more socially adjusted later in life than are kids who attended play-free preschools where they were constantly instructed by teachers. By age 23, more than one third of kids who had attended instruction-oriented preschools had been arrested for a felony as compared with fewer than one tenth of the kids who had been in play-oriented preschools. And as adults, fewer than 7 percent of the play-oriented preschool attendees had ever been suspended from work, but more than a quarter of the directly instructed kids had.

    Animal studies lend support to the idea that play deprivation leads to poor social skills. According to a study published in 1999 in Behavioural Brain Research, rats that are kept isolated during the two weeks of development when they most frequently play ? the fourth and fifth weeks after birth ? are much less socially active when they later encounter other rats as compared with rats that are not isolated during the same two-week period. And a study published in Developmental Psychobiology in 2002 revealed that male rats reared in isolation during their youth fail to display normal avoidance behaviors when introduced to dominant male rats that repeatedly attack them. Could play deprivation specifically cause these behavioral problems ? or could social isolation in general have been the culprit?

    Another study suggests that play promotes neural development in "higher" brain areas involved in emotional reactions and social learning. Scientists reported in 2003 that play fighting releases brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF) ? a protein that stimulates the growth of new neurons ? in these regions. The researchers allowed 13 control rats to play freely with companions for three and a half days and kept 14 other rats isolated for the same period. On examining the rats' brains, the researchers found that the cortex, hippocampus, amygdala and pons of the rats that had played contained much higher levels of BDNF than those of the rats that had not. "I think play is the major mechanism whereby higher regions of the brain get socialized," says Washington State University neuroscientist Jaak Panksepp, who co-authored the study.

    Stress Relief

    Research suggests that play is also critical for emotional health, possibly because it helps kids work through anxiety and stress. In a 1984 study published in the Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry, researchers assessed the anxiety levels of 74 threeand four-year-old children on their first day of preschool as indicated by their behavior ? whether they pleaded, whined and begged

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    their parents to stay ? and how much their palms were sweating. Based on the researchers' observations, they labeled each child as either anxious or not anxious. They then randomly split the 74 kids into four groups. Half of the kids were escorted to rooms full of toys, where they played either alone or with peers for 15 minutes; the other half were told to sit at a small table either alone or with peers and listen to a teacher tell a story for 15 minutes.

    Afterward, the kids' levels of distress were assessed again. The anxiety levels of the anxious kids who had played had dropped by more than twice as much as compared with the anxious kids who had listened to the story. (The kids who were not anxious to begin with stayed about the same.) Interestingly, those who played alone calmed down more than the ones who played with peers. The researchers speculate that through imaginative play, which is most easily initiated alone, children build fantasies that help them cope with difficult situations.

    Animal studies also support the idea that play helps to alleviate stress ? a concept known in neuroscience as social buffering. In a study published in 2008, Gettysburg College neuroscientist Stephen Siviy put rats into a chamber by themselves and exposed them to a collar previously worn by a cat, which made them visibly anxious. Later, the chamber was cleaned so it no longer smelled of the cat, the rats were put back in without the cat collar, and the rats immediately became anxious again, probably because they associated the space with the cat. But if Siviy and his colleagues then introduced another rat into the chamber ? one that had never been exposed to the cat collar and was not afraid ? the two would begin playing by chasing each other, tumbling and pretend fighting. And shortly thereafter, the first rat would relax and become calm, suggesting that play helped the rat to lessen its anxiety.

    Play to the Head of the Class

    Relieving stress and building social skills may seem to be obvious benefits of play. But research hints at a third, more counterintuitive area of influence: play actually appears to make kids smarter. In a classic study published in Developmental Psychology in 1973, researchers divided 90 preschool children into three groups. One group was told to play freely with four common objects ? among the choices were a pile of paper towels, a screwdriver, a wooden board and a pile of paper clips. A second set was asked to imitate an experimenter using the four objects in common ways. The last group was told to sit at a table and draw whatever they wanted, without ever seeing the objects. Each scenario lasted 10 minutes. Immediately afterward, the researchers asked the children to come up with ideas for how one of the objects could be used. The kids who had played with the objects named, on average, three times as many nonstandard, creative uses for the objects than the youths in either of the other two groups did, suggesting that play fosters creative thinking.

    Play fighting also improves problem solving. According to a paper published by Pellegrini in 1989, the more elementary school boys engaged in roughhousing, the better they scored on a test of social problem solving. During the test, researchers presented kids with five pictures of a child trying to get a toy from a peer and five pictures of a child trying to avoid being reprimanded by his

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    mother. The subjects were then asked to come up with as many possible solutions to each social problem; their score was based on the variety of strategies they mentioned, and children who play-fought regularly tended to score much better.

    Pellegrini does question, however, how much cause and effect one can glean from these studies. "What does play do? Is it the vanguard of learning something ? so does play precede those sorts of skills ? or is it merely practice or consolidation of skills that are already developing?" he asks. Although no one knows, "either way, at some level, it would be beneficial," he concludes.

    Does lack of play, then, impede the development of problem-solving skills? Perhaps, according to animal studies. In a paper published in Developmental Psychobiology in 1978, experimenters separated young rats by mesh partitions ? they could see, smell and hear other rats but could not play with them ? for the 20 days during development when they would have most frequently played. The researchers taught these rats, and a group that had been allowed to play without constraints, to pull a rubber ball out of the way to get a food treat. A few days later they switched the setup so the rats would have to push the same ball to get the treat. The isolated rats took much longer to try new approaches, and thus solve the problem, than did the rats that had played. The authors speculate that through play, animals learn to try new things, and animals that do not play simply do not acquire this same behavioral flexibility.

    Playing also appears to help with language development, according to a 2007 study in the Archives of Pediatrics & Adolescent Medicine. Researchers at the University of Washington gave a box of toy blocks to children from middle- and low-income families aged 18 months to two and a half years. Parents of these kids, as well as parents of a similar group of kids who had no blocks, kept track of how often the children played. After six months, the kids who had played with blocks scored significantly higher on language tests than the others did. The researchers are not sure, however, whether these improvements resulted from playing with blocks per se ? because by playing with blocks, the youngsters were spending less time in unproductive activities such as watching television.

    But why might play help kids excel? Animal researchers believe that play serves as a kind of training for the unexpected. "Play is like a kaleidoscope," says evolutionary biologist Marc Bekoff of the University of Colorado at Boulder, in that it is random and creative. The bottom line, he posits, is that play encourages flexibility and creativity that may, in the future, be advantageous in unexpected situations or new environments. Some child psychologists, such as Tufts University child development expert David Elkind, agree. Play is "a way in which children learn," Elkind says, "and in the absence of play, children miss learning experiences."

    Let Loose

    If play is so crucial, what happens to children who are not playing enough? Ultimately, no one knows ? but many psychologists are worried. Because play is somewhat risky ? animals that are not alert and watchful are at risk of being attacked by predators ? it probably evolved and persists because it confers survival advantages. "If it wasn't important, it wouldn't have evolved in

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    its elaborate form," Bekoff says.

    Indeed, evidence indicates that play is evolutionary quite ancient. Rats that have had their neocortex removed ? a large brain region that is involved in higher-order thinking such as conscious thought and decision making ? still engage in normal play, which suggests that play motivation comes from the brain stem, a structure that precedes the evolution of mammals. "This means that the core, geneticallyprovided circuitry for play is situated in very ancient regions of the brain," explains Panksepp, who led the experiment in 1994.

    Of course, many parents today believe they are acting in their kids' best interests when they swap free play for what they see as valuable learning activities. Some mothers and fathers may also hesitate to let their kids play outside unattended, and they may fret about the possibility of the scrapes and broken bones that sometimes arise during play fighting or rambunctious fantasy play, says Sergio M. Pellis, a behavioral neuroscientist at the University of Lethbridge in Alberta. Although those instincts are natural, protecting kids "simply defrays those costs to later, when those same children will have difficulty in dealing with an unpredictable, complex world," Pellis says. "A child who has had a rich exposure to social play experiences is more likely to become an adult who can manage unpredictable social situations."

    Parents should let children be children ? not just because it should be fun to be a child but because denying youth's unfettered joys keeps kids from developing into inquisitive, creative creatures, Elkind warns. "Play has to be reframed and seen not as an opposite to work but rather as a complement," he says. "Curiosity, imagination and creativity are like muscles: if you don't use them, you lose them."

    Studies show that children use more sophisticated language when playing with other children than when playing with adults. They have to provide contextual clues.

    By age 23, more than one third of kids who had gone to play-free preschools had been arrested for a felony as compared with fewer than one tenth of play-oriented preschool alums.

    Through play, animals learn to try new things. Animals that do not play simply do not acquire this same behavioral flexibility.

    FAST FACTS Go Ahead, Horse Around

    Childhood play is crucial for social, emotional and cognitive development.
    Imaginative and rambunctious "free play," as opposed to games or structured activities, is the most essential type.
    Kids and animals that do not play when they are young may grow into anxious, socially maladjusted adults.
    All Work and No Play ...
    Although researchers usually emphasize the positive effect of play on the developing brain, they have found that play is important for adults, too. Without play, adults may end up getting burned

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    out from the "hustle-bustle busyness that we all get involved in," says Marc Bekoff, an evolutionary biologist at the University of Colorado at Boulder. Adults who do not play may end up unhappy and exhausted without understanding exactly why.

    So how can adults get more play into their lives? Stuart Brown, psychiatrist and founder of the National Institute for Play in Carmel Valley, Calif., suggests three ways:

    ? Body play

    Participate in some form of active movement that has no time pressures or expected outcome (if you are exercising just to burn fat, that is not play!).

    ? Object play

    Use your hands to create something you enjoy (it can be anything; again, there doesn't have to be a specific goal).

    ? Social play

    Join other people in seemingly purposeless social activities, "from small talk to verbal jousting," Brown suggests.

    If you are still not sure what to do, try to remember what you enjoyed doing as a child. "Find your childhood play's 'true north'" and try to translate those memories into activities that fit the current circumstances, Brown says. You might even spark your memory better if you spend a little time around kids, notes Gordon M. Burghardt, an evolutionary biologist at the University of Tennessee.

    Ultimately, what matters is not how you play but that you play. And to make sure you do, schedule time in your day for it, Bekoff suggests. "Work will always get done," he says. "In fact, I know that if I don't play, I really don't get more work done." And, Burghardt adds, the happiness and renewed energy you will experience from playing will "more than compensate for the time 'lost.'" ? M.W.

    PHOTO (COLOR): When animals play, their body language signals that any nipping or tumbling is meant to be friendly and fun. Play similarly teaches kids to better communicate with one another.

    PHOTO (COLOR): Dressing up and pretending to be someone else is a type of "free play," as psychologists call it ? the unstructured, imaginative fun that is most challenging to the developing brain.

    PHOTO (COLOR): Many children (especially boys) like to engage in mock fighting, or rough-and- tumble play. By constantly alternating who is "winning" the fight, they learn give-and-take and other social skills. Such roughhousing has even been shown to improve creativity and problem- solving abilities.

    PHOTO (COLOR): One study found that kids who played with blocks scored higher on language tests than kids who had no blocks. Perhaps the children with blocks simply spent less time on

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    unproductive activities such as watching TV ? but the end result was good for them in any case.

    PHOTO (COLOR): Far from engaging in mindless destruction, children who explore everyday objects by playing with them in unusual (albeit occasionally messy) ways are developing their creativity.

    (Further Reading)

    ? The Genesis of Animal Play: Testing the Limits. Gordon M. Burghardt. MIT Press, 2005.

    ? Play = Learning: How Play Motivates and Enhances Children's Cognitive and Social-Emotional Growth. Edited by Dorothy G. Singer, Roberta Michnick Golinkoff and Kathy Hirsh-Pasek. Oxford University Press, 2006.

    ? Rough-and-Tumble Play and the Development of the Social Brain. Sergio M. Pellis and Vivien C. Pellis in Current Directions in Psychological Science, Vol. 16, No. 2, pages 95-98; April 2007.

    ? Play in Evolution and Development. Anthony D. Pellegrini, Danielle Dupuis and Peter K. Smith in Developmental Review, Vol. 27, No. 2, pages 261-276; June 2007.

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    By Melinda Wenner

    MELINDA WENNER is a freelance science writer based in Brooklyn.

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  • DD Is in a center-daycare, but they have a very school like focus. She's learning how to write letters, numbers, and they have a different theme for each month.

    September has been all about me month - they've drawn self portraits, family photos, their pets, their homes, etc. DD loves writing/coloring/etc so she loves it.

    They have songs that go with writing the letters and numbers, and songs that go with how to spell colors.

    R-E-D red, I can spell red. Firetrucks are red, stop signs are red too. ETC

    For each letter and number they have tracing sheets they get so they can trace over the letters/numbers to start learning how to write them.

  • I don't want to quote susanmosley's super long article, but ITA. At this age, I would much rather DS create 50 different ways to play with blocks rather than spout off the periodic table of elements.

    And LOL at all of the insinuations that some children would need "more". More rote memorization?  

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  • I used to teach pre-k but recently went back to work and they have me teaching preschool this year because that was all that was available.

    We don't have any goals that are preset but I expect my kids to leave my room knowing at least half to most of their letters and sounds, all their colors, know the numbers 1-10, count to 30 and the days of the week (from calendar work), understand rhyming, patterns, opposites, shapes. Know how to walk in a line, how to use their manners, share, ask for help when appropriate and respecting themselves, the teacher and their friends. We cover a lot more material but moreso as an introduction rather than to master it.

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    We don't have any goals that are preset but I expect my kids to leave my room knowing at least half to most of their letters and sounds, all their colors, know the numbers 1-10, count to 30 and the days of the week (from calendar work), understand rhyming, patterns, opposites, shapes. Know how to walk in a line, how to use their manners, share, ask for help when appropriate and respecting themselves, the teacher and their friends. We cover a lot more material but moreso as an introduction rather than to master it.

    This is what DD came out of her 3s class with.  Now in her 4s/preK it is slightly more structured and they are starting to learn letters, but she's starting to know letter sounds and she's confidently written her name 2x in the last week.  (the letters are all over the page. ... but they are legible).  At a birthday party this weekend, I was watching her play with her friends and she/they were really good at taking turns and regulating their play w/ very little input from the adults.  I think those are supposed to be the goals of preschool, developing independence and autonomy and learning how to be a friend/classmate, etc. a responsible part of a community.

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