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Update to NT results

Thank you for everyone's support and reassurance.  We received even worse news today.  Our baby's NT scan measurement was 4.5.  I am scheduled for a CVS on Monday.  The perinatologist thought that the risk for a chromosomal abnormality was worse than 1:5, and even if the CVS was normal, there was still a high risk for a congenital heart defect.  He gave our baby odds of 10% for a normal outcome.  I am absolutely heartbroken and devastated.  The hopeful part of me is thinking that perhaps the doctor is a naysayer and gave us worse than expected outcomes.  The other part of me is trying to come to terms with the 10% odds he has given our baby.  
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Re: Update to NT results

  • I am sorry to read this update. Hopefully that even if your baby has a congenital heart defect, that it is one of the more common and highly treatable ones that does not jeopradize the life of your baby. There are more than 40 different kinds of congenital heart defects, some worse than others. FX that your CVS goes well and that your miracle is in the 10%. ((HUGS))
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  • Thank you benoitfan for your very kind response and good wishes.
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  • I am sorry to hear this, I can't imagine the stress and anxiety you are dealing with right now.  I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers that you will be in the lucky 10%.  Lots of hugs to you.

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  • Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear this. Everything's crossed that the CVS shows that you've beaten the odds.
  • Lots of hugs and prayers. I had the CVS yesterday so if you have any questions let me know. It just uncomfortable, but very brief.

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  • Prayers are with you.
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  • I am so, so sorry.  Hopefully the CVS will show better results.  Like the PP said, there are a lot of different things it could be or it could be nothing.  My thoughts are with you guys and I hate that you are going through this.  (((HUGS)))
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  • Fingers crossed for a good outcome for the CVS.

    I think some good news is that a heart defect can be found before the babe is born, so they can come up with a treatment plan in advance. I've known people born with heart defects, and even though it wasn't easy on their parents to send their newborn off to surgery, they are healthy adults now.

    ::Hugs:: I hope everything turns out ok.

  • I am so sorry you are going through this.  Sending lots of good thoughts and prayers your way and hope to hear good news from you soon....
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  • Oh no. I'm so sorry you got such scary news. I hope the cvs goes well and they are able to give you better news. Hugs.


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  • I'm so sorry about your update, just know that the Peri Dr. was just making an assumption based on a screening test not a diagnostic test, he has no way of knowing what the outcome will be. Praying  you get great news next week.
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  • I hope the doctor was just giving you a worse case scenario. We will keep you in our prayers for the next couple weeks and hope the CVS results come back just fine.
  • Here's hoping that the doctor was just being an alarmist.

    I will be saying prayers that the NT scan screening was not completely accurate for you. Hoping the CVS brings you some much needed and deserved good news.

    Saying many prayers.

     

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  • I am praying for you.  I feel like every woman who I have known has had some sort of bad scare at some point of the pregnancy.  Im sorry you have to go through this.
  • Thinking of you, and hoping that nine of these worst case scenarios play out for you and your lo. So sorry you ate going through this.

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  • Oh no, so very sorry.  Prayers for good news from the CVS! 
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  • Thank you for all of your kindness, prayers, and for sharing your personal experiences with me.  
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  • Oh, no. I read and responded to your earlier thread before I saw this one. I am so sorry you have to go through this and and crossing everything that the CVS will give you better news. As for congenital heart defects, I have two, a PFO and a bicuspid aortic valve, and I have lived a perfectly normal life, so CHDs can be not-so-severe in many cases, or easily treated with surgery. Hoping hard for a good outcome for your LO.
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  • Oh that is such difficult news- so sorry to hear this update. Prayers going out that if something is wrong - it is something that is manageable. 
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  • After being on these boards for a while, I have gotten the impression that a lot of peris/MFMs fall heavily on the naysayer side.  Like the PP said, the NT scan is a screening not a diagnosis.  My hopes are prayers are with you for a good CVS.  
  • Did your baby have a nasal bone? I'm so sorry you are going through this. I pray that everything is ok. I'm a peds rn and worked in cvicu. The heart defect av canal is seen in kids with down's syndrome but can also be seen in kids w/o down's as well.. It is repaired and the babies do well. I'm praying that your baby is healthy. You are un my prayers. I remember you from your first baby.
  • Our measurement was 3.5 and the odds were not good (cant remember the ratio) but CVS was completely normal so there is hope!
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