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New with a few questions

jjones59jjones59 member
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My H moved out today, well left and has his mom coming to pick up his stuff and I just don't know where to start. I'm not sure if I should be angry, upset, mad, sad.

 

Our daughter is just over a year, I lost my mom suddenly earlier this year and things have been stressful ever since. He was a drinker previously and thought we were on the mend and he was getting help but it seems that this is coming back. 

 

I just don't know where to start, I want what's best for my daughter but I just don't know what to do about my failing marriage. 

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Re: New with a few questions

  • keychain01keychain01
    Is your question were to start now that he left? Have you guys gone to counseling before this all went down and was it any help? Sometimes whats best for you and what you want are two totally different things. With not much to go one about your situation I would say talk to him first, figure out what is the problem. Maybe it can be fixed maybe not. But either way, you do deserve some answers (if you haven't already gotten them). GL!
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  • Antiffany5474Antiffany5474 member
    Well, I would start by putting my needs first because if you are not at your best, how can you be best for your daughter. Figure out your and your daughters needs to survive, get that figured out. Come up with a plan to your road of happiness and execute. Thats what I had to do. For so long I put everyone elses needs before mind and it just left me unhappy and alone. Well, in order to get a different outcome you need to try a different approach. Im sorry to hear about the loss of your Mother. Everything will fall in place, the quicker you get the ball to rolling the better...trust me. Be strong, pray and take time out for yourself. Dont be afraid to ask for help.
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