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TTC after 35
happywifemomofone
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This weeks sucks and it's only Monday! (NIFR)
happywifemomofone
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in TTC after 35
We went for lab work, urine test and such for our IVF cycle early next year. It has to be done yearly, and by 2013 it will all be out of date. Wanted to do that part early, so we can fix any problems now. That was the easy part of yesterday.
Then, MIL called. Her roommate (her brother) didn't pay his half of the rent. She talked to the property manager and they are going to be served with a 5 day notice today. Anyone know exactly what this means? She thinks that she will have to move within 5 days? We spent my entire day off shopping for condos and houses to rent. So much for my day off.....feel like I never even had a day off. If we cann't find her a place to live, then she might end up living here-which neither of us want. For once I am glad to go to work, and leave DH-who took day off-to shop for housing with his mother!!
TTC since 10/09
Me-43 DH-44
RE and testing 10/10-11/10, Recommending IVF
1/11 New RE
AMA and DOR-DH low motility
IVF #1.1 cancelled 3/11 due to poor response IVF #1.2 May 2011, one perfect 8-cell embryo, 3dt-BFN, IVF #2.1 Converted to IUI d/t poor response. New RE 9/2011. IVF 2.2 completed using HGH,EPP,DHEA, Q-10 and accupuncture. Transferred one 8-cell, grade one embryo on 10/19. BFP 10/31/11 Chemical pregancy on 11/2/11. Started stims for IVF #3, our final try, on 12-2-11. ET on 12/18. Transferred 3 Grade A embryos-BFFN Planning DE IVF, late March/early April- Donors ER expected to be 4/2-4/4.
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Re: This weeks sucks and it's only Monday! (NIFR)
I don't mean to sound harsh, but aren't your MIL and UIL adults? Why are you and DH tasked with finding MIL a new place? Is she not a grown-up? How did she raise a child? Children aren't supposed to have to deal with non-functioning parents until the parents have aged enough/are so sick that they can't take care of themselves...
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Oh how I wish this were true!
I feel your pain happywife. Good luck. I hope the solution presents itself soon.
1st BFP-8/17/12! Missed Miscarriage discovered @ 8 week US. D&C.
2nd BFP-2/13/13! Blighted Ovum discovered @ 8 week US. Natural miscarriage.
3rd BFP-5/22/13! By early June, progesterone plummeting. Another loss.
August 2013 - started Donor Egg process, but surprise BFP with my own eggs.
Dear Son born 5/28/14
If she wants to stay in her current place, I would think that she could talk to the mgmt company. If she is able to make the payment to get her account current, I can't imagine she would have to leave. The property company doesn't want to go through the expense of finding new renters, cleaning/painting/etc the new place, etc. Of course, there is a larger problem with whether her brother can make the payment (this month and into the future).
Good luck to you and your husband. Helping out parents can definitely be stressful.
Must be very sunny in your world Daniele....
Happywife-- usually a 5 day notice to quit is a 5 day notice before the landlord can start the eviction process. It's a court process where I live but I know state laws vary widely on tenant evictions. Are you trying to find MIL an apt by herself? I hope you can find something so she doesn't have to move in with you. My dad's mom lived with us when I was a teenager as she didn't have enough money to live on her own, plus she was very dependent on my dad to take care of things for her. It is really had to have someone else living in your house.
TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
DE IVF #3 1/14 ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d
DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!
K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days
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Yes, she is an adult. However, she is recently divorced after having her husband take care of her for 30 years. She has no credit, no money and unrealistic expectations about what she can affford. We are only helping because we are trying to find her adequate housing so we don't end up with her living with us. Unfortunately, we have the space....which is supposed to be for children, not MIL.
She talked to the property manager. She has to come up with $1600/mo to stay, and she can only afford half that. Looking for a new place in the $1100-$1200 range.
This is info I was looking for-thank you!
I really hope you are able to figure something out. Dh's dad lives with us...he has Parkinson's...dh took him in when he was first diagnosed (before we met) and has lived with him ever since. I thought I knew what I was getting into but over time it has become more and more difficult to put up with him. He is able to take care of himself and could live by himself in an apartment but he won't take the initiative to move out and dh doesn't have the heart to bring up the subject. Such a tough situation. TTTC has already been stressful enough but having him live with us almost sends me over the edge some days.