Apparently I'm whinny!

Ximena M · September 2012

I just finish checking out the GBCN board. Nice to know that when you private message someone it gets spread out to another board. I won't be going there. I have to say, I'm super hurt.

MarxieVonTrapp · September 2012

Don't blame you, Ximena. That sucks.

lindy27 · September 2012

Yeah, I saw that. I have no clue what happened but I thought they started the proboard because this one was drama, mean and had trolls.

The drama has already started over there, so go figure, I'm sure the trolls will show up soon.

smudgee · September 2012

Thats not very nice. Could you lead me toward the post?

MrsA71208 · September 2012

Well it sounded like your PM was ridiculous and uncalled for to me.

KatFCo · September 2012

MrsA71208:
Well it sounded like your PM was ridiculous and uncalled for to me.

We don't know exactly what was said--only how it was interpreted.

thadsrad · September 2012

You make horse noises?

Seriously, Ximena, I'm sorry that your feelings are hurt. That sucks, I've been there. But, you have to stop getting so emotionally wrapped up in an online forum. Tone and intention are incredibly hard to sense unless the writer is very good. Anonymity is a dangerous tool and people will use it.

All that said, the call out wasn't needed, but I'm not surprised that you sent that kind of PM.

MrsA71208 · September 2012

KatFCo:
MrsA71208:
Well it sounded like your PM was ridiculous and uncalled for to me.
We don't know exactly what was said--only how it was interpreted.

Very true. That's what I'm basing my comment on (obviously).

MrsA71208 · September 2012

thadsrad:
You make horse noises?
Seriously, Ximena, I'm sorry that your feelings are hurt. That sucks, I've been there. But, you have to stop getting so emotionally wrapped up in an online forum. Tone and intention are incredibly hard to sense unless the writer is very good. Anonymity is a dangerous tool and people will use it.
All that said, the call out wasn't needed, but I'm not surprised that you sent that kind of PM.

Agreed.

KatFCo · September 2012

thadsrad:
But, you have to stop getting so emotionally wrapped up in an online forum.

Isn't that exactly what all this is about? The reasons people are giving for leaving are all emotional. I'm not saying they shouldn't care about personal attacks, esp. such cruel ones from the troll, but I wouldn't single out Ximena for responding.

miniray · September 2012

mrs+harlow · September 2012

Ximena are you wanting an honest answer to most of your posts lately?

AmandaR204 · September 2012

That's too bad Ximena...hug!

eav2c · September 2012

I feel like we are all in the hunger games right now and that only the strong will survive. Maybe I should go back to gaming rather than forum writing.

thadsrad · September 2012

KatFCo:
thadsrad:
But, you have to stop getting so emotionally wrapped up in an online forum.
Isn't that exactly what all this is about? The reasons people are giving for leaving are all emotional. I'm not saying they shouldn't care about personal attacks, esp. such cruel ones from the troll, but I wouldn't single out Ximena for responding.

Yes, clearly Ximena isn't the only one acting on her emotions here! But, leaving the bump is a decision to try to change a situation you are unhappy with. I'm ok with that, even if I think the outcome is going to be crappy. I have witnessed Ximena get super upset on here before, but not do anything to change the situation (leave, new attitude, carefully explained positions, blocking people, etc.)

jacka02 · September 2012

If your super hurt, i would reach out to her. Her feelings were obviously hurt as well, which is why she posted that.

ChelseyB5186 · September 2012

Tongue Tied

adrianacastro08 · September 2012

Wow...now theres cross board drama? I'm officially confused

ImThisBabysMom · September 2012

adrianacastro08:
Wow...now theres cross board drama? I'm officially confused

Of course. Just like the FB groupies that hate us.

Ximena M · September 2012

thadsrad:
KatFCo:
thadsrad:

But, you have to stop getting so emotionally wrapped up in an online forum.

Isn't that exactly what all this is about? The reasons people are giving for leaving are all emotional. I'm not saying they shouldn't care about personal attacks, esp. such cruel ones from the troll, but I wouldn't single out Ximena for responding.

Yes, clearly Ximena isn't the only one acting on her emotions here! But, leaving the bump is a decision to try to change a situation you are unhappy with. I'm ok with that, even if I think the outcome is going to be crappy. I have witnessed Ximena get super upset on here before, but not do anything to change the situation (leave, new attitude, carefully explained positions, blocking people, etc.)

I think I aways try to explain my position clearly. I really don't feel the need to do more than that. The comments I've made lately that are coming to my mind where in showing empathy for another poster(s). If that's wrong than so be it.

I'm not leaving and whats the point of blocking people when you can read the tree quotas?

Ximena M · September 2012

AmandaR204:
That's too bad Ximena...hug!

Thanks Amanda!

Ximena M · September 2012

jacka02:
If your super hurt, i would reach out to her. Her feelings were obviously hurt as well, which is why she posted that.

I was trying to keep stuff between her and I which is way I PM her. Maybe I will contact her when I'm not so pissed. It just seems to me that taking it public was uncalled for.

ImThisBabysMom · September 2012

If someone PM'd me and I felt like they were rude/biitchy/uncalled for....I'd tell my internet friends here about it too. I don't think she's in the wrong for saying how she felt about it. You posted that she was talking about you on proboards....how is that really any different?

ChelseyB5186 · September 2012

I'm not trying to be snarky here, but I thought you were taking a break? I thought the point of people taking a bump break was to get away from the drama, and not let it bother you as much...?

I don't want to hurt your feelings Ximena, but from what I gathered (from what Honcho wrote) and you coming on here and complaining publicly about it, it's only going to cause more upset, ya know?

I'm sorry your feelings were hurt, but I think your PM really bothered Honcho, and she did basically the same thing you are doing now.

Ximena M · September 2012

ImThisBabysMom:
If someone PM'd me and I felt like they edge rude/biitchy/uncalled for....I'd tell my internet friends here about it too. I don't think she's in the wrong for saying how she felt about it. You posted that she was talking about you on proboards....how is that really any different?

I'm not taking quotos out of a conversation. My bad for thinking it is better to handle something in private not in public. I was obviously wrong and will just put it out there, as I am now. I'm doing it on another board just because mike moved over there.

MrsA71208 · September 2012

ChelseyB5186:
I'm not trying to be snarky here, but I thought you were taking a break? I thought the point of people taking a bump break was to get away from the drama, and not let it bother you as much...?
I don't want to hurt your feelings Ximena, but from what I gathered (from what Honcho wrote) and you coming on here and complaining publicly about it, it's only going to cause more upset, ya know?
I'm sorry your feelings were hurt, but I think your PM really bothered Honcho, and she did basically the same thing you are doing now.

Yes

nikki.rzez · September 2012

Maybe the board should be split up.

adrianacastro08 · September 2012

ChelseyB5186:
I'm not trying to be snarky here, but I thought you were taking a break? nbsp;I thought the point of people taking a bump break was to get away from the drama, and not let it bother you as much...? nbsp;I don't want to hurt your feelings Ximena, but from what I gathered from what Honcho wrote and you coming on here and complaining publicly about it, it's only going to cause more upset, ya know?I'm sorry your feelings were hurt, but I think your PM really bothered Honcho, and she did basically the same thing you are doing now.nbsp;

Oh it was mikehoncho! Oh dear...there are some people I just wouldn't mess with. Honcho, ateal, amanda come to mind. They would totally bish slap the crap out of me! Lol....said with love of course ;

adrianacastro08 · September 2012

Burp

Ximena M · September 2012

My point of taking a break is to spend more time on my art. I was feeling a little annoyed, and it seemed like a good time. I'm not going to take a break, but I will spend less time here.

smudgee · September 2012

So I found and read the post. I would have probably done the same thing. If someone PM'sd me saying what you said... I would also tell others.

People forget THIS IS THE INTERNET. It is NOT full of unicorns, puppies and rainbows like I pretend it to be.

Lets put on our big girl pants.

Did you not realize that she was bullied yesterday for no apparent reason? And you piggybacked upon it by sending a condescending pm's....

Musiclover2012 · September 2012

wow, I am missing all kinds of things. I have no idea what is going on here.

Ximena M · September 2012

Ximena M:
My point of taking a break is to spend more time on my art. I was feeling a little annoyed, and it seemed like a good time. I'm not going to take a break, but I will spend less time here.

On top of that I woke this morning and realized that I would like to get some feedback on my mammogram that I will be having today. So sue me if my bumpcation was short.

snoangel79 · September 2012

eav2c:
I feel like we are all in the hunger games right now and that only the strong will survive. Maybe I should go back to gaming rather than forum writing.

I'm stronger than any troll and we own a lot of weapons here hahaha so I'll stay FTT!! (f the trolls!)

ETA: and lots of rice and beans if the end comes haha my H is nuts...

Daniellemf1228 · September 2012

smudgee:
So I found and read the post. I would have probably done the same thing. If someone PM'sd me saying what you said... I would also tell others.
People forget THIS IS THE INTERNET. It is NOT full of unicorns, puppies and rainbows like I pretend it to be.
Lets put on our big girl pants.
Did you not realize that she was bullied yesterday for no apparent reason? And you piggybacked upon it by sending a condescending pm's....

Not that any of us need more drama but where is this post, I am lurking over there... Seems just as much drama there as here...

geekychic · September 2012

Daniellemf1228:
smudgee:
So I found and read the post. I would have probably done the same thing. If someone PM'sd me saying what you said... I would also tell others.
People forget THIS IS THE INTERNET. It is NOT full of unicorns, puppies and rainbows like I pretend it to be.
Lets put on our big girl pants.
Did you not realize that she was bullied yesterday for no apparent reason? And you piggybacked upon it by sending a condescending pm's....
Not that any of us need more drama but where is this post, I am lurking over there... Seems just as much drama there as here...

It is in my don't go post

meowtamb1234 · September 2012

Shes a horse! Burrrrp

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