Have you thought about the things you will/will not do for your next pregnancy/baby (if you plan to have more kids?) I have a list running my head!
*Find a pool and LIVE IN IT! I was so miserable without pool access this summer, I seriously do not want to get pregnant again until I know I'll have easy access to a pool, lol.
*Buy a glider- we absolutely did not have room in this apartment but we are moving next summer and I MUST live somewhere with room for one.
*Do more OWT stuff- I didn't do much of anything and I ended up having to be induced. Next I will probably try a few more OWT things, even though they probably won't work, like acupuncture or the red raspberry leaf tea.
Re: Next pregnancy, I will....
YES! It's tempting to time my pregnancy for the same time of year so I can wear all the same clothes, but not being so miserable during the hot months might be nice, too....
Together since 5/08 ~ Married 6/19/10 ~ TTC #1 since 8/10
BFP#1 3/26/11 ~ EDD 12/2/11 ~ Ectopic Twins left tube 7w3d
BFP#2 11/2/11 ~ EDD 7/14/12 ~ Robert Edgar born 7/18/12
BFP#3 9/28/13 ~ EDD 5/20/14 ~ Benjamin Clarence born 5/15/14
Eat healthier and excercise more!
Enjoy it!
Next pregnancy, I'd like to go with a midwife instead of doctors. The doctors and nurses at my maternity clinic and the hospital were great - but I'd really like the more personal experience of a midwife.
I will also try to exercise more. I was so exhausted in the 1st tri and I experienced some spotting so I just stuck to walking and prenatal yoga. I wish I did a little jogging etc and then maybe it would be easier to get back into shape now!
I will make myself do this as well. It was my intent to do it for this pregnancy but I was so sick and miserable so much of the time that I couldn't bring myself to do it most weeks.
Also, if I am sick next pregnancy I won't wait so long to demand medication for it.
And finally, when I go into labor I vow that I will not tell my mother until after the baby is born and we are home. She showed up at the hospital uninvited and threw a fit when she was asked (nicely) to leave when things got intense. She was told throughout my entire pregnancy that she would not be in the room and she seemed completely cool with it but then acted like a crazy person and stressed me and DH out while I was in labor. She ruined it for herself next time.
If possible I would like to have a baby in March or April. It was too hot and I wanted to die in July.
Also, eat healthier the whole pregnancy. I did great until about 35 weeks. I was gross and I keep thinking if I didn't eat like a pig in the end I would probably be back at my normal weight by now.
BFP #1 on cycle 19, 6/13/09, blighted ovum discovered on 8/3/09
BFP #2 3/1/10 yay for seeing the baby and seeing hb at 6w! Found at on 4/26/10 that the baby had stopped growing at 7w
BFP #3 11/19/11
Baby Boy Bruce born 7/21/12
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This! I'm the first to admit, I ate way too much, especially in the beginning when everyone else was losing weight due to m/s. I'm grateful that I felt great during first tri, but damn, I really should have layed off the carbs and filled up with fruits and veggies instead. Next go round, I'll do a lot of Pilates to try to avoid all the yucky joint stiffness towards the end and during the postpartum phase, and to prevent excessive weight gain. I will also, like many said, actually ENJOY my entire pregnancy instead of being in tears the entire first tri thinking something was wrong.
For me it is a lot things already posted. I would like to have LO #2 outside of the months of April-September, but not because of the heat. DH works for a baseball team and for the most part I am a single mom during the season.
I will NOT waste money on maternity clothes. Not that I won't buy more, but now I know what I think is flattering on my pregnant body and what isn't so I won't buy things that make me feel like a blob.
I definitely too plan to exercise more. After I was taken off restrictions early in the pregnancy I was pretty diligent about exercising until our elliptical broke (with 6 weeks to go) and then we had the heat wave so walking was out of the question after that I just got lazy