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Daniellemf1228 · September 2012

I know this is a public forum and no one has control over who is involved but am I actually welcome here anymore? I did not mean to cause drama and I feel that irregardless of what came of my confession I dealt with everything fairly well. As far as any comments I may or may not have liked I did (in my opinion) become mean or even say much back other than that first fffc response.

If my being here now will cause drama or get people pissy, Ill leave. I just would rather know than post and possibly cause issue because its the last thing I want right now.

That being said I appreciated everyones concern and though I may not have loved everyones comment the only issue I had with "that" comment was in response to my defense with AmandaR. It had nothing to do with my issue which I know not everyone will understand.

I just wanted to get it off my chest in light of mrs+harlow's post and it was on my mind...

Ok, I am not trying to start s*hit up again I just want to know where I lie as far as this board because most of you I truly enjoy.

imimahoney · September 2012

Oh Danielle, of course you are welcome here. I don't have time to keep up with all of the drama (nor do I really care to) but you are not to blame.

I love seeing your beautiful girl in your posts and I look forward to reading what you have to say. Please stick around

MikeHoncho · September 2012

I don't know why you would think you aren't welcome here anymore. I said it in the original thread and I'll say it again, I don't have a problem with you, I don't think anyone does. I wasn't trying to be a d!ckhead at all and I'm sorry if you interpreted it that way. I don't know why you would think you are unwelcome.

Daniellemf1228 · September 2012

MikeHoncho:
I don't know why you would think you aren't welcome here anymore. I said it in the original thread and I'll say it again, I don't have a problem with you, I don't think anyone does. I wasn't trying to be a d!ckhead at all and I'm sorry if you interpreted it that way. I don't know why you would think you are unwelcome.

I didn't say you had an issue. I just mean what resulted from everything. All got completely out of hand and...I just regret saying things now

lauranicole91 · September 2012

You are waaay more than welcome to be here!

Don't leeeeave!

Seriously. I know I was in creeper lurk mode for the past week, but I just wanted to say in the most generic way, that causes the least amount of more drama, that you should know you have support here as well as others IRL if you were able to work up the courage to seek help. ((hugs))

Yay for run-on sentences!

ImThisBabysMom · September 2012

From what I have read, the drama isn't about you at all. It could have been anyone's post, ya know?

metucker · September 2012

I don't know why you would think you aren't welcome. I just hope you understand that people were trying to give you a helpful push, not bully you in any way. When you put that info out there, it's really hard to sit back and let someone do that to themselves, especially when those closest to them IRL don't know about it. I can't possibly think why anyone would have a problem with you posting. You didn't cause any drama. But at the same time, I hope you wouldn't have a problem with us saying things to you about it. I am going to leave it alone now because I don't think you want "advice." But if you ever decide you would like more than just someone to listen, people will be there for you then as well.

smudgee · September 2012

DO NOT GO.

You are a wonderful addition to this board.

It is not your FFFC or your repsonses/ actions that got many peoples underwears in knots. It is the immaturity of others. Others being those who look down upon others and wanting to make themselves feel good by trying to "point" out the faults in others posts/ pictures/ UO's/ FFFC's when there truly are'nt faults there.

You will have a PM from ME in about 3 minutes.... not that a PM from me is all that special, but you get one anyway.

Yay!

metucker · September 2012

I just saw your response and I'm sorry you regret saying something. The resulting drama was about ED as a whole, not YOU.

And I really love your new sig pic. It's adorable.

gisa886 · September 2012

I agree with all that was said. Don't go.

dojo1 · September 2012

Get out!........

Of town. Of course you're still welcome. So is everyone. Except maybe Momma Boden. I think even BJ Barbie might have been able to weather the storm if she admitted what she did was wrong and disgusting and had broader shoulders. Naynay for sure could have stayed. There should be no question in your mind that you are welcome.

ChelseyB5186 · September 2012

I really see no reason why anyone would expect/want you to leave. People are concerned for you Danielle, plain and simple. This is a community of women with beautiful babies and experiences in common that care about each other. Maybe you weren't asking for help, but when someone (at least I know I do) hears that someone they care about is potentially putting their life in danger, they want to protect, they want to comfort, they *want* to help that person. I know MikeHoncho didn't mean any disrespect, and many may not agree with the way she said her peace, but I believe it came from a place of good, and you have to see that. All the emotion and issues following also came from a place of "we want you to be ok" , I believe. It's a sensitive subject, there is going to be friction. However, I don't think you should leave. I think this place is ABSOLUTELY a great place for you to be. Like it's been said before, there are many, many women here that can help you, or be there for you that have been in your shoes, and I think you should take full advantage of that and stick around.

Daniellemf1228 · September 2012

metucker:
I just saw your response and I'm sorry you regret saying something. The resulting drama was about ED as a whole, not YOU.
And I really love your new sig pic. It's adorable.

Thank you! Some lady tricked us into buying the hat. We were at the farmers market and she was selling her hats and just stuck one on her head to say how cute it looked. We got suckered in!

And in response to everyone else... Thanks, I just wanted to make sure if I post in the future (because I will due to my lack of a social calendar) I don't want to get the side eye and no responses

huahualove · September 2012

I think you are more welcome as ever. You didn't cause any issues at all so don't worry. You said, nor did anything wrong and I'm pretty sure everyone likes you here, and if they don't then it doesn't matter. I didn't read other responses yet, but I'm guessing everyone is going to say close to the same thing.

katieh1017 · September 2012

I have read everything, not commented but there is no reason why you would not be welcome here. You've always just been yourself and that is a great thing to have on this board.

hass2001 · September 2012

I'm late to everything (as usual). That is why I haven't posted anything yet on the FFFC or the follow up threads as I just got finished getting caught up. But please don't go. You are most definitely welcome. I hope eventually you can find the help and support that you need. FWIW, we are here for you!

jacka02 · September 2012

Hell no please don't gochanting voice

But really, you said yourself that this board means a lot to you because you do not have a lot of adult interaction. I think it's good for you to stay.

adrianacastro08 · September 2012

Ditto everyone here. I'm sorry it all turned into so much drama. But I think the drama was triggered by your post, but not really about you at all, if that makes sense. Anyway, stick around!

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