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April 2012 Moms
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Tell me about your first time
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If your first time was due to a rape or molestation then tell us about your first time with your baby daddy...or your first real BF.
This is just a GTKY thread I hope no one gets all offended by how personal it is...u don't have to share if your not comfortable.
Mine was with my first real BF when I was 17 it was on May 8th 2005...lol I remember the date. I was attracted to his thick accent soft hands and the smell of cologne and cigarettes on him. He was 20 and we did it in his bed after 4months of dating...it was uncomfortable but not unpleasant. There was blood EVERYWHERE I was horrified it was all over him, me and the sheets. I had never used a tampon or been fingered before that so I was so scared. We broke up after because my dad found out I had a bf and was threatening him. I saw him on my bachelorette party at the bar...he actually cried and begged me not to get married. akwarddd.................!
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Re: Tell me about your first time
I was 16 yrs old. I don't remember the exact date, but know it was around Christmas time. My BF came over during the day (we were out for Christmas break), we told my sisters we were wrapping Christmas presents in my room, and DTD in my bedroom floor. I don't remember much about it either. Once my mom found out we were having sex, $hit hit the fan!! We stayed together for a while longer, but broke up before summer break.
lol cuteness
wrapping presents huh! lol so daring when ur parents are home.. what a badass
Mine is not super exciting. It was with H on our wedding night. We'd fooled around before, but that was the first time we sealed the deal. A choir of angels sang and Jesus opened up my place in heaven. j/k.
It didn't hurt, no bleeding or anything.
Hrm...I think I was 17. I know it was either January or February, so I could have ben 16 going on 17. We were both each others first. I was one of the "I'm going to save it until marriage" but he was my first love and I decided it was okay. It was about 7 months after we started dating. It was pretty bad. I remember being so nervous laying on his futon under him. He finished so quick that I got absolutely nothing out of it and I'm sure my face showed it. All I remember thinking was...that was it? That was what I've been waiting for?! hahaha. Eventually we became like rabbits to the point where his mother would knock on the door and if we didn't answer she would just tell us to "come down when we were finished." Oh god we were so ridiculous. I wasn't ever that bold with any other boyfriend after, haha.
ETA: There was no bleeding or pain.
Sam and I had tried the weekend before, but he was nervous, and unable to perform. We were 16, in love as teenagers are, and were in boarding school.
After a moving talk from Holocaust survivor and Nobel laureate Elie Weisel (it was Diversity Weekend: Judaism Edition) on a snowy Saturday in April, Sam and I went back up to his dorm room and laid down on the bottom bunk (his bunk). He put on the condom and then sort of slid into the ass tunnel that your butt makes with the mattress. About 12 seconds later, he was like, "that was amazing." I remember thinking, "I will NOT leave this room a virgin" so, with a 16-year-old's amazing refractory period, we were able to give it a go about ten minutes later. I guided him into the right place and about .12 seconds later, it was over.
It was fine. It wasn't epic, but I'm glad I cashed in my v-card to Sam, and that he cashed it into me. And we were together for a few months afterwards.
But when we ran into each other in our early 20s, we proved how much we had learned. Oh, yeah.
ETD: no bleeding, no pain
mm 2/17/11 * dd born 4/20/12 * bo 1/3/14 * edd 1/21/ 1/15
My parents were out of town for a week to find a house since we were moving in a month. My BF and i had been dating for a few months, I was 14 and a freshman in hs, he was 17 and a junior. We've had lots of heavy makeout sessions but both were virgins, so not much foreplay ever went on. With my parents being gone he would walk me home from school and stay with me for awhile to keep me company. One day we both had a talk about having sex and it was mutual that we wanted to be each others first. We were both in Jazz band, he was a drummer and I was a dorky clarinet player. We had a basketball game to go to later that evening for jazz band, so we decided that right after school would be the best time to have sex. There was no making out, we just did it. I remember saying "Ow, ow, ow!" everytime he gave a thrust. It hurt very bad for me, but it was over in 10 seconds. He said he didn't even get 1/4 of the way in. I bet we would have been more successful if I had actually been turned on and more relaxed. Over the course of my last month before moving away, we tried a couple more times. The last time we did it was the better since he actually was able to go all the way in. There was no blood or anything any of the times we tried and I was terrified it would be all over the place. Looking back I was waaay too young to even consider having sex, but he was a very nice guy who had manners, was liked by my parents, and had goals in life. He was the perfect guy to lose my virginity to.
I was 18, it was horrible. My first 'boyfriend' who I didn't like at all but because he gave me attention I responded. He kept telling me that we needed to dtd and I gave in. He wanted me on top and I had trouble figuring it out. He told me I was doing it wrong, stood up, got dressed and left. The next day he broke up with me over myspace.
Honestly that led to a few years of trying to validate myself with promiscuity. I didn't dtd with these guys but there were quite a few bj's involved. All ended in lower and lower self esteem.
Sex still makes me uncomfortable.
Heres an Internet hug. That guy was a doucecanoe!