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Momma never warned me about days like this!

danieleandwaynedanieleandwayne member
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Today is MH's and my 3rd anniversary. Now, for me, I've always felt that anniversaries, birthdays, etc. are mandatory sexy-times. And that has never been a problem before-- I have always been happy to follow that rule of mine.

But this month, tonight would be the 14th night in a row of sexy time. After 18 times last month. I'm soooooo not in the mood right now. Which is probably exactly why I should make sure I do something fun/special for MH tonight. 

I guess I'm just whining and throwing a little pity party for myself... *sigh* Thanks for listening...

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"You have to do your own growing no matter how tall your grandfather was." 
        -- Abraham Lincoln
 

                           Me:39  MH:39 
DD born 6/1/2013 after 15 months of TTC with one loss.    
TTC #2: BFP 4/22 but stalled growth and no HB at 9w3d on 5/30        

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Re: Momma never warned me about days like this!

  • LlamamamaLlamamama member

    Oh I completely feel your pain..

    While dh and I are only on the "every other night" plan, I think because we have been TTC for 36 months--this month has been particularly hard to "get in the mood".  Last night I was so tired (in general AND of TTC) that we put in the least amount of effort possible to get the job done.  Today FF told me I O'd 5 days ago..I have never been so happy to know I can just go to bed tonight.

    I think tonight you should give yourself a break.  Make it all about celebrating your big day.  Dinner and a movie or just enjoying each others company..  Forget the TTC stuff.  Happy Anniversary!

    Me: 40 Dh: 41, TTC since August 2009, began Acupuncture and Herbs Sept 2011, began Temping and Charting Nov 2011. image
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  • BeckyP005BeckyP005 member

    Hey Happy Anniversary! My 3rd is on the 26th. I actually thought of you the other day when my RE said not to have sex..first because of estrogen then now because of Provera. It will be like 2 months! How would D&W survive....haaahaa.

    I agree with Llama...give yourself a break :)

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • robbensmrobbensm member
    I agree with the other ladies just go have fun with your Hubby and if you feel like dancing do but its ok to take a night off from TTC for a special occasion.
    Me 39 & suspected PCOS, DH 42. Went off BCP when we got married in 11/11, seriously TTC since 3/12.  Six cycles of clomid = BFNs.  Suspected endometriosis & HSG showed both tubes blocked.  Sept 2013 IVF 5D transfer of two perfect embryos = BFN.  Started acupuncture and taking time off to drop some pounds & get healthier before FET in April 2014.
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  • active1active1
    Happy anniversary! Hope it's enjoyable bd or not.
    Me 35. DH 35. Start TTC 06/12. DH
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