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No C&D and more denial.

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I have decided not to send SD a Cease and Desist letter. With MIL on meth, this very well could have been her story that she made up.  However, SD admitted to talking crap about me and H's aunt told me last night that SD has been telling MIL some pretty bad things about me and H.  Aunt says she does not believe a word and is keeping SD at arms length.

Tonite my hospitalized, meth addict MIL left a message on H's phone. Obviously she was on pain killers and her words are slurred, and sentences were short, but she tells H she's been in an accident, and then the very next sentence was: "NO drugs involved."

Okay lady. 

God give me the strength to get thru the next 2-3 months.

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Re: No C&D and more denial.

  • Littlejen222Littlejen222
    So where are you with everything? Are you guys still living together? Have divorce papers been issued or does that have to wait to be issued or just to be files? I hope you and DD are doing well.
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    We are still living together and for the most part playing nice. We have our ugly moments tho.

    Just waiting for the bankruptcy to get further along to a point that he can not compromise it because he's upset about the divorce. We have one more class to take and a bankruptcy court date in October. It should be over a week before Christmas.

    I have some revisions to make now on the proposed CO, but the temporary custody and divorce paperwork are ready to file and my first draft of the CO is ready to go.  I am going to be ready to roll and plan on filing right before Thanksgiving. 

    Mom & Dad and I are in discussion currently about where I will live after this. They want to buy something as an "investment"  for me to rent from them, and I want to do it on my own. I feel they have helped me more than enough already.  I may have to go live with them for a little while when I tell H I want a divorce.

    For now I am okay and DD is doing well. She's back in daycare, absolutely loves it, and learning so much. Pretty soon she'll be potty trained. We are good. I feel much better than I have in years, but have a way to go before I feel whole again.  I'm doing good tho. 

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    We are still living together and for the most part playing nice. We have our ugly moments tho.

    Just waiting for the bankruptcy to get further along to a point that he can not compromise it because he's upset about the divorce. We have one more class to take and a bankruptcy court date in October. It should be over a week before Christmas.

    I have some revisions to make now on the proposed CO, but the temporary custody and divorce paperwork are ready to file and my first draft of the CO is ready to go.  I am going to be ready to roll and plan on filing right before Thanksgiving. 

    Mom & Dad and I are in discussion currently about where I will live after this. They want to buy something as an "investment"  for me to rent from them, and I want to do it on my own. I feel they have helped me more than enough already.  I may have to go live with them for a little while when I tell H I want a divorce.

    For now I am okay and DD is doing well. She's back in daycare, absolutely loves it, and learning so much. Pretty soon she'll be potty trained. We are good. I feel much better than I have in years, but have a way to go before I feel whole again.  I'm doing good tho. 

    Hey J&K glad to hear you are doing well and DD is thriving.

    Hugs and well wishes xxx

    You're very brave and organised lol

    Well done, just keep telling yourself you deserve better than this x

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  • WahooWahoo member
    Glad you are moving forward with your life!
    image "Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self esteem, first make sure you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes.
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