I know this is so shallow, but totally something I've been thinking about lately. I'm having a home birth and have no clue what I'm going to wear. I wear yoga pants around the house and obviously can't give birth in those. I also don't really want to be totally naked or Donald Ducking it around the house. Ideally I'd get a nursing gown that is mid-thigh, cotton, and black with spaghetti straps, but I really can't justify spending $30 on such a shallow want, especially when we're so strapped for cash right now. If you don't have the option for a hospital gown, what are you planning to wear?
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Re: Shallow, stupid post - what will you wear to deliver
I will be at home, so I'll wear what's comfortable at the time. I have have Pretty Pushers gown to wear if I want, but I don't know if I will. I have given them to friends as gifts when they are birthing in the hospital or birth center and they love them. I found them on zulily for a good price.
https://prettypushers.com/
With DS1 and DS2, water births at birth centers, I wore my own nursing nightgown until I got naked for the tub. I didn't want to wear anything in the tub, nor did I care at that point about being naked.
Don't stress about it. You'll probably wear what you're already in/what you're comfortable in to labor around the house, and then by the time you're ready to deliver, you'll be fine with getting naked.
"Donald Ducking" hehehe, that's awesome!!!
I was naked when I delivered my son and didn't even notice or care. I did go to Target and get a thin spaghetti strap nightgown (which ever was on sale that day. I think it was about $4) and had it in my hospital bag so I would have an option. I think hospital gowns are too high in the neck.
This.
I posted earlier that I had a cotton shirred top dress to wear but I just bought a new dress today. I'd been looking at swim cover ups for quite some time and finally found one! I bought this at Dillards for $8. The fabric is really soft and comfortable and actually opens up completely in the middle, where the ruffle is is just a wrap and it doesn't connect to the other side of the skirt. I was super stoked to find it today. Just an FYI if anyone else is looking! It's the Dotti Seaside Smocked Ruffle Dress and I found it online for much more expensive. Love end of year sales!
I wore a huge summer sun dress (think muu-muu style) that went to the knees most of the time. When I wasn't wearing that I was wearing just a sports bra on top or absolutely nothing. I spent a lot of time naked, but around transition I suddenly felt the need to cover up (just for a couple hours--got rid of the dress for the pushing) so I was glad to have it.
Here's a pretty good pic of it (and my midwife holding my IV of GBS antibiotics up and my H feeding me chocolate)--if you have something like this I highly recommend it. If not, I think any flowy skirt would do with a sports bra or tank top on top.
I labored in maternity exercise pants (flowy 3/4 length pants) last pregnancy. I think I had on a tank top w/ bra. Then when I got to the hospital, they wanted to check me and I just stripped my pants (I was 9.5 cm dilated upon arrival, so pretty deep in labor) and left them off for the remaining few minutes before I pushed. Then I stripped my shirt as soon as baby was born to breastfeed & do skin to skin. They never even offered me a hospital gown it all went so fast.
This time, I bought a few comfy nursing clothes and sleep outfits (loose pants, easy to nurse tops) for the hospital. I just wore the gown last time, but it was kind of weird wearing the gown w/ visitors b/c of the boob holes in the hospital gowns :-) I wanted to look cute this time so I have like 3 outfits that are comfy (most important) but decent looking. I bought them at consignment shops so I didn't spend too much, esp since I know from last birth there is blood afterwards and you might not want to ruin a favorite outfit.
With LO#1 I anticipated that I'd have a big problem because I'm kind of a prude. I'm also picky about fabrics and didn't want anything scratchy from the hospital birth center.
Turns out, labor went really fast and I stripped entirely as I walked into the delivery room. Who knew?!
Not shallow at all! I thought about it as well.. but when labor hit (didn't realize it until I was almost 8 cms and then RAN to the hospital), I completely forgot my outfit at home. I could barely stand up, let alone try to find the cute yoga set I had picked out. To top things off, looking back at my delivery pictures, I now realize that I was pretty much naked for the whole thing. I have NO idea when that happened! Lol
Best of luck to you, mama!