I know quad testings/triple marker testing is generally optional for most people and at my last appointment my SO and I declined to have the test done because we don't have any predominate health/genetic factors that would cause an abnormality in the baby, and we would keep the baby even if there was a chromosomal disorder. Did any of you decline testing?
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Re: Did anyone decline quad testing?
I feel the same way you do! We declined it yesterday. My doctor said no worries you aren't the first and you won't be the last. He said the only reason he would push for it was if we had a family history.
I think it is such a personal decision. There is no right or wrong here. I choose not to because it wouldn't change much for us. I would end up worrying the whole pregnancy if something came back and there are so many false positives and negatives with it.
I see why people want to know so that they are prepared emotionally and with the right teams in place. I feel that I don't need that time to prepare and we are super close to all the right hospitals and people.
I totally understand preparing and if taking the test helps you to prepare by all means... but if you can prepare yourself without testing/knowing then I say it's okay not to test.
The only problem is if you are not prepared emotionally, medically, intellectually, for emergencies etc.
Nothing can prepare a parent for a child that has a small chance of survival outside of the womb whether you know what the testing says or not. (Some babies born with Downs will have dangerous heart problems.)
The choice to test or not to test for anything your baby is not at risk for is such a personal decision. There is no right answer.
We discussed it with our midwives and they "are okay with" anyone not at risk passing up a test. We passed up genetic testing knowing that we are "not at risk" but also knowing that some people who are "not at risk" still have a chance of genetic abnormalities.
We declined. Our OB totally supported the decision.
BFP1: DD1 born April 2011 at 34w1d via unplanned c/s due to HELLP, DVT 1 week PP
BFP3: DD2 born Feb 2013 at 38w4d via unplanned RCS due to uterine dehiscence
I have so far declined most things- at almost 16 weeks, all I've had done is a prenatal blood panel and UA done. I don't plan on any sonograms, unless my midwife feels there is a need for one (she usually doesn't). I'm not even sure if I'll do a glucose tolerance test- and if I do, she said I could just eat a candy bar and then she'd check me. If I'm still high after being tested, we're going to work on nutrition before starting any drugs.
I have LOVED her approach to my pregnancy so far- her laid back attitude has kept me so at ease. I'm not stressing about things like I would have, had I decided to have every possible test conducted. For our family, terminating a pregnancy isn't an option, so even if we found something that warranted further investigation, it wouldn't change much- just get us on the radar for early intervention/specialists/etc.
Don't stress about it- do what is right for your family, and don't worry about popular opinion.
Birdie, 4y
Jem, 3y
Vee, 1y
Baby Bee DUE April 2018