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lostinplanninglostinplanning member
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I believe the universe hates me right now..... I have been lurking for couple months now but after this weekend and this evening, I need to vent and my DH won't understand.

I am recovering from the blow of having a Chem.Preg....which hurt enough.  But I shook it off and went to work today ready to start over.  To only get a call from a coworker ( who she and I have never really gotten along she only talks to me when she wants something) saying that 1. She's pregnant and (which I am glad for her because I know she's wanted a baby for a while) 2. she has to go on bed rest so can I help her sub out.

 Really????......the universe hates me.

 

vent over 

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  • LlamamamaLlamamama member
    Yep the Universe can be a tough cookie.  I am so sorry about your CP.  And the slap in the face with your co worker.  :( 
    Me: 40 Dh: 41, TTC since August 2009, began Acupuncture and Herbs Sept 2011, began Temping and Charting Nov 2011. image
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  • happywifemomofonehappywifemomofone member
    Welcome to the group.  Sorry to read of your CP.  I know for me, I'd rather have a BFN than a BFP that's not going to last.....BFP are just too full of potential.  Seems that when you are TTC, every woman around you seems to be expecting.  Hope that it's your turn soon.
    TTC since 10/09 Me-43 DH-44 RE and testing 10/10-11/10, Recommending IVF 1/11 New RE AMA and DOR-DH low motility IVF #1.1 cancelled 3/11 due to poor response IVF #1.2 May 2011, one perfect 8-cell embryo, 3dt-BFN, IVF #2.1 Converted to IUI d/t poor response. New RE 9/2011. IVF 2.2 completed using HGH,EPP,DHEA, Q-10 and accupuncture. Transferred one 8-cell, grade one embryo on 10/19. BFP 10/31/11 Chemical pregancy on 11/2/11. Started stims for IVF #3, our final try, on 12-2-11. ET on 12/18. Transferred 3 Grade A embryos-BFFN Planning DE IVF, late March/early April- Donors ER expected to be 4/2-4/4. PAIF/SAIF welcome
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  • robbensmrobbensm member
    Vent away - that's one of the reasons why we are here.  Sorry to hear about your CP but welcome to the board and I hope your stay here with us is short.
    Me 39 & suspected PCOS, DH 42. Went off BCP when we got married in 11/11, seriously TTC since 3/12.  Six cycles of clomid = BFNs.  Suspected endometriosis & HSG showed both tubes blocked.  Sept 2013 IVF 5D transfer of two perfect embryos = BFN.  Started acupuncture and taking time off to drop some pounds & get healthier before FET in April 2014.
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